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The Life We Bury

Fiction | Novel | Adult | Published in 2014

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Chapters 1-5Chapter Summaries & Analyses

Chapter 1 Summary

The book's protagonist and first-person narrator, Joe, is a 21-year-old man attending college at the University of Minnesota. It’s September 2010. Joe is driving to Hillview Manor, a nursing home, to complete an assignment for an English class. He must interview an older person and write their biography.

 

Joe’s mother, Kathy Nelson, is an alcoholic who Joe suspects has bipolar disorder, although she’s never been diagnosed. She lives a two-hour drive away in Joe’s hometown of Austin, Minnesota with Joe’s autistic brother, 18-year-old Jeremy. The boys have different last names because Kathy named them after their fathers, hoping this would inspire the men to stay with her. Kathy relies on the Social Security money she gets from Jeremy to support her addiction. Joe supports himself, working as a bouncer at Molly’s Pub. Joe’s main hobby when he isn’t working or studying is cheering on the Minnesota Twins baseball team.

 

Mary Lorngren, the director of Hillview Manor, and the receptionist, Janet, suggest Joe talk to 64-year-old Carl Iverson. Carl is a convicted murderer, a “monster” according to Mary, who raped and killed a 14-year-old girl in 1980. He was transferred to the nursing home from Stillwater Prison because he’s dying of pancreatic cancer. Mary will ask Carl if he’s willing to be interviewed. Joe’s phone rings and it’s Kathy, drunk, being arrested for a DUI. She’s being sent to a detox facility and then to jail. This is too long for Jeremy to be home alone. Joe drives the two hours to Austin to get Jeremy. Joe’s angry, frustrated that Kathy’s irresponsible behavior is interfering in his life. 

Chapter 2 Summary

Joe drives to Austin, also know as Spam Town; one of the biggest events in the city’s history is a union strike that occurred in the early 1980s, as well as riots. With 13 bars, Austin has one of the highest bar-to-citizen ratios in greater Minnesota. Joe knows the Austin bars well as he frequently had to get Kathy out of the bars when he was younger. When Joe was 10, he had to hunt down Kathy at a bar because Jeremy was badly cut by a broken glass picture frame. She was annoyed that she had to leave the bar and angry because Joe used her “good towel” to stop Jeremy’s bleeding. Joe arrives in Austin and finds Jeremy at home watching television. He convinces Jeremy to drive back with him, saying their mom is in a meeting. 

Chapter 3 Summary

On the drive to Joe’s apartment, Jeremy and Joe listen to the Minnesota Twins game on the radio. Joe thinks about his mother and remembers a time when she was still “warm and soft” (24). After his Grandpa Bill died, “the one tether that gave my mother stability” (24), Kathy worsened. She became violent, a line she hadn’t crossed before. Joe once came home to find her hitting Jeremy in the head with a tennis shoe. The brothers arrive at Joe’s apartment. On the way in, they run into Joe’s neighbor, Lila. Joe sets Jeremy up with the television. Joe has nine voice messages from Kathy, cursing him for not picking up the phone. He also has one message from Mary, telling him that Carl has agreed to meet with him to discuss the possibility of an interview. 

Chapter 4 Summary

The next day, Joe sets Jeremy up with the television to keep him amused before heading to the university library. He is doing research into Carl’s arrest. Crystal lived with her mother Danielle, her father Douglas, and her stepbrother Daniel. Carl lived next door. Her charred remains were found burned in Carl’s garden shed. Carl, 32 at the time, was arrested the next day. Joe finds a photograph of Carl’s arrest. He notes that Carl wasn’t wearing shoes when he was arrested and that his facial expression doesn’t show the pride, false calm, or fear one might expect to see in the face of a murderer. Joe says, “What I saw was confusion” (34). 

Chapter 5 Summary

Joe comes home to find Jeremy watching Pirates of the Caribbean with Lila, who came over because Jeremy was having technical problems with the television. Lila has a cousin on the spectrum and understands Jeremy’s autism. Joe has long been attracted to Lila, but this is the first time he’s had a chance to talk to her. He seizes the opportunity and asks her to join him and Jeremy for dinner that night. She agrees.

Chapters 1-5 Analysis

The first chapters set the scene of the mystery the narrative will unravel. Joe is telling the story in first person, past tense, looking back. The first line sets a foreboding tone: "I remember being pestered by a sense of dread as I walked to my car that day [...]" (7). Joe is initially hesitant about interviewing Carl: While Joe's fellow students will have funny stories from grandparents, Joe will have a monster’s tale. He has procrastinated too long on this assignment, so he better take what he can get—Carl. However, Joe comes to see his unique interview subject as an advantage.

 

Chapter 3's conclusion foreshadows negative events to come: “When I finally fell asleep that night, I did so wrapped comfortably in the belief that my meeting with Carl Iverson would have no down side, that our encounter would somehow make my life better—easier. In hindsight, I was at best naïve” (29). Though the novel alludes to criminals, such as rapist and murderer Jeffrey Dahmer (27, 37) and bank robber and murderer Jeffrey Dillinger (12), Joe believes that his mother, Kathy, is the biggest monster of them all: “I might soon be interviewing a savage murderer, a man who gave no thought to ending a young girl’s life, a criminal who survived for more than thirty years in the worst hellhole prison in Minnesota, yet I did not dread that conversation nearly as much as I dreaded seeing my own mother” (29).

 

The emerging theme of familial obligation is apparent. Joe wants to unburden himself of his complicated family—an alcoholic mother and an autistic brother needing constant oversight—but cannot overcome his emotional ties. He fulfills his obligation to care for Jeremy in the face of Kathy’s DUI arrest but is upset at being pushed into the situation. He pauses the start of his drive to Austin, pulling over to shout, “Dammit! Dammit! Dammit! Why can’t you just leave me alone!” (16) as he pounds on the steering wheel. Kathy’s character, who is living with alcoholism, a gambling addiction, and mental illness, introduces themes of trauma and its mental and physical effects. When Kathy was a girl, her mother died, and Kathy’s condition worsened after her father’s death.

 

Joe is determined to rise above the environment he was raised in, seeking an education and getting out of Austin—a city known primarily for its production of Spam, a canned cooked pork that became popular after its use in World War II. Just like in the book, the real-life Austin, Minnesota is a small city—with a population of approximately 25,000 people—and is home to Hormel's corporate headquarters. The nickname Spam Town is real, and the 1986 strike and riots described in Chapter 2 really occurred. In the end, Hormel never gave into the workers' demands, and some 700 people were left jobless. (Risen, James. “Despite Settlement, It’s Still Not Over: Hormel Strike May Divide Town for Years to Come.” The Los Angeles Times. 1 September 1986. Web. Accessed 23 December 2019.) In setting the story in this context—a town with a hopeless backstory—the Minnesotan author has set a bleak scene, devoid of hope. 

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