Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence

Esther Perel

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Esther Perel

Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence

Nonfiction | Book | Adult | Published in 2006

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Esther Perel

Mating in Captivity

Nonfiction | Book | Adult | Published in 2006
Book Details
Pages

272

Format

Book • Nonfiction

Genre
Psychology

Self-Improvement
Setting

2000s

Theme
Gender Identity

Sexual Identity

Marriage
Topic
Relationships

Love & Sexuality
Publication Year

2006

Audience

Adult

Recommended Reading Age

18+ years

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Super Short Summary

In Mating in Captivity, psychotherapist Esther Perel explores the complexities of maintaining desire in long-term relationships. She examines how intimacy and eroticism often conflict, offering insights and strategies to sustain passion within committed partnerships. Through case studies and cultural analysis, Perel addresses the challenges couples face in balancing love and lust.

Informative

Romantic

Contemplative

Emotional

Challenging

Reviews & Readership

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Review Roundup

Esther Perel's Mating in Captivity explores the complex dynamics of intimacy and eroticism in long-term relationships. Praised for its insightful blend of clinical expertise and engaging storytelling, the book is noted for challenging conventional views on desire. However, some reviewers found its theoretical approaches less actionable for everyday readers.

Who should read this

Who Should Read Mating in Captivity?

A reader who would enjoy Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel is likely interested in modern relationships, intimacy, and maintaining passion in long-term partnerships. Fans of books like The State of Affairs by Perel and Hold Me Tight by Sue Johnson will find similar insights and thought-provoking discussions on desire and emotional connection.

Key Figures

A Belgian-born psychotherapist in New York City, known for exploring the paradox that love thrives on closeness while desire needs distance. Her work draws from her cross-cultural background and family history.

An English sociologist and theorist of late modernity, whose ideas about "pure relationships" and "plastic sexuality" provide a sociohistorical framework for understanding modern relationships.

An American psychologist and a founder of the relational school of psychoanalysis, offering a vocabulary to discuss the tensions between security and novelty in romantic relationships.

An American psychologist whose work on sexual fantasies as creative solutions supports Perel's views on the healthy role of fantasy in sexuality.

An American psychiatrist at Columbia University, providing insights into romantic love and desire, emphasizing their psychological importance over triviality.

A clinical psychologist known for the concept of "differentiation," which highlights the importance of maintaining individuality while being emotionally connected to a partner.

An American biological anthropologist at The Kinsey Institute, whose research on the neuroscience of love differentiates between lust, romantic attraction, and attachment.

A British psychoanalytic writer, whose ideas about monogamy and the necessity of a "third" presence energize discussions on rethinking fidelity and sustaining desire.

Book Details
Pages

272

Format

Book • Nonfiction

Genre
Psychology

Self-Improvement
Setting

2000s

Theme
Gender Identity

Sexual Identity

Marriage
Topic
Relationships

Love & Sexuality
Publication Year

2006

Audience

Adult

Recommended Reading Age

18+ years

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