Remember Us: American Sacrifice, Dutch Freedom, and A Forever Promise Forged in World War II

Robert M. Edsel

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Robert M. Edsel

Remember Us: American Sacrifice, Dutch Freedom, and A Forever Promise Forged in World War II

Nonfiction | Book | Adult | Published in 2025

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Part 5-EpilogueChapter Summaries & Analyses

Content Warning: This section of the guide includes discussion of death.

Part 5: “Love and Remembrance”

Part 5, Chapter 69 Summary: “Going Home”

As Allied troops in Europe demobilize, most US units move toward “cigarette camps,” a last stop before heading home. Quartermasters like Wiggins remain to clear out and ship the vast amounts of supplies and equipment that remain in the Army’s warehouses. Survivors begin writing families with details the official telegrams omit. Chaplain Fowlkes’s comrades write to console his wife, and Major John Elting’s long-delayed letter tells Stephen Mosbacher’s parents of his bravery and sudden death. In the Netherlands, grave adoptions swell, and Margraten evolves from burial ground to memorial site. The 611th GRS departs, and the community honors Colonel Senecal before he returns home.

Part 5, Chapter 70 Summary: “Mail”

In late summer 1945, Willem’s gratitude letter in Life sparks an American correspondence to Maastricht—most poignantly from widow Mabel Feil, who pleads for a snapshot of her husband’s grave at Margraten. Emilie responds with an anonymous newspaper appeal for more grave adoptions; within 10 days, 3,000 Limburgers volunteer. Facing a guarded new GRS unit that withholds next-of-kin lists, Emilie writes to President Harry S. Truman on September 27, requesting access to registries to connect Dutch adopters with grieving US families.

Part 5, Chapter 71 Summary: “Tour Guide”

In September 1945, Frieda resumes her role guiding American and British soldiers through the caves of Sint Pietersberg, a family tradition and source of pride. After a tense morning and an accusation from a former friend, Frieda unexpectedly connects with Gordon Gumn, a charming Royal Air Force airman. Their budding relationship begins during the cave tour and continues at a rare local art exhibit. Despite his sudden departure, Gordon leaves an impression, and Frieda is left hopeful.

Part 5, Chapter 72 Summary: “Family Affair”

Despite the liberation, Willem faces political fallout over decisions he made under Nazi occupation—including naming hostages—that ultimately end his chance to run for a national office. Meanwhile, Emilie presses forward with her mission to match American war graves with Dutch adopters. Amid bureaucratic resistance, she forges cross-cultural connections and helps establish the Civilian Committee Margraten. In November, Emilie adopts 14 graves with her family. She grieves her father’s death and forms an unexpected alliance with the US ambassador.

Part 5, Chapter 73 Summary: “Haarlem”

In December 1945, Frieda volunteers in Haarlem, helping children whose mothers haven’t recovered from wartime trauma. While walking through the city’s modest postwar Christmas displays, she is stunned to run into Gordon, the American soldier she’d grown close to before he returned to England. The two rekindle their relationship during his five-day leave, walking, talking, laughing, and imagining a future together. But when a radio broadcast announces her mother’s illness, Frieda races home to Maastricht and never returns to Haarlem.


Though she resumes her caretaker role, Frieda has changed: She has grown into herself and knows what she wants. Later that winter, she returns to Hutch’s grave with red tulips and whispers a promise: She will always be there.

Part 5, Chapter 74 Summary: “Reinforcements”

After Life magazine publishes a photo of Emilie’s daughters honoring a US soldier’s grave, hundreds of grieving American families reach out. Emilie and Father Heuschen expand the adoption program despite US bureaucracy withholding next-of-kin data. Volunteers like Else Hanöver help match graves with families, bringing them much-needed closure. Even amid government skepticism, these Dutch civilians continue their mission: to ensure American soldiers are remembered—and their loved ones know that someone still cares.

Part 5, Chapter 75 Summary: “Relocations and Beautification”

By spring 1946, nearly 18,000 Americans are buried at Margraten, but the site remains temporary, pending decisions on repatriation. Despite the uncertainty, US personnel and Dutch volunteers continue to beautify the grounds with grass and flowers, even adding chapels. Botanist Dave van Schaik draws landscaping plans, assisted by his daughter, Frieda. Though unofficial, their efforts reflect a deep desire to shape the cemetery with local care, honor the fallen with dignity, and create an enduring memorial.

Part 5, Chapter 76 Summary: “A New Approach”

As international attention turns to Margraten, Emilie becomes the public face of the grave adoption program. Inspired by the emotional letters she receives, she proposes a goodwill trip to the US to advocate for the program. With support from Dutch and US officials—and a free plane ticket—Emilie embarks on her mission to comfort grieving American families and show them their loved ones are being honored abroad.

Part 5, Chapter 77 Summary: “Planning”

In May 1946, Dutch civilians prepare for Memorial Day at Margraten Cemetery, despite a US military order temporarily banning flowers. Local volunteers, led by Frieda and Emilie, ensure that every grave is honored with fresh blooms. Emilie delivers a moving radio speech, and the Dutch turnout on Memorial Day is massive. Emilie prepares for her US goodwill tour by collecting maps, mementos, and crosses—and taking soil to deliver to grieving American families.

Part 5, Chapter 78 Summary: “Approvals”

In June 1946, Frieda receives official Dutch approval to marry Gordon Gumn, a British officer. Despite the indignity of a bureaucrat reading their private love letters, she secures her travel visa and joins Gordon in England. After a brief wedding and honeymoon, Frieda follows Gordon to his military training site, where her presence causes a scandal. Thanks to a kind sergeant, she stays one night before boarding a train alone but hopeful in her new role as a young wife.

Part 5, Chapter 79 Summary: “The Trip”

Emilie travels to the United States to advocate for Margraten’s grave-adoption program and comfort bereaved families. After a modest start in New York and a fruitless meeting with Quartermaster General Larkin, she pivots to Texas at Lyndon B. Johnson’s invitation. There, she addresses large crowds, meets hundreds of next of kin, and collects precious contact information. She presents miniature crosses with soil, visits numerous cities, and departs amid personal farewells—including from Hutch’s family—having amplified the program nationwide.

Part 5, Chapter 80 Summary: “A Special Good-Bye”

Frieda marries Gordon Gumn in a joyful July 1946 ceremony at Sint Jans Church on Maastricht’s Vrijthof. Surrounded by family, the couple celebrates amid a summer of flowers symbolizing renewal. With Gordon’s blessing, Frieda leaves the party at dusk, travels to the US Military Cemetery at Margraten, and lays her bridal bouquet on Hutch’s grave. At the cross, she speaks softly to Hutch, affirming her hard-won peace and new happiness.

Part 5, Chapter 81 Summary: “Closure”

In September 1946, Helen Moore travels to the Netherlands determined to find her foster son Bill Moore’s grave. After years of silence from the US Army, she discovers Bill’s heroic resistance, capture, and execution near Apeldoorn. Planning to bring him home, Helen is overwhelmed by a crowd of 1,200 Dutch mourners. In a moment of reverence, she pours Georgia clay on his grave and chooses to leave him with the people who honored him as deeply as she did.

Epilogue Summary: “Eighty Years”

The Epilogue contrasts Margraten’s wartime burial ground with the present Netherlands American Cemetery: a permanent, precisely maintained site. In 1947, the US chose Margraten as one of 10 permanent WWII cemeteries in Europe. From 1948 to 1960, about 8,200 graves were exhumed and remains were either repatriated to the US or reburied in a redesigned cemetery. Nearly 46% of families elected to leave their loved ones overseas. Italian marble crosses and Stars of David were set on permanent brackets to adorn the gravestones, and six Medal of Honor graves received gold-leaf lettering.


The Dutch grave adoption program has endured across generations, earning recognition in 2017 on the Dutch National Inventory of Intangible Cultural Heritage. The Epilogue also revisits tensions between Father Heuschen and Emilie Michiels van Kessenich; while Heuschen later resigned, Edsel’s research presents Emilie as a sincere organizer whose US outreach connected thousands of next of kin to adopters.


The Epilogue ties up some narrative loose ends, showing which families kept contact with the Dutch adopters; Bill Moore’s mother ultimately choosing to rebury him at Margraten; the Nortons’ decision to keep one of the twins abroad; Wiggins’s postwar life; and Frieda Gumn’s enduring memory of Hutch. Edsel closes with a final visit to Margraten with Frieda.

Part 5-Epilogue Analysis

Part 5 and the Epilogue bring the book’s symbolic framework to a close. Throughout this final section, Edsel clusters recurring objects—letters, flowers, portraits, and soil—into a symbolic grammar of remembrance. The items act as agents of memory, allowing grief to take tangible form.


While the narrative documents official timelines—such as the cessation of hostilities, repatriation decisions, and the cemetery’s completion—Edsel contrasts these milestones with private, emotionally charged communications that resist closure. The rhythm of the text reveals a tension between bureaucratic finality and lived emotional experience, juxtaposing official reports with intimate personal writing. One soldier’s mother writes, “I shall always remember this of him—that he spurned safety […] that he died laughing in death’s very face” (343). The line functions as both a tribute and a personal creed that will guide her postwar life. The repetition in this sentence (“that he…that he…”) structures raw grief into a cohesive statement. The line exemplifies the Moral Cost of Freedom: Even after a war ends, personal losses echo far into the future.


The final section shows how remembrance can transform private anguish into civic action. A widow’s statement—“He was my whole life to me!” (352)—is a catalyst that prompts a broader movement to ensure enduring care for those lost. The line is short but does not require expansion. Edsel uses it to show how unfiltered grief becomes part of a larger moral response. The result is a community structured around a common purpose rather than family ties. Here, the narrative reframes remembrance not as nostalgia but as resistance to forgetting. This transformation reflects the theme of Remembrance as Resistance, illustrating how one person’s emotion can inform—and even create—a public tradition.


Edsel’s treatment of healing resists easy closure. He challenges the assumption that grief can be resolved by protocol or the passage of time. Instead, healing becomes a presence, maintained through proximity, ritual, and return. He asserts, “That healing was not a logistics problem […] but a feeling that needed kindness for catharsis, and reassurance for peace” (403). The sentence balances abstract ideas (“healing,” “peace”) with tactile, repeatable actions—kindness, reassurance—highlighting how healing can happen through simple, consistent gestures. Rather than depict grief as a wound to be sealed, Edsel portrays it as a condition that can only be companioned. This insight underscores The Humanizing Power of Connection, illustrating how the bonds of care outlast the systems meant to constrain them.


The closing pages emphasize place as a vessel for memory. The cemetery at Margraten operates as a living archive. Its design of orderly rows, manicured grass, and deliberate geometry lends visible form to the caretaking process. Visitors enact remembrance through walking, placing flowers, or speaking aloud. Elsewhere, the exchange of soil and clay between nations links distant landscapes into a single geography. Edsel suggests that space itself can become a partner in the work of memory, absorbing and reflecting the rituals performed in it.

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