The Most Important Thing: Stories about Sons, Fathers, and Grandfathers

Avi

47 pages 1-hour read

Avi

The Most Important Thing: Stories about Sons, Fathers, and Grandfathers

Fiction | Short Story Collection | Middle Grade | Published in 2017

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Character Analysis

Content Warning: This section of the guide includes discussion of bullying and death.

Paul

Paul, the protagonist of “Dream Catcher,” is sarcastic, observant, and emotionally perceptive, often picking up on subtle cues others miss. His relationship with his father is strained; his father is described as cold and emotionally reserved, “with smiles as rare as snowballs in August” (2). Paul notes that he is always formally dressed, in “a tie, a white shirt with a handkerchief in his pocket, and his hair combed back with care” (3). His appearance reflects his strict personality and paternal coldness. Paul, in contrast, is sensitive and curious, and watches the world around him as well as the people in his orbit. When he sees a trapped sparrow in the airport, it mirrors his own feeling of being stuck within intergenerational tensions, as Paul struggles to negotiate between a silent father and an estranged grandfather. He draws attention to the theme of Turning Intergenerational Tension into Opportunity.


Though resistant to visiting a grandfather he barely knows, Paul remains open to connection and is curious about his father’s past. His honesty pushes Road, Paul’s grandfather, to confront buried trauma from the Vietnam War. In a pivotal moment in the story, Paul listens as Road opens up about Vietnam, nightmares, and family divides. This emotional breakthrough helps Road begin to heal, thus inviting healing across generations. At the end, when Paul asks if he can return, Road surprisingly smiles, and this small gesture signals a developing bond between them. Paul’s strength and maturity lies in his willingness to bridge divides, which helps in mending broken familial ties.

Road

Road, whose real name is Joad, is Paul’s grandfather in the short story “Dream Catcher.” He is a Vietnam veteran who was deeply affected by the war, and the lingering trauma caused a divide between him and his son. His nickname, “Road,” was given to him by his son when he was young, and since he has kept the name, it hints that Road longs to reclaim that lost connection. Road wears his “Viet Vet” hat constantly, which acts a reminder of how the trauma of war still defines his identity and shapes how he interacts with the world.


When Paul first arrives, Road’s reaction is explosive and intimidating; he rants that he hasn’t heard from his son in years and takes his frustration out on Paul, revealing intergenerational tensions. Despite his gruff exterior, Road is a complex and lonely figure. His home is filled with books, suggesting his curiosity and intellect, and his many dream catchers represent that he longs to escape the nightmares that plague him. During a thunderstorm in the woods, Road finally reveals his past to Paul, explaining his nightmares and estrangement from Paul’s father. The moment is intense, but it becomes cathartic as Road finally releases his pain. Road later tells Paul, “You’re my dream catcher” (39), acknowledging that their conversation has lessened the weight of his trauma. The story ends with Road smiling at Paul, which is rare for him to do and suggests healing has begun. Road is a tragic but redeemable character, showing that even hardened silence can give way to vulnerability when met with patience.

Billy Kinley

Billy is the 11-year-old protagonist of “Kitchen Table.” He is defined by his loyalty, resilience, and persistent hope for paternal recognition. Though his father is no longer around, Billy keeps a photo of him on his wall, symbolizing a lingering emotional connection and idealization. Billy is devoted to his red bicycle, which is a secondhand birthday gift from his mother. The bike represents freedom, self-worth, and the theme of A Son’s Need for His Father’s Approval as Billy dreams of winning a bike race to impress his father. He takes meticulous care of the bike, “touch[ing] fingers to the frame, bounc[ing] the seat, and check[ing] the brakes” (45), indicating his deep longing for this possibility.


When the bike is stolen, Billy is devastated, but he does not give up; instead, he visits the police station daily and even confronts a much older boy he sees riding his bike, revealing courage and integrity. When he tells his mother, “Nobody’s perfect. You have to learn to forgive” (48), he is referring to the bike’s scratches, but the subtext implies that he is forgiving his father for his absence. Billy’s grows through the experience of the race and its aftermath, demonstrating the theme of Coming of Age Through Change, Loss, and Acceptance.

Charlie

Charlie, the protagonist of “Beat Up,” is a deeply introspective character who is torn between his admiration for his father and his need for his approval, demonstrating the theme of a son’s need for his father’s approval. His father, a confident and assertive man, prizes bravery and strength and sees fear as weakness. Charlie wants to live up to his father’s expectations but feels unable to. Charlie is peace-loving by nature, admitting, “I never thought of myself as particularly brave” (71), exposing his dread of violence. He adds that fighting scares him but that he always felt that others would see him as weak if he admitted it. This fear likely stems from how his father’s attitude affects Charlie’s own self-perception.


When Charlie ends up in a gang fight, he pretends to be unconscious to avoid violence. His father sees this act of self-preservation as cowardice, while Charlie believes it was a clever way to avoid confrontation. In one of the story’s most dramatic and emotionally complex scenes, Charlie’s father humiliates him publicly, and Charlie, overwhelmed and hurt, calls his father a coward. This moment dramatizes turning intergenerational tension into opportunity, as Charlie must decide whether to accept his father’s definition of bravery or to redefine it for himself.

Marco

Marco, the protagonist of “The Amalfi Duo,” is a bright, self-aware boy navigating the line between childhood and adolescence. He respects his grandfather, Gramps, and even says that Gramps “knows everything,” yet Marco’s patience for Gramps’s long-winded demonstrations of his intelligence is becoming limited. He often answers half-heartedly or ignores Gramps, showing a desire for independence. Marco wants to break from childlike routines—such as walking home from school with Gramps every day—and form a more independent identity.


Marco’s connection with music becomes the catalyst for his coming of age through change, loss, and acceptance. Although Gramps is the one who initiates the idea of learning music, Marco quickly surpasses his abilities. His natural skill on the recorder surprises both Gramps and himself. During a recital, Marco plays with confidence, impressing the crowd, who “applauded enthusiastically.” This is a defining moment where Marco steps out from under his grandfather’s shadow. Though he still values Gramps, he begins to see him more clearly as a flawed and human, while discovering his own voice and identity.

Gramps

Gramps, who is Marco’s grandfather in “The Amalfi Duo,” is intelligent, arrogant, and sometimes overbearing. He is eager to maintain relevance and influence in Marco’s life even as the boy grows more independent. Every day, he insists on picking Marco up from school, but Marco starts to want independence and to walk home on his own. He even points out: “I’m older than Nicky is, but he walks home alone” (110). Gramps believes strongly in his role as a teacher to Marco, consistently offering lessons and advice; however, his know-it-all personality begins to wear on Marco, who becomes less receptive and more resistant over time. The competitive streak that emerges between Gramps and Marco demonstrates the theme of turning intergenerational tension into opportunity.


Music reveals a crucial turning point in both characters. While Gramps initially insists on teaching Marco about “real music,” it’s Marco who quickly becomes the better player. During the recital, Gramps’s performance is awkward and he feels embarrassed: “His fingers seemed to have a life of their own. A clumsy life” (133). Afterward, he humbly admits he “stank,” showing vulnerability and honesty that contrasts with his usual personality. This moment humbles Gramps and changes the dynamic between grandson and grandfather as he realizes that Marco is growing into his own person and may even surpass his own abilities.

Damon

Damon is the protagonist of “Going Home.” He is perceptive and cautious bur resistant to change and is caught between his recently divorced parents. Longing for his father, he clings to memories of his father’s house, seeing it as a symbol of stability. However, he senses something is off when he notices various changes around the house: “Knowing his dad didn’t eat tomatoes or any of that other stuff, […] Damon was sure now that someone else was in the house. Who?” (146). These observations underscore how deeply he once knew his father’s habits, and how alien the house feels in the face of change.


Damon is protective of his bond with his father, despite his father’s disinterest in Damon. He attempts to maintain control over a situation that is not in his hands. He dislikes the idea that his father is starting a new relationship and life that does not include him. Feeling utterly betrayed by his father, Damon’s realization that his mother still loves him underscores the theme of The Feeling of Home, as he realizes that home is where he is valued.

Luke

Luke is the protagonist of “Departed,” which is the most emotional and grief-filled story in the collection as it deals most directly with death and shows Luke coming of age through change, loss, and acceptance. His deep bond with his father is rooted in shared experiences like camping trips and long conversations under the stars. When his father dies unexpectedly, Luke spirals into grief, disbelief, and spiritual questioning. His initial response is denial: “Dad dead? Impossible. He could not be gone” (172).


Visions of his father’s presence, such as a glimmer at the end of the hallway or a face in the mirror, suggest the persistence of the father-son connection. Holding his father’s ashes, he asks aloud what he’s supposed to do, searching for purpose in the face of grief. His decision to take the ashes to their favorite camping spot by a lake shows his emotional maturity and his devotion to his father. As he releases the ashes, he sees them moving outward, “like a swimmer heading toward the deepest part of the lake” (190). The moment symbolizes Luke’s acceptance of loss.

Ryan

Ryan, the protagonist of “Tighty-Whities or Boxers?”, is witty, perceptive, and emotionally mature. He lives with his mother, and his father died of cancer three years ago. Ryan often uses humor to manage difficult emotions and acts with a maturity beyond his years. Rather than resenting his mother’s new boyfriend, Ian, Ryan sees an opportunity to make sure that he fits within their family dynamic. He creates a mock job ad: “Employment opportunity available: Dad. Must not be too old. Has to like my mom a lot. Be nice to her. Know stuff” ( 198). The ad blends Ryan’s innocence with maturity, showing his need for reassurance and control.


Ryan evaluates Ian methodically, assessing his handshake, his demeanor, and his compatibility. Ryan’s public declaration in court that Ian is his new dad gives the moment weight and formality. This symbolic act reveals Ryan’s ability to honor his deceased father’s memory while making space for a new parent. Rather than clinging to the past, he opens his heart to someone new, revealing that he is coming of age through change, loss, and acceptance.

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