Private Lives

Noël Coward

38 pages 1-hour read

Noël Coward

Private Lives

Fiction | Play | Adult | Published in 1930

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Content Warning: This section of the guide includes discussion of physical abuse.

Act 2, Pages 42-48 Summary

Several days later, Amanda and Elyot are in her apartment in Paris. The flat is furnished with a grand piano, a gramophone, small tables, and two sofas. They have sent their housekeeper home and spend the evening in their pajamas, drinking and leisurely chatting about idiosyncratic topics like the plural of “bison” and Elyot’s grandmother riding camels in the Sahara. 


Elyot thinks it reflects poorly on them that they can enjoy themselves after callously abandoning their spouses. Not believing in regret, Amanda is satisfied that they sent explanatory letters to Victor and Sibyl. They anticipate that their spouses will come looking for them. 


Elyot muses that he and Amanda have always remained married in the eyes of heaven since Catholics do not believe in divorce. Amanda retorts that they are not Catholic and are living in sin in society’s eyes. She wonders if they should remarry, but considers public marriage the cause of their downfall. Amanda regrets their divorce, but Elyot believes their five years apart have mellowed them. They have hardly used the catch phrase, shortened to “Sollocks,” all week. 


The exes discuss their old suspicions of infidelity during their marriage and argue about whom they’ve slept with while divorced. Elyot thinks promiscuity is unsuitable for women, but Amanda retorts that it only doesn’t suit men’s expectations for women. Realizing that they are fighting again, they start dancing to defuse the tension and parody being at a fancy party.

Act 2, Pages 49-59 Summary

Amanda feels sorry for Sibyl and Victor. Elyot tells her to shut up and asserts they are being true to themselves. Amanda is troubled: Had she and Elyot not bumped into each other, they would have remained with their second spouses. Elyot is annoyed when Amanda talks about Victor’s love for her, and they fight again. Elyot invokes “Sollocks,” and after two minutes of silence, they lovingly apologize to each other. Amanda thinks they will not last; she claims to believe in neither heaven nor hell, but in kindness, charity, and pursing happiness.


Elyot and Amanda were married for three years and divorced for five. They consider themselves fools for divorcing and embrace passionately. Elyot wants to make love, but Amanda is not in the mood so soon after dinner. Insulted, Elyot calls her common, and Amanda retorts that he’s vain. She invokes “Sollocks” and throws herself on the couch. 


Elyot plays a tune on the piano and serenades Amanda. She joins him, and they sing several old romance songs, ending with the tune they heard back on the hotel terrace. Their passions reignite, but the telephone interrupts their amorous embrace. They’re relieved it’s a wrong number and not their spouses, but it’s only a matter of time before they face Sibyl and Victor. 


Elyot believes it’s easy to overcome dread if one is happy, whereas Amanda thinks love is a cruel joke: Happiness never lasts. To Elyot, the best way to challenge moralists is through laughter and flippancy, especially regarding themselves. He advises Amanda not to take even death seriously and to enjoy life like a child at a party. He declares he doesn’t mind if she runs off with other men so long as she loves him best.

Act 2, Pages 60-66 Summary

Elyot and Amanda laughingly reminisce about their volatile and physically violent past. They recall the first time Elyot hit her in a fight over Peter Burden. Burden was in love with Amanda; she kissed him when still married to Elyot, and dated him after their divorce. Amanda is nonchalant about their flirtations, and they both declare the conversation boring.


Elyot continues to drink as Amanda takes out a mirror and puts on some make-up, snidely remarking that a woman’s job is to look attractive to men. He accuses her of having no restraint. Mid-argument, Amanda puts on a record. Elyot invokes “Sollocks,” but Amanda smashes the record over his head. He slaps her and apologizes, but she returns his slap. They continue to insult and physically attack each other, knocking over lamps and a table, and fall on the floor in a rage. Victor and Sibyl enter the apartment just after Amanda and Elyot have broken apart and stormed into separate bedrooms. Victor and Sibyl, shocked by the disorder, sit down on the sofa.

Act 2 Analysis

In Act 2, the set and costuming reflects a change from the characters’ public performance to private, and thus seemingly more natural, behavior. The setting shifts from the outdoor hotel terrace exposed to the view of outsiders to the domestic interior of an elegant Parisian apartment, where there are no potential prying eyes. Elyot and Amanda are dressed down in loungewear, rather than their restaurant-ready clothes from Act 1: Amanda’s “charmingly simple evening gown, her cloak is flung over her right shoulder” (20) and Elyot’s traveling clothes. The props and mention of a maid reveal that the couple still enjoy luxurious living; however, they have dropped some of the pretense of their public image and are more openly themselves. This more intimate window into Amada and Elyot’s personalities allow the comedy of manners to highlight the hypocrisy of upper-class good breeding and The Façade of Civility. True to form, by the end of the act, the love-nest is in disarray, with broken and overturned furnishings and the couple wrestling on the floor—the antithesis of sophistication and composure.


Act 2 is a duologue, or two-character dialogue, that exposes Elyot and Amanda’s on-again off-again dynamic, emphasizing their inability to change and culminating in the play’s climatic brawl. If Act 1 only hinted at their past volatile relationship, Act 2 unabashedly allows the couple’s perpetual cycle of love and hate to reach a point of absurdity. Amanda vows to “get the best out of it this time, instead of the worst” (47-48) but can’t resist complaining about Elyot’s annoying habit of breathing too hard when he nuzzles her: “Don’t blow, dear heart, it gives me the shivers” (53). Elyot professes, “I think I love you more than ever before” (51), but soon claims Amanda is “more irritating than anyone in the world” (55). Their ease with casually tossing off insults as a power move is part of the play’s exploration of Flippancy as Social Critique: No words are sacred to these characters, who lob declarations of love and hatred with equal carelessness. The play’s dramatic irony sets up many of its comedic elements, as the couple delusionally believe that their time apart has “mellowed and perfected [them] like beautiful ripe fruit” (45), whereas the audience knows that the “fruit” has long soured. 


One of the play’s running gags is the codeword “Solomon Issacs,” a presumably made-up name that Elyot and Amanda use to halt an impending fight in its tracks. The couple gloat that they’ve “hardly used” (44) the term all week; in reality, they deploy it so often that it becomes a measure of how much they aggravate each other. Indeed, so quick are they to argue that they find the phrase too long to say and shorten it to “Sollocks”—a pun on the British slang word “bollocks,” a word that figuratively means “nonsense” and literally, “testicles.” Although “Sollocks” is intended to be a byword for peace and reconciliation, it’s repeated use in the most angry and resentful of moments turns it into a curse word. In Amanda’s lines, the codeword initially signals an urgent desire to stop fighting: “Oh for God’s sake, Sollocks!” (55). It then morphs into an ineffectual pause button for the conversation: “Sollocks, Sollocks, Oh dear—triple Sollocks!” (56). Then, finally, it signals only hostility: “(furiously) Sollocks yourself!” (64). The word’s transformation from an offer of truce to a declaration of war highlights the couple’s combative impulses.


At the same time, Elyot and Amanda’s shared skill in witty repartee is one of the strong foundations of their compatibility. Their rapid-fire banter shows that they speak a shared, intimate language with insider jokes and references. The audience is positioned as outsiders to their many in-jokes, with obscure references to Hungarian steppe or “Poostza” (43); commentary on people who do not appear in the play like “Lady Agatha” (45), “Grand Duchess Olga” (48), and “Lady Bundle” (48); and mocking memories of odd social behavior they observed: “Did you notice her at supper blowing all those shrimps through her ear trumpet?” (48-49). In these scenes, Elyot and Amanda occupy a world of their own. They enjoy each other’s humor, particularly in mocking the high society and employing Elyot’s credo of Flippancy as Social Critique.


Despite both characters participating in The Defiance of Rigid Gender Roles, it is where gender intersects with sexuality that spurs antagonism between Elyot and Amanda. Neither is interested in upholding traditional definitions of femininity or masculinity, as represented by Sibyl and Victor. Yet Elyot is also hypocritical: He celebrates Amanda’s free spirit until he feels threatened by her liberal attitude toward sexuality. Elyot condemns Amanda’s dalliances both during and after marriage, yet upholds the social double standard when he excuses his own infidelities as “a little different. I’m a man” (49). Amanda is likewise hypocritical. She takes offense to Elyot’s flings with other women, yet asserts that the only thing wrong about her affairs was Elyot’s snooping: “If you hadn’t been so suspicious and nosey you’d never have known a thing about it” (61). The couple’s arguments over infidelity highlight the two polarities that define their flawed dynamic: They vacillate between love and hate, and cannot navigate between lust and monogamy.

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