Girl on Girl: How Pop Culture Turned a Generation of Women Against Themselves

Sophie Gilbert

49 pages 1-hour read

Sophie Gilbert

Girl on Girl: How Pop Culture Turned a Generation of Women Against Themselves

Nonfiction | Essay Collection | Adult | Published in 2025

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Chapters 7-8Chapter Summaries & Analyses

Content Warning: This section of the guide includes discussion of gender discrimination, emotional abuse, sexual harassment, and death.

Chapter 7 Summary: “Gossip Girls: The Degradation of Women and Fame in Twenty-First-Century Media”

Gilbert argues that 2000s culture was all about watching women. She references representations of and tabloid commentary on Jessica Simpson, Britney Spears, Anna Nicole Smith, Amy Winehouse, and Vanessa Hudgens. The culture was obsessed with looking at these women, turning them into soap opera characters instead of real people. Gilbert believes that the cruelty toward women during this era is directly related to postfeminist ideals—a connection that inspired her to write Girl on Girl.


Gilbert asserts that the way women were represented in the media during the 2000s evidenced the culture’s desire for distraction. After the terrorist attacks on September 11, 2001, American citizens wanted to anesthetize themselves to the war on terrorism. Shows like The Bachelor and American Idol, or gossip sites like Gawker or Fleshbot, offered escapes from a distressing social and political landscape. 


Gilbert also holds that this culture bred stars like Paris Hilton and Nicole Richie, who were famous for being famous. Via their show The Simple Life, Hilton and Richie sold women the idea that anyone could be famous, causing the cultural idea of fame itself to evolve. In 2008, the show Celebrity Rehab with Dr. Drew started airing on VH1. This show capitalized on celebrities’ experiences of addiction and rehabilitation. Gilbert describes episodes of the show and the ways they exposed grittier aspects of celebrity life. Gilbert references the writer Kathleen McAuliffe’s idea that the more easily disgusted people are, the harsher their moral judgments will be. When Amy Winehouse and Whitney Houston died in 2011 and 2012, respectively, the media coverage influenced the culture to see their deaths as the result of hedonism.

Chapter 8 Summary: “Girl on Girls: The Confessional Auteur and Her Detractors”

Gilbert examines Lena Dunham’s work and her influence on cultural representations of women in the media. Dunham emerged in the art world with the debut of her 2010 film Tiny Furniture. The film follows a young woman named Aura who lives with her parents in Tribeca after graduation and struggles to establish herself as an artist. The piece launched an era of autofictional work by women artists. Gilbert argues that Tiny Furniture hyperbolized postfeminism’s central ideals, while its resolution upended them—suggesting that self-exposure did not lead to fulfilment.


Around the same time, feminist blogs began emerging, including The F-Word, Jezebel, and The Hairpin. Gilbert argues that such publications were more aligned with the ideals central to riot-grrrl culture. She also likens this work—and Dunham’s—to that of the writer Sheila Heti. Heti published her autofictional novel How Should a Person Be? in 2010. Using elements of her own life, Heti explored notions of artistic representation and personal exposure in her novel. Her work was often compared to Dunham’s, especially after the debut of Dunham’s HBO series, Girls, in 2012.


While Dunham’s Girls also capitalized on sexual exposure, the series didn’t use sex to sell women products or lifestyles. Gilbert describes scenes and narrative sequences from the show to support her argument. She examines the role of sex, pornography, and nudity in the show and how it relates to male fantasy.


Gilbert argues that the media people consume impacts both their fantasies and how they “think, write, dream, create” (214). She returns to Heti’s novel How Should a Person Be?, re-examining it within this context. The art Heti’s character Sheila creates is directly impacted by the conversations she has and the stories she consumes. Gilbert states that Heti’s project was like Dunham’s in that both women were seeking to make meaning within a culture that derided women. Gilbert includes Issa Rae’s The Misadventures of Awkward Black Girl in this group as well.


Gilbert admits that she struggled to include her own experience within the writing of Girl on Girl. Most publishers pushed her to add more of her personal experience, but each time she tried, these passages seemed inauthentic or fraudulent. She wonders at the political implications of revealing one’s experience for public consumption. She holds that the more women expose themselves in the media, the more consumers demand increasingly provocative content, compelling women to give more and more of themselves. Gilbert considers Marie Calloway’s essay “Adrien Brody” and Nora Ephron’s book Heartburnboth works by artists using their personal experiences to expose the messy aspects of womanhood just like their male counterparts, yet they were met with derision, while their male counterparts were lauded. Other female artists, including Dunham, Heti, and Taylor Swift, have been criticized for making the same sort of art that male artists like Elvis Costello and Bob Dylan have been celebrated for. Despite the criticism, Gilbert holds that the work of women artists working during this era was essential.

Chapters 7-8 Analysis

In Chapters 7 and 8, Gilbert examines the work of women artists to explore Feminism’s Push for Diverse and Authentic Representations of Women. Throughout Chapter 7, Gilbert lays out the ways that “the most popular pastime across culture and entertainment was watching and looking at women: on reality television, in pornography, in music videos, in magazines, in movies—all genres that were melding and merging and borrowing from one another with unnerving ease” (175). Instead of being free to make the art they wanted, Gilbert argues, women were the dehumanized subjects of it. Gilbert’s allusions to reality television series and gossip magazines ground her argument in concrete examples. Her references to female recording artists like Britney Spears, Jessica Simpson, and Amy Winehouse give her overarching commentary human faces. Spears and Winehouse in particular were widely criticized for wasting their talent with vices and hedonism, yet the abuse they suffered at the hands of the media was rarely taken into account.


Gilbert’s empathetic authorial tone acts as a direct counter to “the cruelty and disdain expressed toward women during the aughts” (179). In Chapter 8, Gilbert frames the work of women artists as a rebellious force and an essential way for women to reclaim distorted media representations of their experience. She cites the work of filmmaker and comedian Lena Dunham and writer Sheila Heti as examples of artists who used their work to expose mainstream culture’s treatment of women. These multimedia references challenge the reader to see female artists and characters in a new light. 


In Girl on Girl, Gilbert intentionally presents women as complex human individuals, rather than figures of scorn “available for critique and public dissection, from teenagers suffering mental health crises to the first female candidate for president” (180). She creates room for each woman’s dichotomies and contradictions and carefully attends to the scope of their artistic works and cultural contributions. This journalistic approach represents Gilbert’s own form of feminism. For example, Dunham has received notable criticism for her work and for her self-exposure within it. Instead of adding to this negativity, Gilbert analyzes Dunham’s projects with the same respectful care that her male counterparts’ work has been guaranteed. She treats Dunham and her art with dignity, formally enacting her belief that women must support other women. Creating a culture of positive female relationships offers organic opportunities for diverse and authentic representation across the media.


Gilbert compares Dunham and Heti’s work to highlight the ways these artists have been fighting for more accurate explorations of womanhood in the media. Gilbert acknowledges all the dissent Dunham and Heti have met, and affirms the ways they’ve each attempted to change the culture for the better. Their writing, she holds, is “contouring reality to try to make space for something else and to imagine all the ways in which things could be, somehow, different” (230). Despite the criticism they’ve received, both Dunham and Heti have continued making their art. They have continued to use their voices, mediums, and platforms to offer alternate versions of the female experience amidst a culture that actively disparages and disadvantages their sex.

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