61 pages 2-hour read

Praisesong For The Widow

Fiction | Novel | Adult | Published in 1983

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Part 3, Chapters 1-3Chapter Summaries & Analyses

Part 3: “Lavé Tête”

Part 3, Chapter 1 Summary

Avey stirs from sleep to the smell of a baby needing to be changed—not because the diaper had been soiled but because the heat of a New York summer caused the diaper to smell foul. She is careful not to wake Jerome as she makes the journey back to the girls’ room. As she is about to pass the living room towards the back bedroom, every light turns on, waking Avey up and bringing her back to reality. She is laying in her hotel room in Granada, the morning sun blaring through her window like the lights in her dream. She lies on her sweat-soaked sheets for a moment, numbly taking in her belongings strewn across the room: the pocketbook, emptied, out on the balcony and her hat, gloves, and clothing crumpled on the floor.


Finally, she slowly began to peel off the clothes she had slept in, unsettled by how realistic the dream felt. Naked, she stares at herself, noticing the bruised look to her nipples. She thinks of her daughter, Annawilda, who she had been trying to reach in the dream. She also thinks of her great-aunt Cuney, who she had fought in her dream just days before.


Avey finds herself on the beach outside the hotel. She had absentmindedly wandered from her room in a shirt-dress she chose from her bag at random, flat shoes, no sun-hat, and her hair only halfway combed. The desk clerk, when he approached to remind her of her flight later that day, had appeared visibly shocked at her appearance: “Could this be the same well-dressed black woman with the half-dozen suitcases?” (153). 


Avey is suddenly desperate to move away from the hotel, so she begins walking along the beach. The sun beats down on her and, after walking far enough that the block of hotels are a distant sight, dehydration and exhaustion overcome her. She looks for some of the huts designed to offer guests shade, which she had passed awhile back. Instead, in her daze, she sets her sight on a structure further away from the hotels. When she finally reaches it, she staggers in, embraced by its cool air. 

Part 3, Chapter 2 Summary

Avey walks into an empty bar, or what is called “a rum shop” (158), on the island. The coolness of the place soothes her, and she recuperates a bit from her harrowing journey from the hotel. She calls out to see if anyone is near, hoping to receive a glass of water. An elderly man limps out from the back, telling Avey that the bar is closed. She, in “child-like stubbornness” (160), stares at him in silence and refuses to move He repeats himself, his frustration increasing. Avey begs to remain, promising to stay only as long as she needs to rest, and the man says nothing. Avey takes in his age—about 90—and perceives him as someone who has overcome a life of struggle through sheer will. When the man reveals that he closed the place because of the Carriacou excursion, Avey remembers the great crowd she witnessed only yesterday.


The man explains that he, too, is from Carriacou and returns every year to visit the whole community, which loves him like family because he is the oldest out-islander still living. Though there are many reasons for the excursion, the man says that the greatest reason is to pay respect to “The Old Parents” (166). Each nation performs a dance, and the man is certain every year to dance for his mother’s nation after his father’s so his mother will not feel slighted (166). He then asks Avey what her nation is, but she does not understand the question. She clarifies that she is from New York, and he dismisses her with a wave of his hand. His countenance changes as he takes in her expensive clothing, “chemically straightened hair” (168), and the rings on her fingers. Suddenly, Avey is ashamed of them. Without meaning to, Avey tells the man everything that brought her to his bar: the dream, the parfait, the hallucinations, leaving the cruise ship, the long walk down the scorching beach. She cannot tell him the vision of Jerome standing above her on the hotel balcony, but she senses that he understands exactly what she’s gone through. His “penetrating look […] marked him as someone who possessed ways of seeing that went beyond mere sight and ways of knowing that outstripped ordinary intelligence” (172). Kindly, he tells her to wait while he goes to get something. 

Part 3, Chapter 3 Summary

The man, suddenly moving with the briskness of youth, retrieves fresh coconut water for Avey. In it, he puts a small amount of rum from Carriacou, which he saves for special occasions. Avey immediately feels its effects, feeling lighter and more relaxed. He comforts her about not knowing her nation, explaining that there are many others like her, which is why he sings for them at the excursion, keeping them in mind so their ancestors won’t be vexed. He asks Avey what she knows of the “old-time creole dances” (175) and is shocked to learn she cannot recognize the ones he names. The man then tells Avey of “The Bongo”, the story of a husband and wife stolen from Carriacou, sold into slavery, and sent to different countries, orphaning their two children.


As the man sings the tale to Avey, Avey is overcome by emotion despite not understanding the words. She feels the agony he conveys in the song and is deeply moved, imagining the man and woman in chains. The barman begins listing off other dances until Avey recognizes one: “the Juba” (177). It vaguely rings a bell, though she cannot remember how she know it. He asks her to show him how they dance it, but she tells him she cannot because it is “only something you might hear or read about” (178). The man disagrees and shows her how he dances it. His voice takes on a feminine tone as he sings, and he moves about as though flicking his hair and fanning his skirt. He comes alive, appearing and sounding younger. For the first time in a while, Avey laughs instinctually and without reservation.


The man tries to pull her up to dance with him, but suddenly he becomes serious and asks her to come on the excursion. Avey, remembering her old self, freezes. She looks around for the pocketbook and watch she did not bring with her. When the man tells her it is only noon, her urgency to leave—but also her intuitive desire to stay—increases. Though she remembers wanting to catch the next flight, the thought of returning to her house brings back the strange sensation she felt in her stomach on the ship. The man continues to urge her to come on the excursion, explaining that it would only be a few days, and she could stay in his daughter’s nice house. Avey becomes increasingly hostile, but the man remains calm, offering solutions to every one of her concerns. Exhausted from fighting him off, Avey agrees to go on the condition that he will bring her back the day after tomorrow. 

Part 3, Chapters 1-3 Analysis

In Part 3, Chapter 1, dreams become increasingly symbolic as they expose Avey’s subconscious and subsequently influence her actions and decisions. Her dream alludes to her desire to be who she was when she and Jerome still lived on Halsey Street while foreshadowing her coming enlightenment. She wakes after dreaming that every light in the apartment suddenly turns on, only to discover it’s the blaring sun filling her hotel room in real life. Therefore, the dream alludes to the illuminating quest she will embark on.


It also works to unsettle Avey, causing her to become gradually more introspective. Her behavior becomes increasingly unusual, marked by her carelessness towards her possessions and her appearance: “She was without even a little face powder. Her watch, which she never failed to put on after showering in the mornings, had been on the vanity in the bathroom” (152). The changes are further represented by her careless and aimless wandering; “[w]ith a child’s curiosity and awe” (154), she is drawn to the deserted beaches, far from the hotels. She feels these sights are all new to her because of how altered she is; though she has seen many beaches like this, the profound change beginning to take hold of her causes her to see everything differently. She reverts to a child-like state of wonderment and naivety, allowing her to reevaluate and rebuild her self-possession.


The fraught tone of Chapter 1 is supplanted by the consolation and reverence Avey feels when entering the rum shop in Chapter 2: “the place [had] the tone hushed tone of a temple or church. Through the open door could be heard the faint shouts of the children diving off the jetty: a lyric sound in the silence” (159). Though the owner is momentarily hostile, the bar is initially marked as a place of refuge and revelation for Avey. Its significance becomes more apparent as the old man describes his connection to the excursion.


In his descriptions of Carriacou and the excursion, the old man relates a sense of tradition and community completely foreign to Avey. Furthermore, when she cannot answer which nation she comes from, the interaction starkly highlights her disconnection from her cultural identity. The chapter also uses the motifs of storytelling and dancing to convey this—first in the man’s tale of the excursion’s events and then in his insistence that they must dance for the “Old Parents” so they are remembered (166). The story of the excursion, which is primarily meant to honor one’s ancestors, demonstrates the task that Avey has failed to do: upholding a cultural legacy imparted unto her by Aunt Cuney.

As Avey unravels her own story for the man, her “old self” is shocked to see her “talking so freely” (170). Avey begins to unburden herself of the feelings she cannot yet identify. Her newfound openness marks another development in her character and allows a profound connection between Avey and the man to form. The man’s acceptance and unspoken understanding of Avey alludes to this connection being rooted in far more than this single interaction. The implication is that it derives from a distantly shared experience, feeling, or history.


Chapter 3 builds upon the motifs of dance and storytelling to begin Avey’s cultural regeneration, one of the greater thematic elements of the novel. The loss of Avey’s cultural identity is addressed in direct and indirect ways. The man overtly addresses it in his attempt to console her: “It have quite a few like you. People who can’t call their nation […] Is a hard thing. I don’t even like to think about it” (175). Indirectly, the loss is acknowledged by his explanation that only the Carriacouans who left the Caribbean no longer come back for the excursion: “an aggrieved wave of his hand spelled out Canada, England, the States, but he refused to call the names. (‘…grands and great-grands I has never seen…’)” (183). These statements touch upon both Avey’s personal distance from culture and the vast, lasting impact of the African diaspora, demonstrating the violence still inflicted upon African descendants because of the legacies of imperialism and slavery. This is then explicitly explored through the tale of The Bongo as the man describes that a husband is sold to Trinidad, a wife to Haiti, and two children orphaned. This family represents the millions of others who were torn from their home and loved ones and scattered across the world, disconnecting them from their ancestral home and therefore their cultural traditions.


Despite this, the novel conveys that cultural regeneration is possible through Avey’s reluctant journey. Her old self, briefly worried about her material possessions, loses the fight against the old man’s offer to join the excursion because it is one she has been fighting her entire life: “[s]he continued to search her mind for an excuse […] But nothing more emerged. There was only the gaping hole and the darkness” (184). Avey can no longer ward off the need to restore the parts of herself she lost over the years because she can no longer find a reason for avoiding it. The reality of her subconscious desires have made themselves known, and she can now take on the journey of her cultural self-possession. 

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