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Arundhati returns to Kerala in the wake of her mother’s death. The two had a complicated relationship due to her mother’s abusive behavior, and Arundhati’s brother questions the depths of her grief because of it. He finds it difficult to understand how she could mourn a mother who so frequently took out her anger on her children. Arundhati acknowledges this characterization of her mother while also reflecting that she has had ample opportunity to analyze her childhood memories and contemplate her mother from a more objective position.
Arundhati left home immediately after finishing high school for a university program in Delhi, and for many years saw her mother only periodically. It was during that period that she realized how fierce and passionate her mother had been, and how iconoclastic. She divorced her husband and spoke her mind during an era in which Indian women were expected to remain quiet and subservient. She impacted multiple generations of her students.
Arundhati also realizes now that she has had time to process the events of her childhood by writing about them. There are elements of her mother in her novels, particularly in The God of Small Things. Her mother was well- aware that Arundhati fictionalized her and was largely happy with what she read. Arundhati recalls one memory in particular that has stayed with her: Her mother asked about one particular scene in The God of Small Things, wondering how she could remember something that happened when Arundhati was so young. Puzzled, she explained to her mother that the scene was fiction. “No,” she recalls her mother saying, it is not.
Arundhati begins to recount key aspects of her mother’s life. During the early days of her marriage, Mary wants to be a teacher. A career of her own is, however, out of reach in India’s deeply patriarchal society. Her husband has a position as an assistant manager on a tea estate in Assam, and like many of his coworkers he habitually abuses alcohol. When war breaks out between India and China in 1962, women and children are evacuated from the border provinces.
Mary, grateful for an excuse to leave her husband, takes Arundhati and her son LKC (Lalith Kumar Christopher) to Ooty, a small town in the state of Tamil Nadu. They live in a cottage once owned by Mary’s father, a colonial official whom Arundhati nicknames the “Imperial Entomologist.” There is some dispute over its ownership, as India’s legal system does not allow women to inherit much of their parents’ property, and Mary’s brother attempts unsuccessfully to evict her. Once their right to remain in the cottage is established, the family settles in.
Mary finds work as a teacher in a local school. The town has several schools, some for white children and others for Indian. Mary is interested in the new teaching methods used by teachers in the white schools, but is angered by the racism those teachers express about Indians.
Mary enjoys teaching and her newfound freedom, but becomes ill. Eventually she is unable to work and has to pack up her children and return to her mother’s home in Kerala, in the small village of Ayemenem.
Mary, LKC, and Arundhati move in with Miss Kurien, Mary’s older sister, Mary’s brother G. Isaac, and Mary’s mother. Miss Kurien has an MA in English literature and once taught university courses in Sri Lanka (then known as Ceylon). G. Isaac is one of India’s first Rhodes scholars and enjoys regaling the family with tales of Greek and Roman mythology.
Arundhati instantly realizes that their presence is unwelcome, that they are judged by family and servants alike for the absence of Mary’s husband. Still, Arundhati enjoys her life there. She makes friends among the village children, even those who are deemed “untouchable” by virtue of their caste. She learns to fish and, even more importantly, learns to flee the house whenever there is an argument. Her mother, grandmother, and her mother’s siblings are all quick to anger, and their relations are constantly shifting. A placid conversation can easily go awry and become a heated confrontation.
Mary becomes even more volatile. The steroids she is prescribed to help with her asthma cause weight gain, and when Arundhati innocently asks her mother why her sister Mrs. Joseph is so thin and she is so large, Mary explodes in anger. Arundhati is once again the target of her mother’s rage, and the incident becomes just one small piece in the larger tapestry of her childhood unhappiness.
It is only years later, reflecting on her mother’s poor health, lack of employment, and mistreatment at the hands of her own family, that Arundhati feels empathy for her mother. She realizes how hurtful her words must have been to a woman once considered beautiful.
Mary and Mrs. Matthews, a missionary whom she met in Ooty, found a small school together. It is a daunting task, and Arundhati realizes now the role that racism and sexism played in the school’s early days: Although Mary had experience and training, it was only the presence of a white missionary that convinced parents to enroll their children in the new school. Mary was, in spite of her credentials, a divorced woman of color and thus considered socially suspect.
The school does well, and Mary is able to contribute financially to her mother, sister, and brother’s household. She begins arguing with Mrs. Matthews over the school’s pedagogical orientation, and Mrs. Matthews leaves. The school continues to thrive, and Mary is able to rent additional building space to house boarding students. Mary, LKC, and Arundhati move into the school grounds with Kurussammal, a woman from Ooty who becomes their housekeeper.
The school continues to thrive, and as the students age it expands into the upper grades. Mary becomes “Mrs. Roy,” even to her children. Arundhati admits that even now, after her mother’s death, she still thinks of her as “Mrs. Roy” rather than “mother.”
Mary works tirelessly to educate her students not only in academic areas, but also in manners and ethics. She considers herself her students’ surrogate mother and acts accordingly. The boys she raises to be kind and gentle, the opposite of what society tells them they should be. The girls she raises to be assertive and ambitious, again the opposite of the “ideal” type for an Indian woman. She frees both the boys and the girls from the kind of rigid gender roles that made her so unhappy in her marriage.
During this period, Arundhati is sexually assaulted by a trusted pillar of the community, the man who plays Santa at their local Christmas party. She tells no one.
When LKC is 9, he is sent to boarding school. Arundhati follows two years later. By this point, Mary has begun to take out all of her anger towards men and India’s violently patriarchal system on LKC. He bears the brunt of her anger and physical abuse with a quiet stoicism, but Arundhati knows that he feels the trauma of their childhood more acutely than she does. Mrs. Roy passionately teaches her students about gender equality, but somehow by the time she gets home to her children, her desire to instruct becomes a desire to punish. She calls LKC a “chauvinist pig” for even the smallest of infractions.
Their boarding school, a military academy, is different from Mrs. Roy’s school in every way possible, and Arundhati bristles against the regimented schedule of her days and the harsh teaching methods. She is angry with her mother for mistreating her and her brother and for sending them away to such a terrible school, but her heart still swells with happiness whenever her mother attends one of the school’s events.
Mrs. Roy criticizes Arundhati also, although with less overt hostility than she directs at her son. Arundhati recalls her mother once calling her a “bitch,” however, and she can still feel the sting of that insult. It happened during a particularly fraught political time in the region.
The Naxalites, a breakaway Marxist sect who feel that India’s main Marxist party has sold out by participating in elections, begin threatening revolution. All over, rumors swirl and discussions about class and equality become commonplace. Even the Christian clergy (Mary and her family are Syrian Christians) begin addressing the issue of caste, although Arundhati observes that because so much of their congregation is affluent, the anti-rich rhetoric is somewhat toned down from what she hears of the Naxalites’ ideology.
Mrs. Roy attends church services only fitfully, however, and she seems much more interested in communism than she is in Christianity. Although not exactly a Naxalite sympathizer, she does teach Arundhati about the plight of the North Vietnamese in the face of imperialist invasion and introduces her to books on workers’ rights. Years later, Arundhati will include the Naxalites in The God of Small Things as a remembrance of those years.
In the present-day, as guests arrive for the funeral, LKC is jovial. He is a successful businessman who drives a BMW. He does not pretend that the difficulties of their childhood didn’t happen, and because of that he expresses little grief at their mother’s passing.
Mrs. Roy purchases a plot of land so that she can expand her school. She wants her students to study the arts. She enlists the help of Laurie Baker, a prominent architect, to build a series of buildings and a central stage. Arundhati, although she is to become a writer, finds herself drawn to the process of architecture and sets her sights on studying architecture after high school. It will be a difficult career path for a woman, but her mother tells her that she can do anything she sets her mind to.
Arundhati Roy begins her memoir with an account of the complicated impact her mother’s death had on her. In doing so, she introduces one of the major themes of her story: The Tension Between Public Legacy and Private Identity and her years-long attempt to come to terms with a mother who was both a revered public figure and a serial abuser in the home. Since Mary is such a caring, maternal presence in the lives of her students, her children feel doubly spurned: Mary is capable of compassion, but not with Arundhati and LKC. Arundhati is committed to honesty in representation, and although she humanizes and contextualizes Mary, she does not gloss over the abuse that she suffered at Mary’s hands.
Arundhati describes how Mary took out her anger with India’s sexist social norms on LKC and the physical and verbal abuse that Mary leveled at her daughter. Mary is emotionally volatile; as Arundhati recalls, “I found it impossible to predict or gauge what would anger her and what would please her” (19). Since her mother’s mood swings are so unpredictable, Arundhati and LKC live in a constant state of fear and anxiety. Since their mother is so critical, they struggle to see themselves as intelligent or capable, even though both LKC and Arundhati inherit their family’s keen intellect and drive. In candidly describing her mother’s abuse, Arundhati seeks to reveal who her mother really was in private behind the respectable public façade.
Significantly, however, Arundhati also provides a detailed account of Mary’s history, introducing The Battle Against Sexism and Gender Inequality that her mother faced. In doing so, she attempts to provide context for the sort of woman her mother eventually became. Rather than beginning with blame, she begins with the details of her mother’s history that allowed her to see her mother in a more objective light and eventually to forgive her. She notes the difficulties of Mary’s childhood and the unhappiness of her marriage. Although Mickey Roy abuses alcohol and Mary feels isolated, her unhappiness is more the result of the limitations placed on her, as a woman, by the deeply patriarchal Indian society into which she is born. Mary comes from a family of intelligent individuals and wants to pursue a career in teaching. As a married woman, however, she cannot respectably work outside of the home.
This context foregrounds gender inequality’s impact on Mary, with Arundhati implying that Mary’s emotional volatility was fostered by a life spent constantly battling against arbitrary, gendered constraints. Mary is driven and career-oriented, but must defy expectations of docility and “women’s work” to succeed in forging her own path. That Mary divorces Mickey and then does obtain a teaching position invites further social ostracism, with Arundhati detailing the criticism even Mary’s own family subjected her to as a divorced woman. Arundhati thus portrays Mary as a woman fighting against circumstance rather than simply a malicious abuser, suggesting that abuse can become a cycle in which an oppressed figure becomes an oppressor in turn.
Arundhati also takes time to detail Mary’s devotion to pedagogy and to her students, characterizing Mary as a passionate educator. This kind of background foreshadows Arundhati’s eventual choice to forgive her mother: She will ultimately respect Mary for the way that she embodied the politics of resistance that she espoused in public and in her teaching. In seeking to present both the public and private aspects of Mary, Arundhati strives to depict her mother as a complex, three-dimensional figure who had both positive and negative attributes.
Although these chapters focus mainly on Mary’s early life and career and Arundhati’s childhood, there is also an important political undercurrent. Arundhati subtly engages with the way that class shapes both her and her family’s experiences: Her parents both grow up in relative privilege and enjoy the kinds of opportunities denied to most in their rigid, caste-based society. Mary’s husband Mickey has a managerial position on a tea estate, and Mary is able to pursue a teaching career because of her own education and affluence. Arundhati also notes that when Marxist ideology begins to gain traction in India, her family’s Syrian Christian church voices approval for the idea of helping the needy, but tempers its rhetoric surrounding more extreme Marxist ideas and does not support a wholesale, equal redistribution of power and resources. This background will shape Arundhati’s own activist career later in the memoir: She will recognize the way that class privilege can make up for some of the power that she loses as a woman in a patriarchal society, choosing to fight for more social equality amongst India’s lowest castes.
Arundhati also introduces The Links Between Creativity and Identity Development, which will become a more prominent part of her story in later chapters. She discusses the decades she has spent coming to terms with Mary’s fraught legacy and contrasts herself and her brother, noting that LKC still resents Mary. Arundhati recognizes that for her, processing often took the form of writing. Her brother, not being a writer himself, is not able to reflect in the same way that she does. Arundhati will thus also detail her years-long healing process and provide insight into how and why writing helped her forgive a woman who routinely abused her.



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