Girl on Girl: How Pop Culture Turned a Generation of Women Against Themselves

Sophie Gilbert

49 pages 1-hour read

Sophie Gilbert

Girl on Girl: How Pop Culture Turned a Generation of Women Against Themselves

Nonfiction | Essay Collection | Adult | Published in 2025

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Content Warning: This section of the guide includes discussion of sexual content, gender discrimination, emotional abuse, antigay bias, and illness.

Sophie Gilbert (The Author)

Sophie Gilbert, a London-based journalist who writes for The Atlantic, is the author of Girl on Girl. Since earning her graduate degree in journalism from New York University, Gilbert has written primarily about television, culture, and literature. She served internship positions at Slate and Vogue when she was a graduate student, and later began writing about entertainment for similar publications.


In Girl on Girl, Gilbert explores how the movies, television shows, music, and literature of the early aughts impacted an entire generation of women and feminism at large. In her introduction, Gilbert says that with her book, she wanted “to reframe recent history in a way that might enhance my own perspective. But what became clear was how neatly culture, feminism, and history run on parallel tracks, informing, disrupting, and even derailing each other” (xiii). For Gilbert, writing is a way to question, think, and explore ideas. Her interrogative stance is reflected throughout the text. Gilbert believed her book would corroborate her preexisting ideas but admits that she discovered otherwise. Her confessional tone conveys her willingness to test her own theories. Gilbert employs this journalistic approach throughout the text, consistently creating room for ideas that do not necessarily align with her own preconceptions.


Gilbert incorporates external voices and resources into her discussion to broaden her overarching claims. While she employs an assertive tone, she never claims to be the ultimate authority on her subject matter. By leaning into other thinkers’, writers’, and artists’ social commentaries, Gilbert enacts her overarching notion that women must work together to create change. Gilbert also resists disparaging other women artists on the page. She carefully and respectfully analyzes her predecessors’ and peers’ work but never reinforces negative or false representations of them in the media. 


Gilbert’s feminist explorations in Girl on Girl are backgrounded by her earlier journalistic and magazine publications. In 2023, Zando published a collection of Gilbert’s essays from across her career titled On Womanhood. The collection critiques contemporary media through a feminist lens. Gilbert has also received notable acclaim in the industry. She won the 2024 National Magazine Award for Reviews and Criticism and was a 2022 Pulitzer Prize in Criticism finalist.


​Gilbert incorporates her first-person point of view into her discussion—at times interrupting her more journalistic examinations with personal reflections or remarks—but does not place her experience at the forefront of her explorations. Her social commentary is not rooted in personal biases or empirical data. Her arguments instead originate from extensive research and are all bolstered by cultural references and ancillary writers’ work.

Madonna

Madonna is a musician and pop-culture icon who Gilbert references throughout the early chapters of the text. Gilbert particularly examines her work in comparison to the ways early-aughts culture represented female desire and sexuality in the media. In Chapter 1, Gilbert asserts that Madonna’s “Justify My Love” song and accompanying music video “set the tone for the coming decade: audacious, wildly sexual, a little bit trollish” (2). This work disrupted previous representations of female fantasy and desire in an unprecedentedly brazen manner. The song and video came out in 1990, near the height of the AIDS epidemic, and was a reaction to the concurrent anti-sex campaigns and schools of thought.


Gilbert holds that Madonna’s work challenged the male gaze, suggesting that women did not need to perform and create work according to men’s desires or for male pleasure. Gilbert identifies Madonna as one of the most pro-sex figures of her time and calls her work groundbreaking on many counts. She traces a connection between Madonna’s music and performances and the uptick in pornographic representations of women in 2000s culture. While her book Sex was shocking for its time, Gilbert retrospectively questions how much of the book’s influence was in fact due to “Madonna’s extraordinary level of fame at the time” (42). Madonna’s work did disrupt some cultural stereotypes of women but also reinforced postfeminist notions of exhibitionism and licensed “more and more sexual provocation in conventional media” (42).

Terry Richardson

Terry Richardson is a fashion photographer whose work and influence Gilbert explores most notably in Chapters 2 and 6. Richardson’s work appeared on the cultural stage in 2004 when “the Deitch Projects gallery in downtown New York debuted a splashy exhibition of [his] new work […] accompanied by the publication of a book, both titled Terryworld” (27). Until these public presentations, Richardson was known for his intentionally tacky photographic aesthetic. His photographs of celebrities were shot in the same way he photographed laypeople—giving the famous and the anonymous “the same high-flash, semisurprised, not-quite-human aura” (27). Richardson’s Terryworld exhibition won him new attention because this work featured images of Kate Moss, Pharrell Williams, and Dennis Hopper. The Terryworld publication was a coffee-table book, which encapsulated the era’s porno chic aesthetic. The photos were gregarious and bold, but also flattened their subjects.


Gilbert heavily references Richardson’s work within the context of her discussion of pornography and early-aughts culture. She holds that Richardson was of notable influence to this trend, normalizing pornographic imagery in the fashion world and advertising at large. Gilbert presents Richardson as a brash character whose public demeanor mirrored the unabashed, unaffected nature of his work. More than simply normalizing sex in fashion and the media, Richardson implied that every person has violent sexual fantasies and brutal sexual tendencies. His commentary on Abu Ghraib is reflective of this stance. Gilbert presents Richardson’s cultural influence as essential to how women were taught to see themselves and other women throughout the aughts.

Lena Dunham

Lena Dunham is a comedian, writer, and actress. Gilbert examines her work throughout Chapter 8 to develop her theme of Feminism’s Push for Diverse and Authentic Representations of Women. Gilbert asserts that the release of Dunham’s 2010 film Tiny Furniture launched an onslaught of similar autofictional work by women. In Tiny Furniture, Dunham used her own post-college experience to challenge postfeminist notions of womanhood and femininity. In the film, the protagonist Aura—played by Dunham herself—is “a recent Oberlin grad returning to her mother’s austere Tribeca loft after her boyfriend breaks up with her”; no job, money, or prospects, Aura is struggling to launch her creative career from a single YouTube video where “she strips to her underwear and grooms herself in a campus fountain” (201). Elements of the Tiny Furniture narrative were directly drawn from Dunham’s life, but the film uses experimentation to imply that “there is no happy ending […] Only an enlightened realism” (205).


Dunham is best known for her television series Girls, which expounds upon similar themes to Tiny Furniture. Beginning in 2012, the show focuses on the protagonist Hannah’s experiences with art and sex. The show also traces the lives of Hannah’s three best friends, navigating their early twenties in New York City. Gilbert argues that although the show can be seen as exhibitionist, it does not try to sell its viewers any products or lifestyles the way most postfeminist work would. The show is at once antisocial, rebellious, and gritty, and has received notable criticism since it originally aired. Gilbert offers detailed renderings of scenes and subplots from the show, using these descriptions as throughways to her wider cultural commentary.


Dunham has received much public criticism for her work and for her unabashed self-presentation within it. Gilbert argues that public reaction to Dunham’s naked body reveals the narrow lens through which women have historically been seen. Women who look like Dunham typically aren’t allowed such visibility, particularly when voluntarily exposing themselves.


Gilbert also compares Dunham’s work to that of the Canadian author Sheila Heti, to explore how women artists in the late aughts were working to disrupt the shaming culture of the years preceding. Gilbert intentionally resists criticizing Dunham on the page, so as not to participate in the divisive culture that has sought to push Dunham to the margins of her field.

Sheila Heti

Sheila Heti is a Canadian author. Gilbert also references Heti’s work throughout Chapter 8 to further her explorations of how feminist artists might disrupt patriarchal systems. In 2010, Heti published her autofictional novel How Should a Person Be? in Canada, and the title later appeared on shelves in the United States in 2012. In the novel, Heti’s fictional Sheila protagonist “aspires […] toward creating both great art and a realistic portrayal of women, and yet, […] she doesn’t know any women and isn’t particularly interested in them” (206). In interviews about the book, Heti remarks that much of her inspiration originated from her own encounters with Paris Hilton’s sex tape, which also affects the fictional Sheila. Throughout the novel, Sheila tries to complete a writing assignment but only ends up documenting conversations with her friends, lovers, and fellow artists. Gilbert holds that the novel was one part of “a new wave of prickly, difficult studies of the self” (207) emerging at the time.


Gilbert compares Heti’s work to Dunham’s work, largely because this parallel was made across artistic critiques in the aughts. Like Dunham, Heti was criticized for being simultaneously self-obsessed, pretentious, and submissive. Gilbert holds that these dichotomous elements are essential to Heit’s work. She also argues that Heti’s fragmented style is a direct reaction to the culture that preceded her novel’s fragmentation. The only way to remake representations of the self—particularly the female self—is to first disassemble the models that came before. Just as Gilbert avoids criticizing or disparaging Dunham’s work, she offers Heti’s autofiction respect and dignity within her larger cultural commentary. She cites Heti’s writing as essential to a larger progressive, feminist movement.

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