64 pages 2-hour read

One of the Girls

Fiction | Novel | YA | Published in 2022

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Content Warning: This section of the guide includes discussion of bullying, anti-gay bias, sexual violence, rape, mental illness, disordered eating, suicidal ideation, sexual content, death, physical abuse, and emotional abuse.

The Power and Precarity of Female Friendship

Friendship in One of the Girls is both a stabilizing and destabilizing force. Robyn and Bella, though very different, are both deeply loyal to Lexi in their own ways. Robyn agrees to attend the island getaway despite hesitation, motivated solely by her bond with Lexi. The friendship between Lexi, Bella, and Robyn is described in terms of feminine archetypes: “They each had their own role. Lexi was the face of the group, wild, untamable and untethered by her parents. Bella was the voice, loud and deliciously outspoken, often honking with infectious laughter. Robyn was their collective conscience, loyal and thoughtful, ready to steer them right” (36). While their bond is strong and seemingly eternal, it is not without its challenges and conflicts. The interlude later reflects: “You might even say that friends are medicine. But then any biochemist will tell you that medicine to one person can be poison to another” (95), signifying how deep emotional intimacy can lead to toxicity, especially in the context of a patriarchal culture that demands that women perform their adherence to impossible ideals and keep many of their emotional struggles secret even from their closest friends. The narrative doesn’t idealize these relationships but presents them as real and fragile, reflecting the emotional labor and courage required to maintain bonds between women.


Tensions between Bella and Robyn become apparent when Bella expresses jealousy, even calling Robyn “boring.” This insult masks a deeper issue: Many years ago, Bella was secretly in love with Robyn, and the two shared an intimate experience. Robyn, attempting to appear straight, repressed this experience. This denial and secrecy damaged their friendship for years. These buried truths reflect how internalized shame and the performance of identity can damage the bonds that women share. The climax of the novel sees the women uniting against Ed, whose manipulation and abuse have affected each of them in some way or another. They get behind Eleanor in solidarity, a critical moment of transformation for everyone as they become a united front after so much tension: “The women drew tighter. A pack” (390). This is the first time Eleanor feels genuinely supported, illustrating friendship’s power to redeem and even save a life. Although wounds remain, their support forms a protective shield, especially as they face the decision to hide Eleanor’s role in Ed’s death.


The friendship among the women is complicated, messy, and often painful. It is rooted in long histories and betrayals; yet ultimately, the novel shows that friendship has the power to heal. The group endures despite everything, and even 16 months later, they remain connected. Though some things are still rocky between them, their survival as a unit is a testament to friendship’s enduring strength.

Secrets as Bond and Solvent

Secrets are the driving force behind the story, serving as a plot device that drives the action, tension, and eventual resolution. The secrets these women keep together—and those they keep from each other—both bind them together and threaten to dissolve their bonds. Each woman arrives on the island with hidden truths that shape her behavior. Bella has been dishonest with Fen, straining their relationship. Meanwhile, Ana conceals her past knowledge of Eleanor and her connection to Ed through their son. Lexi, too, harbors a significant secret: her pregnancy, which only Robyn knows about. The hen weekend, on a Greek island far from the women’s daily lives, serves as a sequestered space in which hidden truths come to light, reinforcing how secrets create conflict in even close relationships: “We caught the hushed tones of arguments meant to be played out in private” (113). The characters cannot forever ignore the tension beneath the surface, and their secrets define the characters as much as their truths do.


Bella senses early that something is off with Ed, though she can’t articulate exactly what it is. Her intuition is validated when the truth about Ed’s abuse and manipulation surfaces. In one interlude, the narrative reflects, “The real problems began when we discovered we were being lied to. No one likes to be made a fool of. That sort of thing, well, it couldn’t go unpunished, could it?” (233). Ed’s most devastating secret is not just that he is the father of Ana’s child, but that he raped Ana. He also bullied Sam to the point of serious injury. Eleanor’s breakdown stems in part from hiding her role in Sam’s death and being unaware of Ana’s history with Ed. These secrets and others serve as catalysts for the collapse of some relationships and the strengthening of others.


Secrets about identity and desire also come into play. Bella and Robyn shared an intimate experience years ago, which Robyn ignored in order to maintain the image of being heterosexual. This unresolved tension affects their dynamic and shapes Bella’s bitterness toward Robyn, with Lexi believing it is just Bella being judgmental. Their secret history represents the cost of hiding one’s truth to meet social expectations. With help from Fen, Robyn finds the courage stop hiding from herself and others. Meanwhile, Bella unburdens herself of the secret guilt she feels over Sam’s death. When Eleanor, who lost her beloved husband because of Bella’s mistake, rescues Bella after her fall from the cliff, both women confront their buried guilt and emotional scars. As the story reaches its climax, all secrets come to light: Ed’s rape of Ana, his fatherhood of Luca, and his indirect responsibility for Sam’s death. Eleanor ultimately kills Ed, and the group collectively chooses to hide her role in it, suggesting they have found solidarity through shared hardship. Their silence becomes another powerful secret. Sixteen months later, their relationships remain fragile, but still intact, suggesting that secrets, though often destructive, are also sometimes necessary for survival.

The Pressure of Patriarchal Gender Norms

One of the Girls examines how women internalize and perform societal expectations of femininity. The women are constantly measuring themselves and each other against patriarchal standards of beauty, desirability, and behavior. Fen remembers Nico calling her “disgusting,” a moment that leads to lasting food issues and self-image struggles. Bella is obsessed with her appearance, wearing makeup and designer clothes even at the pool. Lexi’s effortless beauty provokes envy, while Eleanor and Robyn both exhibit low self-esteem about their bodies. These anxieties reflect how women are conditioned to view themselves as objects to be evaluated, even in the presence of other women.


When they are together, these performances are at first amplified before breaking down. The women initially become more polished and performative in each other’s presence, but these performances begin to crack. Robyn has a moment of clarity in the sea with Fen, choosing to embrace herself rather than hide her body. Fen confronts the man who sexually assaulted her, reclaiming agency over her body and internal narrative. Robyn and Lexi both express frustration with living according to others’ standards; Lexi says, “It’s not the wanting that’s the problem. It’s the permission-seeking” (287), adding: “Maybe we all need to stop trying to meet everyone else’s expectations—and just meet our own” (289). These changes in perspective emphasize the shift from external validation to internal liberation.


The story also ties the social performance of femininity with real danger. Fen’s trauma from Nico is paralleled in Ana’s rape by Ed and foreshadowed by Lexi’s unease. Ana later realizes, “It was not the first time Ed had hit a woman. It was all right there, pulsing in the space between brother and sister” (396), pointing to a long history of violence ignored or excused (both by Ed and against women in general). Clarke uses these events to critique how the patriarchy uses traditional femininity (beauty, passivity, silence) to maintain power. The performance of femininity in this case does not protect the women but makes them vulnerable to abuse.


Robyn experiences queer desire, but hides these feelings to maintain compliance with conservative, anti-gay gender expectations. After a night of intimacy with Bella, Robyn denies that it happened, leaving Bella feeling rejected and humiliated. This long ignored event represents the repression of queer identity and the emotional toll of conforming to heteronormative expectations. Ana’s reflection in the epilogue (“Motherhood was a series of questions and doubts” [419]) emphasizes how even idealized roles like motherhood are fraught with uncertainty and pressure. The novel ultimately portrays femininity as a role shaped by social forces, internalized guilt, and systems of control. Each woman must renegotiate what it means to be herself, outside of expectation and performance.

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