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Magnolia and Iris choose a pink, knitted sock for their next mission. Before they can get started, Mrs. Wu tells Magnolia that her sister, Auntie Mei, and Magnolia’s cousin, Alan, are coming over to see them. Magnolia begs Iris to stay. She remembers how much fun Alan was when they were younger, but he has grown very serious and boring, and she gets tired of everyone constantly praising how smart and hard-working her cousin is. When Auntie Mei arrives and learns that Magnolia has been out exploring the city recently, she praises her niece and tells her that she is like her mother. Magnolia struggles to think of her practical, no-nonsense mother as ever having been a kid out exploring the city.
After a tense meal of listening to Alan show off by speaking Chinese—a language that Magnolia understands little of—Magnolia is delighted when Alan gets reprimanded for playing with his food. She and Iris slip out to try to find the pink sock’s owner. They first try a diner that Magnolia goes to often. The owner of Constellation Diner knits his own coasters, and Magnolia thinks that this is a good place to find someone who knits their own socks, but Levi, the owner, only has orange and black yarn. The girls go next to the knitting store that sells the yarn Levi uses.
The clerk at the yarn store recognizes the yarn the sock is made from. He says that someone named Nala likely made the sock. He praises the work, but he cannot tell them anything more about the mysterious Nala. Temporarily out of ideas, Iris and Magnolia return to Magnolia’s apartment. When they go into the kitchen to do dishes, they see something strange about the noodles left in Alan’s bowl: they are knitted together. They realize that “Nala” is “Alan” spelled backward.
The girls call Alan into the kitchen and confront him with the sock. To her great surprise, Magnolia learns that her cousin is still the artistic, fun person she remembers—he’s just hiding it to gain his parents’ approval. His dream is to be a fashion designer someday. When Magnolia enthusiastically offers her support, Alan gives her and Iris a big hug. Magnolia is thrilled to learn that Alan still wants to be her friend and have fun with her, just like when they were younger.
One difference between Magnolia and Iris that causes friction between them is how much Iris loves and misses the ocean. Magnolia is not sympathetic, because it makes her feel like Iris hates New York and does not want to be there with her. She doesn’t know how to swim, and when they decide to track down the owner of a lost flamingo sock, she can’t even imagine real flamingoes: all she can think of are the plastic kind she’s seen in the city.
They start their investigation at Growing Up, a plant store owned by a woman named Rosa. When Rosa tells the girls that Mr. Wu is the one who taught her to use eggshells as fertilizer, Magnolia is embarrassed at her parents’ thrifty ways. She is surprised, though, when Rosa praises her father’s plant knowledge and mentions that Mr. Wu once supervised a huge dahlia plantation. She wonders what her father would grow if he had room to have a garden in the city. Rosa shows them her “plant hospital,” explaining that being transplanted is hard on plants (67). Magnolia realizes that Iris is like an uprooted plant and that she might need extra care while she adjusts. Rosa gives Iris some seeds to plant at home, but she does not recognize the sock.
Next, the girls try Zito’s Pizza Shop. The owner and his staff all praise Magnolia’s parents for how white they get the shop’s aprons. When Magnolia asks for a Shirley Temple, Zito mentions that it is her mother’s favorite and that this is why she uses the English name Shirley. This is all new information to Magnolia. She tells Zito that her mother’s Chinese name is Xiaohua, and he practices saying it until he can do it easily. Just as Magnolia is feeling happy about eating pizza and drinking her Shirley Temple, a boy called Aspen, who often bullies her at school, enters the shop with two friends.
Aspen mocks her drink for being pink, saying that it is “girly.” Zito and his cooks all point out that there is nothing wrong with being girly, firmly shutting Aspen down. Zito doesn’t know who the flamingo sock belongs to, so Iris and Magnolia get up to leave. On his way out, Aspen throws a balled-up napkin at Magnolia’s head. Inside the napkin, the girls are surprised to find a message: “Follow the pennies. Please” (77). They think that Aspen must really need help if he’s written “please.” Outside the pizza shop, they see a penny. It leads to a trail of pennies that deposits the two friends at a small bookstore.
Inside the bookstore, underneath the leg of a stool, they find a note, directing them to look behind a castle. Behind a painting of a castle, they find a shoelace with “Chauncey 284” written on it (80). This leads them to a page in a book. On this page, there is an entry about flamingoes. The entry explains that flamingoes begin life gray but gradually turn pink from eating brine shrimp.
From behind a shelf, Aspen hisses to get their attention. He confesses that he loves flamingoes and the sock is his. He wants them to give the sock back without his friends realizing because he is embarrassed. Magnolia is tempted to keep it from him, but Iris encourages her to be kind. She learns that Aspen has been saying mean things at school about the laundromat because he does not want her to talk about it. He thinks she already knows a story that her father has never shared with her.
When Aspen was little, his own father—who is mean and critical—threw his stuffed animal in the wash and mocked Aspen for thinking it would drown. Mr. Wu sewed pretend gills on the animal and promised Aspen that the toy could now never drown. Aspen tells them that he loves the passage in the book about flamingoes because he believes that if he refuses to eat the “shrimp” of his father’s constant criticism, he can “stay gray”—stay true to himself and not start believing the terrible things his father tells him about himself (86). Before they leave, Iris writes Aspen a note: “I hope you stay gray” (87). She tucks it into the book about flamingoes.
When Iris chooses a sock covered in ice cream cones for their next investigation, Magnolia thinks it probably belongs to a girl their age named Jessica. Jessica’s mother owns a large ice cream company, and Jessica lives in an expensive apartment with a doorman and a fancy security system. Jessica’s nanny, Sunny, opens the door for Magnolia and Iris; Magnolia is astonished at how quiet, spacious, and clean the apartment is. After they return Jessica’s sock, she invites them to stay for a bit. As they talk, Magnolia learns that, although Jessica lives in luxury, she rarely sees her mother and is quite lonely.
When Jessica misremembers what Magnolia’s mother does, thinking that she runs a department store, Magnolia agrees with this. The shocked and disappointed look on Iris’s face prompts her to tell the truth. Jessica is envious of how many people Magnolia must get to see each day at the laundromat and how much time Magnolia gets to spend with her mother. Magnolia tells Jessica she should come with them on their next sock-returning mission, but Iris is clearly against the idea. After Magnolia shows Jessica the next sock they will try to reunite with its owner, Jessica says that its polka dots remind her of a Dalmatian. She suggests they check with their building’s dog walker, but she says that she cannot come with them, as her mother expects her to stay inside.
As Magnolia and Iris wait in the lobby for the dog walker, there is tension between them. Iris accuses Magnolia of worshipping Jessica and says that they do not need anyone’s help because she’s worried about being excluded by Jessica and Magnolia. When Magnolia protests that Jessica seems lonely, Iris says that everyone is lonely sometimes. She points out that Magnolia was lonely before Iris came along. Embarrassed, Magnolia claims that she was fine without Iris and does not need her now. She immediately wishes she could take the words back, but Iris storms off.
Magnolia does not know how to fix things with Iris, or if she should even try. She decides to work on the case of the spotted sock by herself. She finds the dog walker surrounded by a huge number of dogs of every description. The dog walker tells Magnolia that his first client was her mother, who let him walk Mr. Pants to drum up business. Magnolia asks how so many dogs can get along so well, and the dog walker explains that sometimes they do fight—but they have to work it out so that everyone can move forward together.
Magnolia does not get any useful information from the dog walker. Without Iris, the quest is beginning to feel like just a boring errand, anyway. She decides to at least try one of the ideas Iris suggested: the polka dots look like boba, and the sock’s owner might be the owner of Plop Plop, a boba shop in Chinatown. At Plop Plop, she sees three girls laughing and talking together, and she feels sad again about Iris. She thinks that she doesn’t fully understand how to be a best friend. Without Iris there to support her, she feels shy about asking the clerk about the sock. She finds a way to show the clerk the sock without directly asking whether it is hers and realizes it is not.
Realizing she has left her knapsack in the lobby of Jessica’s building, she hurries back. She sits down on the bench and begins to cry. The doorman, Mr. Yoon, brings her knapsack. He spots the sock and tells her it is his. Aware of her fight with Iris, he tells her that he once believed it was better not to get attached to people because they might leave. Eventually, he realized that “endings are inevitable, natural, because people evolve [and] circumstances change” (108-09). He tells her that he does not think her friendship with Iris is over yet, though, and Magnolia agrees that “it [is] far too early for an ending” (109).
In the middle section of the novel, Magnolia begins to reap clear rewards from the new connections she makes in her neighborhood, reinforcing Miller's thematic interest in The Gift of a Wider Perspective. As Magnolia and Iris continue their quest to reunite the singleton socks with their mates and owners, Magnolia learns new information about her parents, re-establishes her once-close relationship with her cousin Alan, reaches a truce with Aspen, makes a new friend in Jessica, and comes to appreciate the blessings of her own life more fully.
Learning about her parents’ lives before she was born allows Magnolia to see them more clearly, developing her sense of empathy and understanding. She begins to realize her parents are more than the overworked, frugal, practical people she sees each day at home and in the laundromat. Her mother was once a mischievous child who snuck out to explore the city. She was once a whimsical young woman who chose the name Shirley because she loved the fizzy pink drink called a Shirley Temple. Miller emphasizes the importance of this revelation in an illustration that shows Magnolia imagining her mother and father enjoying a Shirley Temple at Zito’s, both looking dazzled at the sparkling drink that Magnolia herself enjoys so much. Magnolia learns about her father’s tender heart and kindness toward Aspen, and she learns that he once supervised large plantations of dahlias. Everywhere she goes, people praise her parents as good neighbors and friends, allowing Magnolia to glimpse the complexity of others—even those closest to her—beyond their surface appearances.
Miller reinforces Magnolia’s expanding perspective through her discovery of Alan’s secret passion for clothing design. Magnolia realizes that her cousin has been distant with her and pretending to be more studious than he is because, like Aspen, he fears being mocked. Not only does hearing the truth from Alan help Magnolia forgive him, but it also demonstrates how many people around her also struggle with Developing Confidence and Finding One’s Voice, giving her yet another reason to be grateful for her parents who never pressure her as Alan’s parents pressure him.
Magnolia’s encounter with Aspen uncovers deeper layers of his personality, allowing her to see him as more than the bully who mocks her and her family’s business. Aspen’s vulnerability reveals him as a frightened and emotionally abused child fighting to protect himself from further pain. The contrast between Aspen’s cruel father and Magnolia’s own gentle and loving parents deepens her appreciation of them. Aspen’s explanation of his situation also introduces the symbol of flamingoes into the story—which teaches Magnolia that people can choose not to absorb negative beliefs about themselves—a lesson that will ultimately help her solve the problem of how to be a good friend to Iris in the novel’s final section.
Miller uses the combined effect of her prose and illustrations to highlight the ways in which Magnolia’s time with Iris benefits her and allows her to grow, highlighting The Gift of Friendship as a central theme. Magnolia loves having a best friend as emphasized by frequent illustrations of Magnolia and Iris looking happy and excited as they enjoy the cool air of a fan and eat a stack of pancakes. Iris models kindness when she discourages Magnolia from keeping Aspen’s flamingo sock and when she leaves Aspen the note telling him “I hope you stay gray” (87). Iris’s concern for others inspires Magnolia’s first tentative moves toward greater compassion. Although Magnolia initially responds callously when Iris tries to share how much she misses the California beaches, her attitude changes when she sees Iris’s kindness toward Aspen. In Chapter 5, Rosa—the plant shop owner—explains transplant shock to the girls, advising them that the cure is patience and extra care. This image helps Magnolia understand what Iris is going through, and she realizes she needs to be patient and give the recently “transplanted” Iris the kind of extra care she needs instead of disregarding her feelings.
Magnolia’s friendship with Jessica catalyzes a rift that puts her growing friendship with Iris in jeopardy. Magnolia's expanding perspective allows her to recognize that—like her parents, Alan, and Aspen—there is more to Jessica than surface appearances. Jessica’s life is like the T.V. mashed potatoes. It looks wonderful from the outside, but the reality is very different. Moved by Jessica’s loneliness, Magnolia befriends her in an attempt to be more confident about reaching out to and supporting other people. Iris’s jealous reaction forces Magnolia to extend the same kindness and empathy to Iris that Iris herself first modeled for Magnolia, even in the midst of conflict and hurt feelings. After Magnolia and Iris argue, Magnolia realizes that “It had all happened so quickly […] thoughts spewing out faster than either of them could process” (99). She longs to take her words back and sits in shocked confusion after Iris storms out. She “[has] no idea what [has] just been broken or how to repair it” (99). Magnolia discovers that she still has a lot to learn about being a real friend, underscoring humility as a central tenet of empathy. Miller’s illustration of three girls talking and sharing a drink at the boba shop highlights exactly what Magnolia is missing without Iris at her side.
Magnolia’s estrangement from Iris highlights a key component of The Gift of Friendship—the significance it lends to shared experiences. Magnolia tries to carry on her investigation without Iris but finds it no longer has the same meaning to her. Desperate to learn what she needs to know about being a good friend to Iris, Magnolia gets advice from the dog walker and the doorman at Jessica’s building—reinforcing the ways that her new connections enrich Magnolia’s perspective. New York provides the lessons she needs exactly when she needs them. The dog walker and doorman teach Magnolia that when arguments happen, the important thing is to work it out and move forward. If Magnolia wants to keep her friendship with Iris, she needs to take action to fix the problem.



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