The Lesbiana's Guide to Catholic School

Content Warning: This section of the guide includes discussion of racism, antigay bias, and suicidal ideation.

At the start of the novel, Yami is already dealing with the emotional fallout from her first experience with coming out as gay. When she came out to Bianca, her best friend and crush at Rover High, Bianca reacted with cruelty, accusing Yami of predatory behavior and outing her to their friend group. This painful experience establishes the foundation of Yami’s fear and defensiveness, fueling her determination to keep her sexuality hidden at Slayton Catholic.

Heteronormative expectations create constant tension for Yami as she explores her developing sexuality and identity. During a classroom debate on marriage equality, this internal conflict surfaces dramatically. As Bo openly protests the offensive topic, Yami sits stunned, unable to speak while classmates make dehumanizing comments. Their arguments comparing being gay to immoral behaviors make Yami feel “like an animal. A predator” (60), demonstrating how deeply she has internalized the judgments of others, to the point of questioning her humanity.

Official positions condemning LGBTQ+ sexualities permeate Slayton Catholic through classroom instruction, administrative policies, and peer interactions. During the debate about gay marriage, students openly declare, “Homosexuality is sin. It’s not natural! A child needs a mother and a father!” (60).