The Most Important Thing: Stories about Sons, Fathers, and Grandfathers

Avi

47 pages 1-hour read

Avi

The Most Important Thing: Stories about Sons, Fathers, and Grandfathers

Fiction | Short Story Collection | Middle Grade | Published in 2017

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Story 1 Summary: “Dream Catcher”

Paul is woken up early in the morning by his father, Michael, who is usually surly and silent. When he isn’t, he is either giving Paul advice or cautioning him about something. Michael is taking Paul to stay with his grandfather in Colorado because Michael is busy with work and his mother is having surgery. Paul hardly knows his own father because they rarely talk, but he has never even met his grandfather. At the airport, Paul challenges his father, asking why Michael and his grandfather don’t talk to or like each other, but Michael doesn’t respond except to say that Paul will likely find out when he meets him. Paul’s father doesn’t even say goodbye as he leaves Paul to board the flight. On the plane, all Paul can think about is how he is about to spend a week with someone he has never met.


When Paul lands in Colorado, he doesn’t even know who to look for, but his grandfather recognizes him because Paul looks just like Michael. Paul immediately feels like he is looking at an older, more tired version of his own father as well, and he notices that his grandfather wears a cap that says “Viet Vet” on it. On the drive to his grandfather’s house, Paul’s grandfather introduces himself as Road, saying that’s what his son (whom he calls Mickey) called him growing up. Paul notices a dream catcher hanging from the rearview mirror, which Road explains is to help with his nightmares. Paul also asks about his dad and their relationship, but Road only gives vague answers and implies that he no longer has a family.


Road’s house is old-fashioned and filled with books, and Paul notices there are dream catchers everywhere. Conversations over the first few meals are awkward and dry, and Paul starts to think about possible ways to escape. Road has no television, and Paul forgot his phone charger, so he feels isolated and trapped. Road becomes angry on the first night, yelling about how his son hasn’t spoken to him for years and is now dumping Paul on him. Paul decides he doesn’t like Road, which is made worse by Road’s confession to having anger issues and Paul finding a pistol in Road’s bedroom. Paul also finds a photo of his dad as a child, framed and hanging on the wall. Whenever Road talks to Paul, Paul feels like he is being seen as Michael instead.


Paul and Road head out to go camping in the mountains, despite Paul’s reluctance. Road takes Paul to an isolated place in the woods and sets up a tent amid a raging thunderstorm. Inside the tent and through the rain, Road talks all night about his experience in Vietnam and why he and Paul’s father don’t get along. Road explains that his wife became pregnant young, just before he went to war, and that they were strangers upon his return. She left him with Mickey, but Road was plagued by the horrors of war and could not be an adequate father. So, when Mickey was 18, he left. Paul starts to feel a sense of empathy for his father, as well as for Road.


After the camping trip, the atmosphere changes, and Road takes Paul out for all sorts of activities. By the time Paul has to leave, Paul even asks if he can come back, which makes Road smile for the first time. Road tells Paul he loves him and tells him to bring Mickey with him next time he comes. He also tells Paul that he became his “dream catcher,” because after their talks in the mountains, Road’s nightmares began to subside.

Story 1 Analysis

The story opens with imagery of bleakness, discomfort, and disconnection. Paul thinks that LaGuardia Airport is grim, as he notices people slumped over and appearing anxious, lonely, or distracted. He is immediately out of his comfort zone, and later, at Road’s house, he finds himself in an environment that feels a century older, with no TV, little technology, and no phone charger. Paul’s sense of unease intensifies with Road’s outburst. However, when they go on their camping trip—which Road sees as an escape “from himself”—the tension gradually releases. Surrounded by nature, Paul notes that “the deepest silence [he] ever heard took over” (28), emphasizing both the physical stillness and the emotional weight of the experience.


The story’s core focus is on the strained family dynamics between Paul, his father, and his grandfather, highlighting the theme of Turning Intergenerational Tension into Opportunity. Paul’s father embodies rigidity and restraint. He is a man whose “smiles [were] as rare as snowballs in August” (2), and Paul sees him as a figure of rules rather than warmth. Paul’s father appears stiff and professional in his uniform—“a tie, handkerchief, trimmed hair combed back with care” (3)—and Paul sees it symbolic of his father’s emotional distance.  On the other hand, Paul’s grandfather, who is named Joad but called Road, seems like a gruffer, older version of the same man, though he is marked by trauma and bitterness. Paul notes: “The resemblance to my father was creepy: it was as if my father had become an old guy” (9). Paul notices that Road’s traits of silence and seriousness have been passed down to his father, and Paul comes to understand his father better by interacting with the man who raised him. Road, in turn, sees Paul as a reflection of his son and initially directs his pent-up anger at him, adding emotional complexity to their interactions. Road has an outburst upon Paul’s arrival, saying he hasn’t heard from his son in years, and he storms off. Road constantly wears his Viet Vet hat, which hints toward the experiences that define him. Despite the initial tension between Road and Paul, they end up bonding, and when Paul asks to visit again, Road even smiles.


The metaphors in the story highlight the disconnection between the characters. When Paul’s father drives him to the airport in silence, the narrative describes them as “slapping silences at each other, like phantom Ping-Pong players” (1), setting the stage for the confrontational relationships between fathers and sons in this story. The story is carried by dialogue rather than narration, letting characters speak for themselves. Paul conveys that he feels emotionally distant from his grandfather when he says, “I’m closer to the moon than to him” (6). This hyperbolic metaphor emphasizes how even something astronomically remote feels more accessible than this familial bond.


The story’s symbols and motifs reinforce its tensions. A sparrow trapped in the airport mirrors Paul’s own feelings of confinement, and Paul compares his father to the stone lions that guard the city library, thinking: “He was there and in charge, but when he talked, it was mostly about rules and expectations” (2). This conveys Paul’s father’s authority and lack of warmth. The dream catcher in Road’s truck and the others in his house symbolize the fragile possibility of protection and healing. Paul learns they come from the Ojibwe culture and are meant to protect from nightmares. As they drive, Paul watches the dream catcher sway and bounce. At the campsite, Road picks a spot with a circle of stones surrounded by sitting logs, which resembles the circular dream catchers and reminds Paul of ancient rituals of protection.


Even the thunderstorm that builds as they talk becomes symbolic of Road’s trauma. Paul compares the lightning to a gunshot, saying “lightning crackle[d] overhead like a series of pistol shots” (30). This moment merges Road’s war memories with their present, and it is here that Road begins to open up about his past and confesses his painful memories. The war motif emphasizes the generational legacy of pain, as Road says he, Paul’s father, and Paul are all “casualties” of war. By talking through the night, Road experiences emotional catharsis, and by the end, he tells Paul: “[Y]ou’re my dream catcher” (39). At this moment, Paul’s role shifts: He is no longer the grandson seeking approval but a listener who embodies protection and understanding.

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