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“To survive in the desert is a one-in-a-million shot. In this environment, nothing grows. Nothing lasts. Nothing makes it out or thrives. But somehow, I did. One-in-a-million happens to me all the time.”
Hoppus draws upon multiple literary devices early in his memoir, which add expression and personality to his writing. He uses anaphora in his repetition of the word “nothing,” emphasizing just how rare it is for him to have thrived in such a hostile place. Mark also uses an extended metaphor to explain how his life has been defined by Resilience and Defying the Odds. Finally, “one-in-a-million” is a common cliché that adds relatability to the writing.
“I wanted to be in the room where music was being made. Creating. Writing. Singing. I didn’t know how, but I wanted to be part of it.”
The use of asyndeton (single-word sentences without conjunctions) emphasizes the feeling of purpose and direction that started to come over Mark as he became involved in music. Where Mark once lacked direction, he now began to embrace Life as a Pursuit of Passions.
“It turned out, being a bass player was the perfect instrument for a mediator like me. As a bassist, it was my job to bridge the space between the rhythm of the drums and the melody of the guitar and vocals. I took what everyone was doing and helped them meet somewhere in the middle, laying the foundation that glued the song together.”
In this extended metaphor, Mark compares the role of a bassist in a band to the role he plays in his everyday life and relationships. Mark explains that he was the mediator during his parents’ conflict and divorce, and doing so gave him a sense of obligation to always keep everything flowing and the mood light. Mark feels that a bassist’s job is similar, because a bassist is the “bridge.”
“He put this lightning-fast guitar riff over my arpeggiated bass line, and we looked at each other like holy shit. It sounded imperfect but we were imperfect together. Separately our two different melodies sounded incomplete, but when they weaved in and out of one another, they created something real. Something cool. It felt intentional.”
Mark again uses music to illuminate an aspect of himself, in this case his instant bond with Tom Delonge. The comparison of the imperfect music to the imperfection within themselves is what laid the foundation for their style of music. Mark uses strong adjectives like “lightning-fast” and “arpeggiated” to emphasize the importance of this moment.
“We were fearless.
Invincible.
Ascendant.
Immortal.
Fuck you.”
Mark uses asyndeton to emphasize the words’ escalating intensity, forming a climactic structure and creating rhythm. The final line, “Fuck you,” introduces a stark tone shift and juxtaposition, disrupting the elevated, almost mythic tone with raw emotion. The underlying tone is one of defiance and rebellion, which was at the heart of Blink-182’s music. The overall fragmented structure contributes to a minimalist style that gives each word weight.
“Our guerilla marketing was working. More and more people were coming to see us at The Dungeon.”
Mark uses metaphor to compare the strategies he used in marketing to guerilla warfare, because he had to be smart and resourceful. The conveniently titled “Dungeon” venue symbolizes the potential for a band to either make it or be forever doomed to play for small audiences. This quote relates to the theme of Life as a Pursuit of Passions, as well as Resilience and Defying the Odds.
“To the surprise of no one, three days was not enough time to lay down the ambitious sixteen tracks we brought to the studio, and we didn’t finish.”
Mark blends irony with sarcasm, as if there’s no shock because of how high they set their sights, yet it also emphasizes the creative drive and spirit that the band had in its early days. Reflecting on this moment shows that Mark and the other bandmates experienced growth during this time, and that they went into the music industry knowing how to play but not necessarily how to work.
“To tour in a van, you’ve got to want it. Anyone with any semblance of home or normalcy or decorum or compassion for their fellow man has no place in a van tour. Van touring is as close to as one can get to the days of pirates roaming the open seas, for better and for worse.”
This quote uses anaphora in the repetition of “or” (“home or normalcy or decorum or compassion”) to emphasize the sacrifice and single-minded focus that Mark, Tom, and Scott had to have. The extended metaphor comparing van life to the life of a pirate communicates both the fantasy aspect alongside the harsh reality of constant travel, being low on money, and no rest. This is all part of Life as a Pursuit of Passions and requires strong resilience.
“We’re on next. I’m nervous. Excited. Nervcited.”
“It was punk rock’s forbidden fruit, akin to selling your soul to the Devil. Signing to a major label was the absolute worst, most abhorrent thing a punk band could do.”
“Scott was on his own path and blink was slowly killing him. I couldn’t help.”
This line uses metaphor by comparing the band and tour life to a force that’s destroying Scott, implying that internal pressures and emotional damage are too much for him to bear. This is the first real example of tension within the band, and it leads to Scott being replaced by Travis. Mark writes on this moment with sorrow, as though he wishes he could have done more to help Scott.
“To this day, people think of blink as The Naked Band. I didn’t see that part coming, but when I saw the video, I could see the song being a hit. It was just so simple and funny and stupid. How could it not be?”
This quote reflects Mark’s characteristic self-deprecation and nostalgic pride. The tone is lighthearted and unpretentious, and Mark sees no shame in the way his band used humor to make themselves more accessible to the masses. There is also irony in the remark, because Mark somehow didn’t predict that the band would come to be seen this way despite doing several shoots in the nude.
“I’ve never felt above anyone else. I like knowing I’m part of something people love. Blink-182 is a big party and everyone’s invited. Some celebrities put on a persona, but I don’t know any other way to be but myself. For better or worse.”
The welcoming tone used in this quote (“everyone’s invited”) communicates approachability and humility, which mirrors the tone of Mark’s whole memoir. The band is portrayed as happy and communal by the metaphor which describes Blink-182 as “a big party.” Mark hints toward antithesis when he mentions the difference between being himself and putting on a persona, which highlights his genuineness in contrast to other celebrities.
“It took years of hard work, but I finally won my dad over that day.
Thank you, Richard Simmons.”
Mark blends humor and emotional resolution that was years in the making to communicate an often understated need for his father’s approval. Richard Simmons is an unlikely but somehow perfect candidate for this shift to take place, and the moment is one of many unusual but well-timed experiences in Mark’s life.
“Fuck you. We’re still here. No one is going to stop Americans from Americaning. It is our God-given right to rock the fuck out, and we’ll be damned if anyone’s going to take that from us.”
Mark uses hyperbole and colloquialisms to create a tone of rebellion and defiance, something the band always stood for. Following 9/11, the band continued touring in an attempt to prove the point that nothing can bring down the American people. Mark uses the neologism “Americaning” to encompass this attitude. The quote captures the band’s resilience in the face of cultural or industry setbacks, reflecting Resilience and Defying the Odds.
“The message to me was clear: Tom thought I held him back from greatness. It didn’t feel like we were best friends trying to conquer the world together anymore.”
Mark’s emotional state in response to Tom starting to move on without him is intense and palpable. The two were bonded since the day they met and always wrote music together; when Tom began distancing himself, Mark felt lost and incomplete, as well as hurt and insulted.
“I was shocked. He’d worked just as hard and should be just as proud as me. We’d reached the mountaintop together. This was supposed to be our finest moment, cause for celebration on the day we completed the album we put our lives into. Drop the mic and high-five forever.
I didn’t get it.”
Mark uses the metaphor of a mountaintop to represent creative triumph upon the completion of their best album, immediately contrasting this with the disappointment and shock he felt in regards to Tom’s disillusionment. The tone shifts from celebratory to confused and heartbroken, punctuated by the final, short sentence, “I didn’t get it.” The abrupt syntax creates an emotional finality.
“An amazing and unexpected transformation happened to me in that river. I bathed the elephants and felt myself cleansed with them. It washed away my fears and neuroses.”
Mark uses symbolism and imagery to convey personal renewal when he went to Nepal. The river is a traditional symbol of purification and change, and becomes a vehicle for Mark’s own renewal. Mark parallels himself alongside the elephants and their daily ritual. Something that is so simple for them turned out to be formative for Mark.
“Tom had always been a perfect musical foil for me. I miss the friendly competition that kept us going.”
“Jerry Finn knew how to get the best sounds in the studio, but a lot of people can do that. That skill made him an incredible engineer and mixer, but it wasn’t what made him a great producer. What him one of the greats was his unique ability to make everyone he worked with feel like they had a special relationship with him.”
Mark devotes this chapter to memorializing Jerry Finn not just as a skilled producer, but as an irreplaceable human presence in music. Mark’s emphasis on Jerry’s interpersonal warmth over his technical skill emphasizes the idea that Mark’s memoir drives home, about Life as a Pursuit of Passions and music as a bridge for connection. Jerry’s death is symbolic of a turning point in the band’s dynamic.
“Deaths defied and friendships mended. And…it just didn’t land. People were confused. We didn’t look like us. We didn’t look like we were ready to come out swinging. We looked like kids forgetting their lines at a school play.”
“In the span of one month, he said:
I am excited to record and tour.
I will not record, but I will tour.
I will not tour either.
I want to tour.
I want out of the band.
I want back into the band.”
The repetition and fragmented structure of this quote reflect Tom’s inconsistency and emotional turmoil during this phase. By presenting the statements in quick succession, Mark communicates a sense of instability and constant flip-flopping, emphasizing chaos and unpredictability. The expression behind the list of Tom’s constantly changing perspective is clear through the way it is presented.
“It was then that I started to fully understand the greater importance of blink, that it was bigger than the three of us. The band had been around for more than twenty years. People had grown up with us. Lost their virginity to our music. Hung our posters on their bedroom walls.”
This is a significant moment in Mark’s personal development, as he transitions from viewing blink-182 as a personal outlet to recognizing it as a cultural institution. The use of cumulative structure shows Mark’s understanding of the band’s legacy and reveals Mark’s evolving sense of purpose. It is a shift from self-centeredness to collective impact, solidifying his growth as both an artist and a person.
“I died that week. I accepted the certainty that I was done. Finished. The bill had finally come due.”
Mark uses stark, declarative sentences to convey the psychological weight of facing his mortality, while also adding his usual dose of humor to even the darkest of topics. The cliche frames his cancer diagnosis as an inevitable reckoning, suggesting a culmination of unresolved emotional and physical strain. This moment becomes a motif of rebirth through despair, which emphasizes the idea of Resilience and Defying the Odds.
“I’m on God’s time now. Every day on earth from here on is a bonus. A gift. Thank you, Universe. I’ll do my best to earn it.”
This quote serves as a culmination of Mark’s personal and spiritual growth, blending gratitude, mortality, and renewal. The religious imagery suggests a deepened existential awareness in Mark’s life, while the simple sentence structure communicates his humility and sincerity.



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