Here in the Real World

Throughout the story, the idea of seeing the world clearly is explored through Ware’s evolving understanding of himself, others, and the complicated realities around him. In the early chapters, Ware is dismissed by others for being “off in his own world” (6), a phrase that captures both his tendency to daydream and society’s discomfort with difference. His parents, especially his mother, struggle to accept his way of thinking. This is painfully apparent when Ware overhears her saying she wishes they had a “normal” kid, which is an admission that leads him to question not only how others see him, but how he sees himself. His growing frustration is shown when he confronts her later: “If I don’t start living in the real world, life’s going to crush me” (233). He demands to stop being overprotected and instead be equipped to face the world with clarity and independence. This is a significant step in Ware’s personal growth arc and a moment of maturity.

Another pivotal moment in Ware’s transformation occurs when Jolene admires a discarded candy wrapper, treating it as something meaningful. “Jolene placed a finger on the wrapper. She raised her head. Her sunglasses looked like discs of ice” (169).