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Sophie’s infatuation with Margot initially leads her to make assumptions based on bias, and when her feelings turn to animosity, she continues to let emotions shape her perception and belief. In both cases, Sophie’s reliance on emotions and biased perceptions creates dangerous situations, revealing the risks of impulsivity. Because Sophie becomes obsessed with Margot before ever meeting her, she makes assumptions that are solely based on Margot’s online presence. For example, she reads a comment that Margot posted on social media and concludes that “she fe[els] simpatico” (36). Sophie surmises that Margot shares her liberal political values and feels equally stifled in this conservative, religious small town. Thus, she assumes an affinity between herself and Margot based on nothing more than her desire for such a connection to exist.
Once she begins socializing with Margot, Sophie also overlooks a number of red flags because she longs to be accepted. She finds ways to rationalize and overlook Margot’s manipulative behavior because she is operating based on emotion and desperately wants to believe that Margot cares for her. Because she naively assumes that Margot is a good friend with good intentions, Sophie repeatedly engages in risky behavior that could jeopardize her marriage, and this pattern puts her in a very vulnerable position when Margot blackmails her into concealing evidence about Abby’s disappearance.
Once Sophie is accused of Abby’s murder, she experiences a complete shift in her emotions toward Margot, but even this shift is based on emotion rather than reason. Instead of craving Margot’s love and approval, Sophie perceives her to be the manipulative villain who framed her. She therefore swaps one emotional perspective for another and begins to make a series of shoddily reasoned assumptions. Incensed by her current predicament, she becomes convinced that Margot was involved in Abby’s murder, relying on circumstantial evidence to support her theory. Margot certainly had a potential motive for wanting Abby dead, but when Sophie becomes obsessed with proving that Margot killed Abby, it is clear that she wants this to be true because then her fury toward Margot will be fully vindicated. She jumps to conclusions based on emotions alone and puts herself in a dangerous situation, basing her actions on assumptions that turn out to be false. As a result of her rash action, she nearly dies at Jill’s hands because she recklessly presumes that she has already solved the crime. Whether she is being led by a desire for love or for revenge, Sophie creates dangerous situations whenever she makes assumptions based on emotion.
The women of Margot’s inner circle meet regularly for events that they treat as a form of “self-care” and offer the opportunity to step away from the responsibilities of their daily lives and socialize in an intimate and supposedly supportive atmosphere. The meetings are initially characterized as a positive and empowering practice that allows the women to build community and focus on their own enjoyment, temporarily free from their roles as wives and mothers. However, it soon becomes clear that the women’s habits and practices are self-destructive, not restorative, and the events only create further problems. Ostensibly, the women gather for target shooting, but this activity functions as a metaphor, suggesting that dangerous, self-destructive actions often masquerade as a form of escapism. In theory, target shooting might simply be nothing more than a harmless group activity, but it also poses very real risks of causing injury or death.
Under the façade of “shooting,” these married women engage in heavy drinking and pursue anonymous sexual encounters (none of them have their partner’s consent). Notably, these activities do not provide them with authentic relaxation or restoration; instead, the events cause significant stress and tension, given that the women must subsequently conceal their activities. Although they claim to be “blow[ing] off some steam” (17), the women create further problems for themselves and impede their ability to form genuine friendships. Because of the web of secrets and the potential for blackmail that arises, the women can never truly trust one another, but they also cannot run the risk of cutting off contact from the group entirely.
Although the women are seeking an outlet to be their authentic selves, they ironically discover that their attempts at escapism are stifled by the same social norms that entrap them in their daily lives. They seek out empty, alcohol-fueled sexual encounters that create a lot of risk, but these reckless pursuits never provide any meaningful connection or lasting pleasure. when Margo explains why she was not the one to kill Abby, her reasoning reflects this issue. As she bluntly states, “Brad’s a good fuck and all, but I don’t care enough about him to kill his girlfriend” (281). All the activities in which the women engage under the guise of harmless escapism end up only creating further problems for them in the end and leaving them even more unsatisfied.
Sophie’s desire for Margot is a powerful driving motivation in the novel, and it is eventually revealed that she has a history of harboring desires for other women. Although she has tried to contain and conceal these desires by pretending to desire men, she remains haunted by a lifetime of missed opportunities for real connection, and her attempts to stifle her natural impulses only lead her to take greater risks. This issue drastically affects the integrity and honesty of her marriage, as long before she encounters Margot, Sophie declines to be honest about her sexuality with Graham. When they began dating, Sophie dismissed her past history of desiring women and told Graham, “I’m straight, though […] I was just experimenting” (137). Thus, by denying her own sexuality and seeking to wear a metaphorical mask, Sophie set the stage for further deceit and lies in her future marriage. She also undermined her own authenticity and identity. Because she chooses to deceive Graham, she finds it that much easier to deceive herself.
Sophie struggles with her desire for Margot, but the sexualized nature of her interest in the other woman leads to precarious situations. For example, she recognizes that being the witness and alibi to Margot’s affair with Brad puts her in a risky position, but she also finds it exciting to think about and occasionally witness Margot engaging in sexual activity. Being around Margot in sexualized situations arouses Sophie and titillates her long-repressed desires. Even as she engages in sexual activity with Jamie, she openly admits to herself that she would prefer to be having sex with Margot. Sophie’s inability to satisfy her true desires makes her vulnerable to risky behavior; her actions with Jamie give Margot fodder for a future blackmail attempt, and Sophie also endangers her marriage when Graham finds out about her infidelity. Ironically, while Sophie wants to hide her attraction to women in order to avoid Graham’s judgment, she causes far more harm by trying to repress those desires, for she ultimately fails to conceal her authentic self, which then surfaces in deeply destructive ways.
Although the novel’s conclusion does not depict Sophie truly coming to terms with her sexuality or forming a healthy, honest relationship, it does hint that she comes to see the value of doing so. Even after Margot’s death, Sophie muses, “I’d like to think […] that the connection I felt wasn’t all in my head” (352). Although her new self-awareness comes at an extremely high cost, she realizes that she cannot bury her true self, and it is clear that she hopes to stop repressing her desires.



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