My Favorite Half-Night Stand

The online dating profile functions as one of the novel’s most significant motifs, driving the plot while contributing to the novel’s exploration of the theme of Performing Identity in the Digital Age of Dating. The profiles the characters create are not just tools for finding dates; they are curated performances that highlight the conflict between an idealized, digital self and a complex, authentic one. This tension is most evident in Millie, who crafts detailed, charming profiles for her male friends but creates a disastrously vague one for herself. Her initial profile, which concludes with the dismissive line, “If you want to know more, just ask!” (98), reveals her profound reluctance to be vulnerable. This failure to represent her true self online mirrors her inability to share personal stories in real life, particularly regarding her family and fears. The motif illustrates how digital platforms can become stages for avoidance rather than connection.

Millie’s creation of a second, anonymous profile under the name “Catherine” becomes the novel’s primary vehicle for the theme of The Necessity of Vulnerability for Intimacy while catalyzing the romantic plot and Millie’s character arc. As Catherine, Millie shares the deeply personal stories and honest thoughts she cannot