Lost and Lassoed

Encourage readers to connect the book’s themes and characters with their personal experiences.

1. Discuss the key events that lead to Gus and Teddy’s romantic relationship. What moment represents the turning point for them?

2. Analyze the relatability of Gus’s struggle with work/life balance. How does his internalized pressure to succeed on his own without support from others contribute to Sage’s exploration of traditional masculinity?

3. Talk about your own experiences with the Evolution of Relationships in Adulthood.

4. What do you think is the value of giving people a second chance?

5. Have you ever experienced a situation where you felt torn between staying in a familiar place and pursuing a new opportunity? How did your experience compare to Teddy’s?

Examine the book’s relevance to societal issues, historical events, or cultural themes.



1. How does the story depict the realities of rural living and ranching culture?

2. Discuss Teddy’s experience navigating stereotypical gendered expectations for women, especially regarding marriage and motherhood.

3. Discuss the portrayal of Gus as a single father, particularly in supporting Cam’s pursuit of a law career.

Dive into the book’s structure, characters, themes, and symbolism.



1. Analyze the effect of the alternating perspectives on the novel.

2. How do Gus and Teddy’s internal conflicts mirror their external challenges?

3. Discuss the author’s use of romance tropes, such as enemies to lovers and forced proximity.

4. Which minor characters have the most influence on Teddy’s and Gus’s personal growth?