Do You Remember?

Freida McFadden

47 pages 1-hour read

Freida McFadden

Do You Remember?

Fiction | Novel | Adult | Published in 2022

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Character Analysis

Content Warning: This section of the guide includes discussion of illness and abuse.

Tess Strebel Thurman

As the novel’s dynamic protagonist, Tess begins the story unsure of who she is because she has lost her memory of the last seven years. Throughout the narrative, she slowly learns to trust her intuition, allowing it to guide her back to her sense of self and identity. Tess is the first-person narrator, describing events as they happen, which lends immediacy and intrigue to the story.


Tess struggles but usually fails to connect one day’s events to the next because her husband, Graham, drugs her every night. However, as she narrates the events and her feelings during each of the five days the novel depicts, her thought patterns and the behavioral patterns of other characters provide information. Tess may question her suspicion of Graham, for example, but readers can see that he lies to her without hesitation and seems to take pleasure in manipulating and discomfiting her, like he does with the pomegranate juice.


Against the advice of her best friend, Lucy, Tess started her own business—My Home Spa—after her partner, Harry, told her it was a “million dollar” idea. Readers learn through one of Tess’s flashbacks that the company was doing quite well, and she was a savvy, decisive, and confident businesswoman before her accident and cancer diagnosis a year ago. When she walked in on Graham and his secretary, she was already prepared to confront him about his embezzlement from her company and her intention to divorce him. During the “seizure,” she feels as though she’s watching herself from outside her own body, and she’s “impressed by how badass [she is]” as she tells him how it’s going to be (249).


Years earlier, she decisively ended her engagement with Harry after she walked in to find him and Lucy kissing. Tess was never one to shrink from tough decisions, though she lost the ability to make them when she couldn’t remember who she was. Ultimately, she’s confident in making difficult choices, especially after Lucy comes clean about Graham’s deception and exploitation. It appears that she’s about to sign the contract Graham drew up, and he even tells her she’s doing the right thing, thinking she’s about to sign. However, Tess confidently says “I know I am” and tears up the contract in front of him, Harry, and Lucy (319). Despite her belief that she has limited time left to live, Tess initiates a lawsuit against Graham for embezzling and divorces him.

Graham Thurman

Tess’s husband, Graham, is the novel’s static antagonist. Unlike Tess, who finds herself throughout the novel, Graham remains the same: devious, duplicitous, and dissembling. In a power move, he burns Tess’s breakfast every morning, as though he enjoys obligating her to choke down nearly inedible food. Then, when she inevitably offers her bacon to Ziggy, Graham chastises her—as though she were a naughty or misbehaving child—for feeding the dog from the table.


Furthermore, his repeated insistence that she loves pomegranate juice when she never does suggests that he relishes her disgust and distress whenever she takes a sip. When Camila tells Tess that she hates that juice, Tess recalls the “little smile lingering on his lips [when she drank it]. Like he was amused by the whole thing” (242). It also gives him a chance to say—with apparent concern for her well-being—that perhaps they should take a trip to the doctor. He knows that Tess hates going to the doctor because it reminds her of her mother’s death, and that the threat of a doctor’s visit will render Tess more compliant. His main goal is to keep her biddable and obedient so that he can continue to run and profit from her company.


Graham’s financial gain is his motivation. In the end, Tess says, “I can tell from the look in his eyes that he will fight me [for my company] until I’m dead” (318). He doesn’t care about her, her health, or her happiness, as the Epilogue most blatantly reveals. When he drugs her a month before the start of the novel, he says, “Things were perfect the way they were. You’ve been the perfect wife since you’ve been sick. You stay home all day and you let me manage the business” (33). Thus, to Graham, the “perfect wife” is yielding and submissive, who lets him control the finances and never questions his right to do so. He even keeps Tess in the dark about her cancer’s remission because he doesn’t want to lose access to everything she built.

Harry Finch

Tess’s ex-fiancé, Harry, is a static character who doesn’t undergo any significant changes throughout the text. He tells Tess that she contacted him about a month before the start of the narrative, though only Graham could know why she chose to do this until the novel’s Epilogue. Aside from Lucy’s story about Harry kissing her, Harry proves completely trustworthy, a foil for Tess’s manipulative and deceptive husband.


Whereas Graham claims that he “deserves” to run My Home Spa and exploits Tess’s diagnosis and depression to gain control of her company, Harry never suggests that he has a right to what she built. Graham cares only about financial gain and not about Tess, repeatedly cheating on her, while Harry hasn’t been with anyone since his split from Tess seven years ago. When they meet at the dog park, he tells her, “There’s never been anyone else but you” (154). He’s loyal to her, always trying to look out for her best interests.


In addition, Harry is willing to work for Tess, on her behalf, to ensure that Graham doesn’t completely exploit her. He spoke to doctors to learn if her memory loss is typical of head injuries like hers and learned that such a symptom is more consistent with being drugged. Furthermore, he never explicitly badmouths Lucy to Tess, even though he knows Lucy is a liar and a toxic friend. When Tess fails to answer his texts for a day, he comes to the house—endangering himself due to the restraining order—to check on her. Intuitively, Tess seems to understand that Harry genuinely loves her, since she named Ziggy after his pet bird, and she never completely accepts that she’s no longer engaged to him and instead chose to marry Graham. This is just another way that the novel confirms the reliability of Tess’s intuition.

Lucy

Tess’s best friend, Lucy, isn’t a good friend. When Tess wanted to start her company, My Home Spa, Lucy wasn’t “particularly supportive of the entire venture” (98). Additionally, she “was not the biggest fan of Harry Finch” (98), the man who ultimately proves intensely loyal to Tess despite her failure to believe him over Lucy. Initially, Tess is just grateful to speak with someone she remembers, especially when her father doesn’t return her calls.


Of Lucy, Tess says, “Getting to talk to somebody I remember from my old life feels like a return to sanity” (98). Talking to and being with Graham, of whom she has no memory, makes Tess feel rudderless; she doesn’t know who she is because she doesn’t remember their relationship. Talking to Lucy is the opposite because Tess has known her since college; she feels that she knows Lucy, which makes Tess feel a little more secure about her own identity. However, in their first conversation in the text, Tess muses, “There’s a vagueness to her voice that makes me think [Lucy’s] lying” (100). Then, when Lucy accidentally contradicts Graham’s story of how he and Tess met, she convulsively and loudly swallows, as though she’s nervous or fearful about the repercussions for this.


Tess’s suspicion of Lucy increases as the days pass until she finally walks in on Lucy and Graham having sex. From this point on, Lucy begins to redeem herself. While Graham refers dismissively to Tess, asking why Lucy bothers to explain herself when Tess will simply forget it all tomorrow, Lucy gets angry with him, telling him to “Shut up.” While Graham goes on, telling Tess all kinds of hurtful things, Lucy holds back. In the end, she tells Tess the painful truth, which prevents Tess from signing the contract to give Graham control over My Home Spa, and Lucy agrees to testify against him and watch Ziggy while Tess and Harry go on vacation.

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