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“If you have experienced hunger, you know that having food is a miracle. If you have suffered from the cold, you know the preciousness of warmth. When you have suffered, you know how to appreciate the elements of paradise that are present. If you dwell only in your suffering, you will miss paradise. Don’t ignore your suffering, but don’t forget to enjoy the wonders of life, for your sake and for the benefit of many beings.”
Thích explains that Buddhism recognizes suffering as inherent to life, but not the only part of it. His plea to the reader to recognize and embrace the joy in life to help themselves and others establishes his theme on Integrating Buddhist Practices in Everyday Life. Furthermore, his insistence that, “If you dwell only in your suffering, you will miss paradise,” introduces his habitual emphasis on how perception and habits of the mind can make one’s life harder or easier depending on the kind of thoughts and feelings the individual cultivates.
“The third point is engagement in the world. The teachings of the Buddha were not to escape from life, but to help us relate to ourselves and the world as thoroughly as possible. The Noble Eightfold Path includes Right Speech and Right Livelihood. These teachings are for people in the world who have to communicate with each other and earn a living.”
Thích clarifies that the Buddha always intended for his teachings to help regular people cope with life and understand how to live morally and enjoy well-being. By explaining the Buddha’s intentions and the relevancy of his teachings, the author adds to his theme on Integrating Buddhist Practices in Everyday Life.
“If you think that Buddhism says, ‘Everything is suffering and we cannot do anything about it,’ that is the opposite of the Buddha’s message. The Buddha taught us how to recognize and acknowledge the presence of suffering, but he also taught the cessation of suffering. If there were no possibility of cessation, what is the use of practicing?”
Thích debunks the misunderstanding that Buddhism is nihilistic about suffering, and instead points to the Buddha’s teachings as a way to overcome suffering. Thích thus repeatedly emphasizes that Buddhist teachings stress Transforming Suffering into Happiness, Compassion, and Ethical Actions, presenting Buddhism as an active force to combat suffering instead of merely accepting it.
“Like all traditions, Buddhism needs to renew itself regularly in order to stay alive and grow. The Buddha always found new ways to express his awakening. Since the Buddha’s lifetime, Buddhists have continued to open new Dharma doors to express and share the teachings begun in the Deer Park in Sarnath.”
Thích promotes engaged Buddhism by arguing that Buddha’s words should be made accessible and understandable to people of all backgrounds and walks of life. By presenting renewal as the key to survival, Thích argues that repackaging the Buddha’s words is the key to helping new people discover them and put them into practice. This passage helps to explain why Thích wrote this book for contemporary, English-speaking audiences.
“In the Discourse on Turning the Wheel of the Dharma, the Buddha did say that craving is the cause of suffering, but he said this because craving is the first on the list of afflictions (kleshas). If we use our intelligence, we can see that craving can be a cause of pain, but other afflictions such as anger, ignorance, suspicion, arrogance, and wrong views can also cause pain and suffering. Ignorance, which gives rise to wrong perceptions, is responsible for much of our pain.”
The author’s explanation on suffering adds nuance and detail to an often- simplified subject matter. By explaining Buddha’s list of afflictions, Thích tries to clarify the Buddha’s real teaching rather than the misunderstanding that suffering is only caused by greed. This passage provides context for the Buddha’s other teachings, which explain how to identify and overcome these different problems.
“With mindfulness, we have the capacity to recognize the habit energy every time it manifests. ‘Hello, my habit energy, I know you are there!’ If we just smile to it, it will lose much of its strength. Mindfulness is the energy that allows us to recognize our habit energy and prevent it from dominating us.”
Thích’s discussion on habit energies contrasts their robotic nature with the intentional decisions made through mindfulness. By explaining how to gently overpower one’s habits, the author adds to his theme on Liberation Through Mindfulness.
“Calming allows us to rest, and resting is a precondition for healing. When animals in the forest get wounded, they find a place to lie down, and they rest completely for many days. They don’t think about food or anything else. They just rest, and they get the healing they need. When we humans get sick, we just worry!”
Thích laments the constant worry and struggle that dominate so many people’s lives. He believes that calming one’s mind and body are essential for real healing. By encouraging people to imitate animals and fully rest, the author shows that Integrating Buddhist Practices in Everyday Life does not have to be complicated or intellectual.
“We have to look deeply to see how we grow our food, so we can eat in ways that preserve our collective well-being, minimize our suffering and the suffering of other species, and allow the earth to continue to be a source of life for all of us. If, while we eat, we destroy living beings or the environment, we are eating the flesh of our own sons and daughters. We need to look deeply together and discuss how to eat, what to eat, and what to resist. This will be a real Dharma discussion.”
This passage adds to the author’s theme on Integrating Buddhist Practices in Everyday Life, as Thích connects the Buddha’s teachings on non-violence to contemporary problems in agriculture and human health. By being critical of wasteful and violent food practices, the author invites the reader to examine their everyday decisions and consider how their actions violate or promote their values.
“In the past we have experienced hatred, we have been abused and maltreated. All these events have been buried in our consciousness and we have not been able to transform them. We chew the cud of our suffering, our despair, like the cows chew the regurgitated grass. Every time we think about being abused, we are abused once again.”
Thích bolsters his theme on Liberation Through Mindfulness by showing how it can help to free people from ruminating on past negative experiences and causing themselves more pain. This statement encourages the reader to consider how their consciousness can revisit thoughts unintentionally, and how mindfulness could be a remedy for stopping and replacing these harmful thoughts.
“If we are afraid to touch our suffering, we will not be able to realize the path of peace, joy, and liberation. Don’t run away. Touch your suffering and embrace it. Make peace with it. The Buddha said, ‘The moment you know how your suffering came to be, you are already on the path of release from it.’”
The author’s welcoming and gentle attitude towards suffering offers the reader a new language and understanding for how to deal with pain. By helping the reader begin the first steps of understanding their suffering, this passage contributes to Thích’s theme on Transforming Suffering into Happiness, Compassion, and Ethical Actions.
“If you act in a wholesome way, you will be happy. If you act in an unwholesome way, you water the seeds of craving, anger, and violence in yourself. Right View is to recognize which seeds are wholesome and to encourage those seeds to be watered.”
Thích adds to his theme on Liberation Through Mindfulness by inviting the reader to reflect mindfully on their own thoughts and instincts and to liberate themselves from their own negativity. By recognizing both “unwholesome” and “wholesome” tendencies, the author shows the Buddha’s nuanced understanding of human nature, which contains both loving and destructive potential.
“With attention, you will be able to discover many new and wonderful things—her joys, her hidden talents, her deepest aspirations. If you do not practice appropriate attention, how can you say you love her?”
Thích explains how being present contributes to happy and meaningful relationships. By showing how the Buddha’s teachings can help people better their everyday lives and interpersonal dynamics, the author adds to his theme on Integrating Buddhist Practices in Everyday Life.
“We may be killing every day by the way we eat, drink, and use the land, air, and water. We think that we don’t kill, but we do. Mindfulness of action helps us be aware so we can stop the killing and begin saving and helping.”
The author laments that people living modern lifestyles can support destructive and exploitative practices without intending to. Depicting mindfulness of action as part of an ethical life encourages the reader to think deeply and critically about their choices. By asking the reader to use mindfulness to make more moral choices, the author adds to his theme on Integrating Buddhist Practices in Everyday Life.
“‘A silver bird flies over the autumn lake. When it has passed, the lake’s surface does not try to hold on to the image of the bird.’ As the bird flies over the lake, its reflection is lucid. After it is gone, the lake reflects the clouds and the sky just as clearly. When we practice active concentration, we welcome whatever comes along. We don’t think about or long for anything else.”
The author uses a poem to illustrate the practice of active concentration. His comparison makes active concentration more understandable to the reader while also integrating other parts of Buddhist tradition, such as poetry, into his work. His emphasis on concentration speaks to Liberation Through Mindfulness.
“We live in a society in which jobs are sometimes hard to find, but if it happens that our work involves harming life, we should try to find another job. Our vocation can nourish our understanding and compassion, or erode them. We should be awake to the consequences, far and near, of the way we earn our living.”
The author urges the reader to do their best to find work that is aligned with their ethics. In doing so, Thích reminds the reader to not compartmentalize their Buddhist practices, but apply them to each area of their life, adding another dimension to his theme on Integrating Buddhist Practices in Everyday Life.
“If you recognize and accept your pain without running away from it, you will discover that although pain exists, joy also exists. Without experiencing relative joy, you will not know what to do when you are face-to-face with absolute joy. Don’t get caught in theories or ideas, such as saying that suffering is an illusion or that we have to ‘transcend’ both suffering and joy. Just stay in touch with what is actually going on, and you will touch the true nature of suffering and the true nature of joy.”
Thích instructs the reader to pay attention, again emphasizing the importance of mindfulness. By claiming that being “in touch” will yield useful insights, the author adds to his theme on Liberation Through Mindfulness. In emphasizing that such mindfulness can also lead to understanding “the true nature of joy” and not just suffering, he once again draws attention to how Buddhism is not just about passively accepting suffering, but living more wholly and completely.
“Emptiness is the Middle Way between existent and nonexistent. The beautiful flower does not become empty when it fades and dies. It is already empty, in its essence. Looking deeply, we see that the flower is made of non-flower elements—light, space, clouds, earth, and consciousness. It is empty of a separate, independent self.”
Thích summarizes a more complicated teaching of the Buddha by making a simple comparison. This analogy emphasizes the Buddha’s teachings on interdependence and continuation in an accessible way.
“Go back each day by living mindfully. If the practice becomes a habit, when difficulties arise, it will be easy for you to touch the Three Jewels in yourself. Walking, breathing, sitting, and eating mindfully are all ways to take refuge. This is not blind faith. It is faith based on your real experience.”
By Integrating Buddhist Practices in Everyday Life, Thích believes that people will become more resilient to challenges. His suggestions of everyday mindfulness show how easily this practice is incorporated into universal daily activities. By suggesting that people’s faith should be rooted in their experiences, the author redirects the reader away from conformist belief and towards active daily practice.
“See your body’s nature of impermanence and interbeing. Observe that your body has no permanent entity, and you will no longer identify yourself solely with your body or consider it to be a ‘self.’ See the body as a formation, empty of any substance that might be called ‘self.’ See your body as an ocean filled with hidden waves and sea monsters. The ocean might be calm at times, but at other times you can be caught in a storm. Learn to calm the waves and master the monsters without allowing yourself to be carried away or caught by them.”
In explaining how to see past the idea of the self and recognize interbeing, the author suggests that this understanding will help them overcome the “monsters” within. By connecting interbeing with inner wellness, the author adds to his theme on Transforming Suffering into Happiness, Compassion, and Ethical Actions.
“When another person makes you suffer, it is because he suffers deeply within himself, and his suffering is spilling over. He does not need punishment; he needs help. That is the message he is sending. If you are able to see that, offer him what he needs—relief.”
Thích challenges the reader to offer compassion to others, even those who have behaved hurtfully. By asking people to show hurtful people kindness instead of judgment, Thích adds to his theme on Transforming Suffering into Happiness, Compassion, and Ethical Actions.
“Obstacles teach us about our strengths and weaknesses, so that we can know ourselves better and see in which direction we truly wish to go. One could say that the Buddha’s practice of austerity was unfavorable to the development of his path, but if he had not undertaken those practices and failed in them, he would not have learned and later taught the Middle Way.”
Thích explains the value of facing challenges, noting that it can promote self-reflection and add to one’s life experience. By connecting the Buddha’s negative experiences with austerity, or ascetic practices, to his eventual enlightenment, the author illustrates how obstacles can foster positive developments, too. By reflecting on the Buddha’s uneven journey, the author adds to his theme on Transforming Suffering into Happiness, Compassion, and Ethical Actions.
“Of course, you have the right to suffer, but as a practitioner, you do not have the right not to practice. We all need to be understood and loved, but the practice is not merely to expect understanding and love. It is to practice understanding and love. Please don’t complain when no one seems to love or understand you. Make the effort to understand and love them better. If someone has betrayed you, ask why. If you feel that the responsibility lies entirely with them, look more deeply.”
The author challenges the reader to consider how their actions affect others and to see themselves as devoted practitioners who can live out the Buddha’s teaching. This passage highlights the importance of self-awareness and commitment in Buddhist practice.
“What is wrong view? It is the view that there is no point in giving alms, offering alms, or ceremonial offerings. That there is no ripening of the fruit of wholesome or unwholesome actions. That this world does not exist and neither does the other world.”
Thích warns against nihilism and cynicism in this explanation of wrong view. This passage paints Buddhism as a positive and uplifting force which rejects hopeless and negative behaviors, emphasizing Liberation Through Mindfulness.
“What is Right Thinking that is noble, in which the leaks have been stopped, that is supramundane and an element of the Path? It is logical reasoning, initial reflection, thinking, application of mind, implanting in mind, and formation of speech in someone whose mind is noble, whose mind has no leaks, who has been provided with the Noble Path and is practicing the Noble Path.”
The author ties Right Thinking to the practice of the Noble Path, implying that thinking correctly means ensuring that one’s thoughts turn into actions. This passage impresses the importance of Integrating Buddhist Practices in Everyday Life.
“When a disciple understands the unwholesome and its roots and the wholesome and its roots, he or she entirely transforms the tendency to greed, removes the tendency toward hatred, and discontinues the tendency toward the ‘I am’ view. He or she transforms delusion, gives rise to understanding, and right now in this very life puts an end to suffering.”
Thích argues that thinking deeply about the roots of one’s own thoughts and behaviors is the only way to remove the delusion of self and the negative instincts it fosters. By coaching the reader to put this into practice, the author reinforces the importance of Transforming Suffering into Happiness, Compassion, and Ethical Actions.



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