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Book • Nonfiction
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Self-Improvement2000s
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Sexual Identity•
Marriage•
Love & Sexuality2006
Adult
18+ years
In Mating in Captivity, psychotherapist Esther Perel explores the complexities of maintaining desire in long-term relationships. She examines how intimacy and eroticism often conflict, offering insights and strategies to sustain passion within committed partnerships. Through case studies and cultural analysis, Perel addresses the challenges couples face in balancing love and lust.
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Romantic
Contemplative
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Esther Perel's Mating in Captivity explores the complex dynamics of intimacy and eroticism in long-term relationships. Praised for its insightful blend of clinical expertise and engaging storytelling, the book is noted for challenging conventional views on desire. However, some reviewers found its theoretical approaches less actionable for everyday readers.
A reader who would enjoy Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel is likely interested in modern relationships, intimacy, and maintaining passion in long-term partnerships. Fans of books like The State of Affairs by Perel and Hold Me Tight by Sue Johnson will find similar insights and thought-provoking discussions on desire and emotional connection.
An English sociologist and theorist of late modernity, whose ideas about "pure relationships" and "plastic sexuality" provide a sociohistorical framework for understanding modern relationships.
An American psychologist and a founder of the relational school of psychoanalysis, offering a vocabulary to discuss the tensions between security and novelty in romantic relationships.
An American psychologist whose work on sexual fantasies as creative solutions supports Perel's views on the healthy role of fantasy in sexuality.
An American psychiatrist at Columbia University, providing insights into romantic love and desire, emphasizing their psychological importance over triviality.
A clinical psychologist known for the concept of "differentiation," which highlights the importance of maintaining individuality while being emotionally connected to a partner.
An American biological anthropologist at The Kinsey Institute, whose research on the neuroscience of love differentiates between lust, romantic attraction, and attachment.
A British psychoanalytic writer, whose ideas about monogamy and the necessity of a "third" presence energize discussions on rethinking fidelity and sustaining desire.
272
Book • Nonfiction
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Self-Improvement2000s
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Sexual Identity•
Marriage•
Love & Sexuality2006
Adult
18+ years
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