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Sandberg opens with an anecdote about being pregnant with her first child while working at Google. She had a difficult pregnancy, which made walking all the way across a parking lot difficult. After her husband, Dave, told her that other companies had designated parking spots for expectant mothers, Sandberg confronted her employer about the issue and won, which potentially benefited many other pregnant women as well.
From here, Sandberg begins to outline the state of gender equality in the contemporary United States, noting that American women have made substantial progress since first entering the workforce, and that they have much to be "grateful" for in comparison to women living in many regions of the world (5). Nevertheless, she says, "The blunt truth is that men still run the world": men hold the overwhelming majority of senior positions in both government and private industry, and women of color are particularly underrepresented (5). Furthermore, the average woman continues to earn only about $.77 for every dollar a man earns. Sandberg says she has witnessed this inequality firsthand over the course of her career and therefore concludes that the "[feminist] revolution has stalled" (7).
To move beyond the impasse, Sandberg argues that women must be equally represented in positions of power. She acknowledges that there are major structural barriers keeping women out of these jobs—access to child care and sexual harassment among them—but says that women also limit themselves when they internalize and accommodate sexist ideas: "We hold ourselves back in ways both big and small, by lacking self-confidence, by not raising our hands, and by pulling back when we should be leaning in. We internalize the negative messages we get throughout our lives—the messages that say it's wrong to be outspoken, aggressive, more powerful than men" (8).
According to Sandberg, these kinds of "internal barriers" have traditionally received little feminist attention (8). Lean In, then, is her attempt to bring those challenges out into the open and to encourage women to be "ambitious in any pursuit," including in careers of all kinds and family life (10).For this reason, Sandberg feels that elements of her book will prove relevant to all women, regardless of occupation, class or race. Although she expects Lean In will attract criticism, she expresses hope that women can "reignite the revolution by internalizing the revolution" (11).
Sandberg recounts her family history. Her grandmother, Rosalind, was born to poor parents and needed to leave school at one point to help her family make a living. Eventually, however, she beat the odds, graduating from UC Berkeley, helping her husband run his business, and ensuring that all her children received a good education. In fact, Sandberg's mother undertook a doctoral degree, though she dropped out when she married and became pregnant. Nevertheless, Sandberg says, both her father and her mother stressed equal opportunity regardless of gender. When Sandberg herself entered college, then, she did not expect her career to be any different than the average man's.
This belief, however, turned out to be "naïve and idealistic" (14). Over the course of her career, Sandberg saw many female colleagues struggle to balance work and family life, often deciding to leave their jobs in the process. Perhaps discouraged by this, younger generations have tended to approach their careers even more cautiously. As a result, Sandberg says, many well-educated women have missed out on leadership positions in their fields.
Subtly-sexist social attitudes exacerbate this situation by discouraging girls and women from behaving in assertive ways that might otherwise further their careers: "Aggressive and hard-charging women violate unwritten rules about acceptable social conduct" (17). In addition, Sandberg notes, society still trains women to see marriage and children as their most significant achievements. These kinds of cultural influences begin to operate on girls at a very young age, via messaging that prioritizes women's appearance over their abilities—for instance, a T-shirt labeling the wearer "pretty like Mommy" (19).Sandberg herself remembers being called "bossy" many times as a young child, and admits that the label continues to embarrass her: "There is still some part of me that feels it was unseemly for a little girl to be thought of as so...domineering" (20)."Stereotype threat" also works to curb women's ambition; since images of unhappy, overworked professional women abound in popular culture, women may unconsciously pattern their own lives on those unhealthy models.
Sandberg cites these and other examples as evidence that "our desire for leadership is largely a culturally created and reinforced trait" (19). Women, she says, are held back largely by fear: "Fear of not being liked. Fear of making the wrong choice. Fear of drawing negative attention. Fear of overreaching. Fear of being judged. Fear of failure. And the holy trinity of fear: the fear of being a bad mother/wife/daughter" (24). As a starting point, then, Sandberg quotes a poster at Facebook that reads, "What would you do if you weren't afraid?", challenging women to ask this question of themselves (25).
Although it deals heavily in personal anecdotes, Lean In is at heart more of a persuasive tract than a memoir: Sandberg hopes to convince readers to support her central claims about gender equality, and she uses her own experiences as evidence in support of her conclusions. Lean In's introduction, then, functions similarly to the opening paragraphs of an academic essay: Sandberg's goal in this first section of the book is to orient her readers to the broad outlines of her argument.
In part, that means providing readers with the historical and cultural context they need to understand Lean In. To that end, Sandberg begins with a description of the problem Lean In is meant to address, noting that women are still vastly outnumbered in most positions of political and economic leadership. Sandberg argues that this is not only unfair in and of itself, but that it is also a roadblock to gender equality in other areas of life; with more women in power, Sandberg suggests, there would be more incentive to tackle issues like sexual violence and the wage gap. Sandberg therefore characterizes Lean In as a kind of "feminist manifesto," in the sense that it aims to solve issues previously identified by first and (especially) second-wave feminists (9). Sandberg says, however, that where previous feminist works have tended to focus on the need for institutional change (e.g. changes to laws on discrimination, harassment, etc.), Lean In will focus on the need for personal change: the "internal barriers" each woman needs to overcome in order for women as a group to succeed.
The introduction, then, aligns Sandberg's arguments with the liberal feminist tradition that emphasizes the agency of women as individuals (as opposed to stressing the power of social structures and institutions). Liberal feminism is sometimes criticized for a perceived failure to address the needs of women further marginalized as a result of their class, race, and/or physical health: past a certain point, systemic obstacles arguably become so overwhelming that they essentially foreclose meaningful choice. Sandberg, however, anticipates this argument, saying that while elements of her book "will be most relevant to women fortunate enough to have choices about how much and when and where to work," other sections will speak to "situations that women face in every workplace, within every community, and in every home" (10). In some ways, the fact that the feminism Sandberg espouses is so personal might even expand its applicability: Sandberg wants to "internalize" feminism, making it a kind of self-improvement. This is an agenda any woman could theoretically adopt, although the potential fortension between women's choices as individuals and the obstacles they face as a group never entirely disappears from Lean In.
In the meantime, however, Sandberg uses Chapter One to begin fleshing out what she means when she talks about psychological barriers to success. Citing both formal studies and her own experiences, Sandberg argues that the relative scarcity of female leaders results, in part, from women's adherence to gender norms that depict authority and femininity as incompatible. It is not simply that women comply with these norms for fear of being seen as unlikeable, or undesirable, but rather that they often do so instinctively; messaging that links women's worth to their appearance and agreeableness is so pervasive that it influences women's habitual, unconscious behavior. In fact, even women who generally resist gender norms, like Sandberg herself, still struggle with guilt and anxiety for doing so. For Sandberg, then, the first step toward gender equality needs to be noticing the moments when fear dictates our actions: a willingness to push past that fear will underlie many of Sandberg's suggestions throughout Lean In.



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