57 pages 1-hour read

Praise

Fiction | Novel | Adult | Published in 2022

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Sexual Confidence as a Path to Self-Worth

Content Warning: This section of the guide includes discussion of transgender discrimination, emotional abuse, and sexual content.


In Praise, Charlie’s journey toward confidence and self-worth is intertwined with her sexual awakening and acceptance of her own desires. When the novel opens, she has recently broken up with Beau, realizing that her efforts to help him through his struggles only led to his disrespect and her own declining confidence. Beau’s cruelty toward Charlie stemmed out of his own self-loathing since he sees her kindness and help as a reminder of his own failures. However, this does not diminish the damage that his behavior has inflicted on Charlie. It is only when she learns to embrace her sexual identity, particularly through her dynamic with Emerson, that she is able to recover her sense of self.


Initially, Charlie experiences significant doubt about her preferences for a praise kink dynamic. She treats her intense desire for Emerson’s praise as a pathological response to past trauma, particularly her father’s abandonment. Charlie worries that her desire for a man’s approval and praise conflicts with her feminist ideals. Ultimately, however, as she becomes more involved with the kink community and learns about the psychology behind kink practices, she realizes that her need for praise is not inherently disempowering or a symptom of past trauma. Ultimately, she realizes that the psychological effect of Emerson’s praise isn’t really about Emerson at all. Instead, his praise makes Charlie increasingly able to see herself as Emerson sees her: as a beautiful and desirable woman. She feels empowered by the positive sexual attention she gains through their dynamic. She gains a sense of confidence as Emerson’s praise reinforces her desirability and sexual agency. This becomes a psychological turning point that makes her feel more capable and confident in other areas of her life as well.


The novel portrays the overlap between sexual confidence and positive self-image as something that can broadly be applied to participation in kink and not as something that is unique to Charlie. Madame Kink also expresses the sense of power she gets from participating in kink, offering the perspective of an established member of the community rather than a neophyte like Charlie. Madame Kink’s self-confidence is not tied to a partner’s gaze, and in this way, she is a foil for Charlie. However, like Charlie, Madame Kink’s sense of self-assurance is tied to her sexual agency, particularly within kink. These characters show that sexual confidence can be a self-defining and empowering force.

Acceptance and Judgment About Sexuality

Praise, and indeed the Salacious Players’ Club series as a whole, explores the tension between personal sexual freedom and the societal judgment faced by those who defy conventional sexual norms. Emerson and his friends open a sex club that caters to kink practitioners, and the club’s origins lie in the ostracization that they often encounter because they engage in kink practices. For instance, in the Prologue, Emerson humorously recounts an anecdote about how a potential partner reacted poorly when he tried to introduce kink into their dynamic. He and his friends, who are all involved in the kink lifestyle, complain about how they feel compelled to hide their preferences because they want to avoid judgment. They decide to create the club so that they can have a space to express themselves without hiding, and in doing so, Emerson and his friends decide to “come out” publicly as kink practitioners. The novel frames this as a personally liberating choice, though it does not shield them from the burden of others’ disdain and judgment.


One of the primary obstacles that Emerson faces in the novel is the disapproval of his son, Beau, who considers his father’s participation in the club to be morally repugnant. Charlie is also uncertain about kink when she first encounters it: Her initial discomfort with kink stems from ingrained societal notions about what is acceptable or normal sexual behavior. However, as she learns more, she comes to see kink as an emotionally rich and valid expression of intimacy. The novel portrays acceptance as the ability to move past any preconceived notions about kink and sex, and the lack of this quality differentiates the antagonists from the protagonists. For example, Beau, when he is against his father, is presented as a minor antagonist. Once he and Emerson reconcile, however, he becomes an ally to both Charlie and Emerson.


The novel explores the connections between sexual identity and self-expression through the subplot involving Charlie’s young sister, Sophie, who is transgender. When Jimmy, Charlie and Sophie’s father, returns at the end of the novel, he speaks hatefully about both his daughters. He attempts to shame Charlie for being involved with a sex club, criticizing her sexuality. In Sophie’s case, his hatred is rooted in anti-trans bias. His judgment about both his daughters is rooted in rigid societal ideas.


The club offers a contrast to Jimmy’s anti-sex and anti-LGTBQ+ rhetoric by indicating that being truly sex positive means embracing all consenting interactions, regardless of number of partners, their genders, or their preferred way of engaging in sex. This attitude further liberates Charlie to explore her attraction to Madame Kink in an atmosphere that feels safe to her.


When Beau and Emerson reconcile at the end of the novel, Emerson succinctly summarizes the novel’s ethos regarding accepting diverse sexual practices: “There will always be people who react [negatively toward my work.] Who see things one way and refuse to open their minds to anything else. I’d rather be someone people deem as depraved or sinful than being narrow-minded or hateful” (296). Praise argues for open-mindedness and inclusiveness over judgment and repression.

Familial Obligations and Their Limits

The novel explores the balance between honoring family ties and maintaining personal autonomy. Both protagonists feel a strong sense of obligation to their families. For Emerson, this manifests as his desire to feel as though he is a worthy father to Beau, with whom he has been estranged ever since Beau learned about Emerson’s role in the Salacious Players’ Club. Beau disapproves of Emerson’s ownership of the club, which he considers to be tawdry and distasteful. Charlie, meanwhile, feels responsible for protecting her beloved younger sister, Sophie, and helping out their mother financially. As Emerson and Sophie grow closer, they both recognize that while their families are important, they cannot let familial obligations control their lives.


Emerson spends much of the novel trying to earn Beau’s forgiveness. Even his decision to hire Charlie stems from this desire to reconcile with Beau, as he thinks that hiring Charlie will lure Beau back into his life. While Emerson is ultimately correct, the situation gets more complicated than he anticipated when he becomes emotionally involved with Charlie. He then attempts to sever ties with Charlie to appease his son, even declaring that his relationship with Charlie is “nothing,” but this ends up backfiring. Emerson comes to realize that he cannot—and should not—sacrifice his own happiness for his son’s comfort. In time, Emerson comes to see that Beau is an adult and that he cannot control his son’s reactions. However, he also cannot let his own romantic and sex life be dictated by Beau’s comfort levels.


Charlie, meanwhile, has to learn to let go of her sense of responsibility for her father’s abandonment after Sophie came out as transgender. Charlie admits that she fears that her inadequacy will lead Emerson to leave her, just like her father did, indicating that Jimmy’s abandonment affected her deeply. As she gains confidence in herself, she begins to distance herself from this fear. In turn, she learns to expect care and stability from her relationships.


The end of the novel shows Charlie, her family, Emerson, and Beau forming a tentative family unit. Their reunion is still awkward, but the Epilogue suggests that their relationships are improving as they spend more time together. The novel therefore posits that family bonds and obligations, while meaningful, must coexist with personal identity and agency; this is how family relationships can be conducive to growth.

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