32 pages 1-hour read

The Housemaid's Wedding

Fiction | Novella | Adult | Published in 2024

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Themes

Expectations and Desires Versus Reality

Content Warning: This section of the guide includes discussion of death, physical abuse, and emotional abuse.


From the very start of the story, Millie is fixated on having the perfect wedding day. She ignores the violent death threats that she receives over the phone, insists on getting her wedding dress fixed, and stresses over each of the traditional wedding items that she is supposed to have for the ceremony. Her fixation conveys her expectations for her wedding: the perfect day in both a structural and traditional sense. As Millie repeatedly states, “I will not let it ruin this day” (4). This line becomes a kind of mantra for Millie, encapsulating the emotional stakes of the day and her desire to reclaim a sense of control in a life marked by chaos.


Despite Millie’s best efforts, the events of the day are slowly ruined by things outside of her control. Beginning from the first lines of the story with the intrusive phone call, her expectations are shattered by the reality of the world that she lives in. Because of her years spent helping women escape their abusive husbands, who are also typically wealthy and powerful, she is vulnerable to angry men seeking retribution. Additionally, she has been out of contact with her mother for the last 15 years, so it is no surprise when her mother decides not to renew their relationship. The story conveys the stark contrast between expectation and reality: Millie wants to have a flawless, traditional wedding, yet the life she has lived makes this all but impossible. The irony is sharp—her altruistic work, meant to protect others, has brought violence to her own doorstep, making the idealized dream of a peaceful celebration feel almost absurd.


The internal conflict that Millie faces in handling the abusive phone calls encapsulates her struggle for the ideal wedding. As the man on the phone becomes increasingly dangerous and it becomes clear that he is both following and watching her, Millie repeatedly battles with herself over if, and how, she should get help. When he calls her in the café bathroom, she thinks, “I have to tell Enzo what’s going on. He needs to know I am being threatened, and that this is a credible threat. We need to figure out together how to handle it” (39). However, when she gets out of the bathroom, Enzo is enamored by how beautiful she is, complimenting her and insisting that this is “the best day of [his] life” (40). Enzo’s reaction causes her to ignore her instincts, instead choosing to keep the threats a secret. She sets aside all logic and her own safety, deciding that having her ideal day for both her and Enzo is more important than the dangerous man who is calling her. Her conflict highlights the clash between what she wants and what is realistic for her wedding day.


Ultimately, Millie learns not to temper her expectations but instead to focus on the things that truly matter. Her character changes when she realizes that her reality—a supportive husband whom she loves and a daughter on the way—is more than enough to bring her happiness. In this way, the story emphasizes the importance of finding happiness where it exists, rather than fixating on hollow expectations.

The Enduring Power of Love

The prevailing mood throughout “The Housemaid’s Wedding” is one of anxiety and foreboding, standing in stark contrast to the expectations for a typical wedding. As the events of the day unfold, it becomes increasingly clear that the man on the phone is more dangerous than Millie originally anticipated, as he lets Millie know that he can see in her apartment and that he has followed her into the café. This central conflict juxtaposes the typical joy and celebration expected on a wedding day, destroying Millie’s hopes for a traditional wedding and a reunion with her parents. However, at the same time, the resolution to this conflict also emphasizes the importance of love. While Millie initially loses sight of why she is having the wedding to begin with—to reaffirm her love for Enzo—she rediscovers at the story’s end that only her husband and her unborn daughter matter. After the ceremony, she thinks about how “[they] have earned this kiss. [They] have earned this life together. And [she] will live happily ever after with [her] husband” (56). These thoughts, as well as Enzo’s confrontation and defeat of the man stalking Millie, emphasize the power of their love. The mood shifts in the final moments of the text, conveying love, happiness, and hope for the life they will build together, with love as its foundation. The juxtaposition of fear and devotion intensifies the emotional resonance of their bond, underscoring love as both a sanctuary and shield.


Additionally, the first-person point of view, which initially follows Millie and then shifts to Enzo for the story’s Epilogue, highlights the importance of love for Enzo. Throughout the text, Millie and Enzo serve as foils to each other. While Millie fixates on things for a traditional wedding, Enzo focuses only on his relationship with Millie. Millie decries the fact that Enzo is not concerned about his shirt that isn’t ironed, seems unbothered when Millie’s dress doesn’t fit, and is dismissive of Millie’s fears that they are running out of time to make it to the courthouse. His feelings stand in stark contrast to Millie, who obsesses throughout the day on each of these intrusions on their wedding. Instead of not caring about their wedding, however, Enzo understands what is important: the affirmation of their love for each other. From his perspective, the reader sees his feelings for the first time in the Epilogue, as he thinks, “There are so many days I wish to erase from my memory. But not this day. This day is perfect. Nothing will ruin it for us” (58). Ironically, Enzo is unconcerned about the weather, Millie’s mother, or even the man issuing death threats on the phone, still believing that their day was “perfect.” Enzo’s unwavering optimism functions as an emotional anchor, helping Millie move from fear to hope. His love is not naïve but resolute, offering the kind of stability that Millie has long been denied.


Through the story of Enzo and Millie’s wedding, the reader observes an atypical day that threatens to be consumed by danger and violence, exacerbated by the life that Millie and Enzo have built, which is centered on trauma. However, in the end, their day centers on the one thing that truly matters in a wedding: love. Through their characters, McFadden explores love’s strength and value, enduring all their hardships and giving them hope for a happy future.

The Value of Support in Confronting Trauma

Millie’s and Enzo’s lives are fraught with violence and trauma, stemming from their past experiences with emotionally and physically abusive men—both in their personal lives and in the women they help. Millie’s casual dismissal of a man threatening to “cut [her] throat”—whom she “calmly” tells to “go to hell” (3)—conveys from the very beginning of the story just how commonplace danger is in her life. As a result, it is unsurprising when she repeatedly decides to handle the man on her own, ignoring his calls, dismissing him when she answers, and keeping all the events to herself.


Millie is a strong and courageous character, yet she is also reckless, choosing to handle the situation on her own even when it becomes increasingly more dangerous. The external conflict throughout the story—Millie and then Enzo versus the man who is threatening Millie—emphasizes the importance of support. McFadden escalates the tension throughout the story, creating suspense around the man’s location and actions, which are hidden from the reader. First, Millie is genuinely afraid that he may be in the closet in her apartment, even grabbing a butcher’s knife for defense. Then, at the café, she becomes convinced that the man is trying to open the bathroom door as “the doorknob starts to turn” (37). While it is unclear whether Millie could have or would have actually needed to defend herself from the man, the stalking and threatening phone calls only come to an end when Enzo incapacitates the man in the bathroom at the story’s end. This plot twist emphasizes the importance of support, as the conflict only ends when someone else learns about Millie being stalked. 


While it is true that Enzo handles Millie’s stalker on his own, he also deals with his own trauma in the form of the death of his sister. For years, he has been haunted by Antonia’s death and his decision to kill her murderer. As a result, he has spent years in hiding while also continuing to fight for other survivors of domestic abuse. As Millie learns throughout the story to focus on her family and the things that matter in her life, she decides that she should use their daughter’s name to honor Antonia’s memory. When Millie suggests that they name the baby after her, Enzo is initially hesitant, thinking, “I would love to honor my sister, but I also worry that giving her the same name will be too much. I can barely say her name without feeling a deep sadness” (62). However, with Millie’s support and love, he learns that he can turn his trauma into something positive. Instead of serving as a reminder of Antonia’s trauma, their new daughter will serve as a symbol of hope and happiness, replacing that trauma with new life. This act of naming functions as an emotional bridge between grief and renewal, signifying the couple’s shared commitment to transformation.


The story’s titular wedding acts as both a union between Millie and Enzo and a launching point for them to build a new life together that replaces their troubled histories. While the day is fraught with tension and danger, the final lines—“And then I go home with my wife and unborn child, leaving the man who threatened us in a puddle of his own blood on the men’s room floor” (64)—provide hope that Millie and Enzo will continue to love and support each other, even in the dangerous lives they live.

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