50 pages • 1-hour read

The Ex

Fiction | Novel | Adult | Published in 2019

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Chapters 25-40Chapter Summaries & Analyses

Chapter 25 Summary: “The New Girl”

While looking for Joel at Lydia’s Halloween party, Cassie finds a photo from another year’s Halloween party featuring Joel with a beautiful brunette dressed as Cleopatra. Lydia confirms that the woman in the photo is Francesca, and Cassie realizes that Lydia told her to dress as Cleopatra to embarrass her. Cassie flees the party, and Anna follows her out with her coat. Anna encourages Cassie to ignore Lydia’s bullying and promises to visit her bookstore.

Chapter 26 Summary: “The New Girl”

Cassie is disappointed when Joel doesn’t check in on her after leaving the party. The next morning, Zoe calls with news that the store has been vandalized. She arrives to find books torn off the shelves and the word “slut” written in black marker all around the store. After police leave, Cassie shares with Zoe her suspicion that Francesca is behind the vandalism at the store and her home. Joel appears to take Cassie for lunch and offers to help clean the store.

Chapter 27 Summary: “The Ex”

The Ex receives a text from Joel asking to meet for a drink. Convinced he’s hoping to get back together with her, she dresses up and puts on makeup. When she arrives, Joel begs her to stop playing games. He claims that he spent the prior day cleaning up her mess, and that his new girlfriend called the police. The Ex asks Joel if he loves the new girl, and he says yes. He tells her she needs to move on. Devastated, she flees the bar without responding.

Chapter 28 Summary: “The New Girl”

One month after the Halloween party, Anna visits Bookland to buy books on pregnancy and childbirth. Anna apologizes for Lydia’s behavior at the party and reveals that, although Lydia and Francesca were best friends, she never liked Francesca and was glad when Joel broke up with her. Anna explains that she thought Francesca was a little “crazy,” but before she can elaborate, another customer demands Cassie’s attention. Later, Cassie receives a phone call from a blocked number. She doesn’t answer.

Chapter 29 Summary: “The Ex”

The Ex is troubled when her grandmother complains of heartburn, which she knows could be a sign of heart attack. Although she wants to call Joel, she calls his doctor friend Dean, whom she met in Central Park. Dean offers to come to the apartment to examine the Ex’s grandmother, who only agrees to be examined if the Ex will go out with Dean. She agrees, but later regrets it, knowing that she is not truly over Joel.

Chapter 30 Summary: “The New Girl”

Cassie and Joel go to visit Anna and Con after the birth of their new baby. As Joel fawns over the baby, Cassie worries that he wants to have a baby sooner than she does. She is jealous of Anna and Con’s easy, obvious love for each other. Lydia arrives with her daughter Violet, who confuses Cassie for Francesca. Lydia rudely corrects her. Cassie looks to Joel for support but finds him texting someone and smiling. She wonders if he’s texting Francesca.

Chapter 31 Summary: “The Ex”

After her grandmother hosts a family reunion at the apartment, the Ex is forced to admit to her extended family that she and Joel are over. Despite knowing that Dean is a good guy who is interested in her, the Ex cannot shake her obsession with Joel and his new girlfriend, whom she believes has bad intentions. When her cousin reveals that he is working as a private detective, the Ex asks him to investigate her and find evidence that she is wrong for Joel.

Chapter 32 Summary: “The New Girl”

Joel takes Cassie on a mystery date. As Cassie starts to grow annoyed, she receives another phone call from a blocked number, which she ignores. Joel and Cassie arrive at a hardware store 10 blocks from Bookland, where Joel tells Cassie he loves her and wants her to have a copy of his key. Cassie offers him a copy of her key too. As they kiss, she sees Maureen, the unhoused woman who lives next to Bookland, watching them from outside the store.

Chapter 33 Summary: “The Ex”

After weeks of avoiding Dean, the Ex decides to visit him at his medical practice to see if he’s still interested in her. She pretends to be looking for her grandmother’s lost glasses, but he quickly sees through the ruse and asks her out. Dean invites her to join him at a dance class to prepare for his sister’s wedding, and she accepts. They flirt throughout the class, and she fantasizes about kissing him. Afterwards, he carries her on his back to dinner so she can rest her sore feet.

Chapter 34 Summary: “The New Girl”

Cassie reluctantly accompanies Joel to a dinner with Pete and Lydia. Lydia attempts to embarrass Cassie about her unfamiliarity with French food and criticizes her when she looks at her phone during dinner. Lydia asks Pete to take their daughter Violet to her violin lesson the next day, and Cassie laughs at the similarity between her name and the instrument. Lydia reveals that the violin was a gift from Francesca, who is Violet’s godmother.

Chapter 35 Summary: “The Ex”

Dean takes the Ex to a Greek diner owned by his friends. He tells her that he grew up visiting his grandparents in Greece, and the Ex imagines visiting with him one day. The Ex shares that she is fluent in Italian, and Dean asks about her favorite meals to cook. He reveals that he moved to New York from Chicago after a bad breakup. The Ex sympathizes with him, and they toast to something better in both their futures.

Chapter 36 Summary: “The New Girl”

Cassie and Joel’s dinner with Lydia and Pete goes from bad to worse as Pete gets increasingly drunk. When Lydia leaves the table to talk to Violet’s babysitter, Pete apologizes for her bad behavior, calling her a bitch. Pete reveals that he is unhappy in their marriage and implies that he wants a divorce. While walking home with Joel, Cassie wonders what it would be like to break up with him, and whether they’d be cruel to each other. She determines not to reveal her secret.

Chapter 37 Summary: “The Ex”

On the walk home from their date, Dean and the Ex share a kiss so magical she wonders if she’s ever been truly kissed before. Although she wants to go home with him, she returns to the apartment she shares with her grandmother. The next morning, she receives a text from Dean asking her on a second date. Before she can reply, she receives a call from her cousin with an update about his investigation into Joel’s new girlfriend.

Chapter 38 Summary: “The New Girl”

While getting coffee at Starbucks, Cassie spots Lydia looking worriedly at her phone. Lydia does not see Cassie and is kicked out of the store after she harasses a barista. As she is leaving the shop, Cassie runs into Lydia, who is again absorbed in her phone. Cassie notices that Lydia is crying and asks if she wants to talk. Lydia rejects her, but thanks her anyway. When Cassie arrives at the store, she decides to make a difficult phone call.

Chapter 39 Summary: “The Ex”

The Ex’s cousin warns her to sit down before he shares what he has discovered in his investigation. He explains that her business is failing and that she is in deep debt. The Ex is not surprised, as she has been stalking the business for weeks. Her cousin suggests that, in addition to banks, the Ex might also be in debt to more nefarious groups. He warns the Ex that Joel might also be at risk. She decides to call Joel and warn him.

Chapter 40 Summary: “The New Girl”

While Cassie is worrying about the financial state of the store, an old woman enters to ask if she buys used books. Cassie feels like she doesn’t have enough cash to say yes, but she agrees to look at the woman’s inventory anyway. She is shocked to see a full collection of expensive first edition works, and she knows she cannot accept the woman’s low offer. She offers to sell the books online for a 10% commission, but knows she must take more drastic steps to save the store.

Chapters 25-40 Analysis

In this section of the novel, Cassie’s characterization changes significantly as her relationship with Joel becomes more complicated. Throughout this section, Cassie is disappointed by Joel’s behavior and worries that their relationship is not as special as she’d previously thought. After Cassie leaves Lydia’s Halloween party, she is “disappointed [Joel] didn’t ask to come over to check on her” (176). Later, when Joel refuses to talk to her about Francesca, Cassie is forced to admit that she is “really afraid” that “Joel might take Francesca’s side” if he learned about the harassment Cassie is experiencing (181), which she attributes to Francesca. These passages suggest a pattern of disappointment that presents a challenge in Cassie’s relationship with Joel.


As Joel becomes more confident in his relationship with Cassie, she begins to doubt it. When Joel suggests that they exchange keys, Cassie questions whether she is “ready for that” (220), and whether Joel is “the man she wants to do those things with” (220). She ultimately decides that a key exchange is better than moving in with Joel, which “would have terrified her” (221). Later, she is disappointed when Joel tells her that he loves her “right in the middle of a hardware store with sawdust tickling her sinuses” (220). This preoccupation with the optics of romance suggests that Cassie is still measuring her own real life against the fantasies she has read about—especially Wuthering Heights. Although she admits that “she loves him […] kind of” (220), she is not confident that this love is worthy of the “great loves” she admires: “every time Cassie says it, she’s never quite sure if she means it” (255). Crucially, Cassie decides that her relationship with Joel cannot measure up to the relationship between her grandparents or to the central love story in her favorite novel, Wuthering Heights. She argues that her relationship is “not the greatest love story ever told” (255) because “there have been no great romantic moments in their love story” (255). The dramatic change in Cassie’s attitude toward her relationship with Joel reflects an important change in her characterization.


As Cassie’s relationship with Joel changes, the Ex begins a new relationship with Dean that also marks a significant change in her characterization. Joel’s firm declaration that she needs to move on initially devastates her, but ultimately it frees her from The Insidious Nature of Jealousy. Finally certain that she will never get back together with Joel, she is free to let go of her jealousy toward his new girlfriend and develop significant feelings for Dean. On her first date with Dean, the Ex finds that “the way [Dean]’s smiling at [her] is making it slightly hard to breathe” (227) and that “touching him makes [her] heart beat faster” (227). These passages suggest that being with Dean has concrete physical effects on the Ex, reflecting the change in her characterization that their relationship sets in motion. When they share their first kiss, the Ex gets “a sudden image of a future with Dean” (237), suggesting that she is starting to get over her obsession with Joel. This changing emotional status suggests that despite The Lasting Pain of Heartbreak, it is possible to move forward and escape the doomed, tragic love idealized in Wuthering Heights.


These chapters also offer new perspectives on the characters of Lydia and Francesca. It is revealed that Lydia is a difficult personality whose marriage is on the verge of collapse. When Cassie flees Lydia’s Halloween party, she is comforted by Anna, who calls Lydia a “bitch” (175) and laments that she is “never nice” (175). The fact that Lydia’s best friend is openly critical of her suggests that she is not as perfect as Cassie originally believed. These chapters also reveal that Lydia’s marriage is not as perfect as it initially seemed. Cassie initially saw them as an embodiment of her romantic ideal, but soon—at the Halloween party and while visiting Anna and Con’s baby—Cassie notices that “Lydia and Pete are always bickering” (208). Later, Cassie finds it “painful to listen to Lydia and Pete snipping at each other” (233) throughout an awkward double date with her and Joel. Joel later reveals that although Pete has “been trying to make [the marriage] work for Violet’s sake […] he’s reached the end of his rope” and will likely file for divorce (241). The fact that Lydia’s marriage is on the verge of collapse makes Cassie’s feeling toward her move from fear to pity.


The reader also learns more about Francesca through the eyes of Cassie in this section of the novel. Cassie sees Francesca’s picture for the first time at Lydia’s party and describes her as “stunning” (170) and “really, really beautiful” (170) with “a perfect body” (170). Despite her physical beauty, Anna reveals to Cassie that Francesca was not perfect. Anna claims that Francesca “wasn’t a nice person” (196) and was “sort of nuts” (196). For Cassie, the news that Francesca was not perfect helps to boost her confidence, but she cannot overcome her growing doubts about her relationship with Joel.

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