The Most Important Thing: Stories about Sons, Fathers, and Grandfathers

Avi

47 pages 1-hour read

Avi

The Most Important Thing: Stories about Sons, Fathers, and Grandfathers

Fiction | Short Story Collection | Middle Grade | Published in 2017

A modern alternative to SparkNotes and CliffsNotes, SuperSummary offers high-quality Study Guides with detailed chapter summaries and analysis of major themes, characters, and more.

Symbols & Motifs

Content Warning: This section of the guide includes discussion of death.

Dream Catcher

The dream catcher, rooted in Ojibwe culture, is traditionally used to protect sleepers from nightmares, and it becomes a central symbol of emotional healing and generational reconciliation in the short story “Dream Catcher.” Paul first notices it hanging in Road’s truck, describing it as “a small circle made of what looked like bent wood, with a string-web in the middle and feathers hanging down” (6). Its presence grows in meaning as Paul learns of his grandfather’s nightmares that are caused by his trauma from the war in Vietnam. Road’s trauma from the war affected his relationship with his son, Paul’s father, and this in turn affected Paul’s relationship with his father. Road’s house, too, has several dream catchers, signaling his ongoing attempt to ward off his nightmares. As Paul and Road drive into the mountains, Paul keeps noticing the dream catcher in Road’s car “swaying and bobbing like it was dancing to music only it could hear” (8), acting a reminder that pain and peace can exist in unison. The dream catcher thus symbolizes Turning Intergenerational Tension into Opportunity.


Circular imagery recurs in the story, most notably at the campsite where Road chooses a space within a circle of stones, surrounded by logs, which Paul notes feels like some ancient ritual space and mirrors the dream catcher’s shape. The storm, with “lightning crackle overhead like a series of pistol shots” (30), evokes battlefield chaos, and it is in this moment that Road opens up about his experiences in the war that went on to define his family life. By the end, Road tells Paul, “You’re my dream catcher” (39), acknowledging that the act of confiding in him and being heard has brought him peace. The dream catcher is thus a metaphor for Paul himself, since he has brought Road comfort.

Billy’s Bike

In “Kitchen Table,” Billy’s red bicycle is a symbol of hope, identity, and the theme of A Son’s Need for His Father’s Approval. Living with his single mother, Billy still dreams of reconnection with his absent father, even wishing for an expandable table “just in case someone else came around for dinner” (42), referring to his father. His mother, despite financial hardship, surprises him with a secondhand bike for his birthday, and it becomes an embodiment of Billy’s dream. The description of the bike—“He straddled the bike, touched fingers to the frame, bounced the seat, and checked the brakes” (45)—reveals his reverence for it, while its “splendid fire-engine red” color is a symbol of joy and new beginnings (43).


Billy’s bond with the bike parallels his attachment to his father. While examining a scratch on the bike, he tells his mother, “Nobody’s perfect. You have to learn to forgive” (48); here, the scratched paint is a metaphor for his father. The theft of the bike, and the sight of another boy riding it in the race, forces Billy to confront the limits of loyalty and hope. Still, his refusal to give up on the bike or his father shows his resilience in the face of hardship. Though he doesn’t recover the bike, his emotional journey confirms his ability to love, hope, and move forward.

Music

In “The Amalfi Duo,” music serves as a motif for turning intergenerational tension into opportunity, as well as competition and growth between Marco and Gramps. Initially, Marco shows an interest in learning to play the drums, but Gramps scoffs at the idea, insisting drums aren’t “real music.” Soon, a shift occurs when Gramps proposes they take recorder lessons together, with music becoming a testing ground for their bond. Mrs. Pelescue, their music teacher, reminds them that “playing music together is the essence of music. Of life, if I may say so” (129). This sentiment frames music as a metaphor for the way relationships can be unpredictable, challenging, and complicated, but are nevertheless worth it.


As their lessons progress, Marco excels while Gramps struggles: “His fingers seemed to have a life of their own. A clumsy life” (133). Gramps eventually admits that he “stank” at it, humbling himself and removing the barrier he created between himself and Marco. Meanwhile, Marco gains confidence not just musically but emotionally, recognizing that despite his growing independence and prowess, he can still love his grandfather despite his flaws. Music, in this story, becomes the connecting force between ego and humility, as well as the old and the young.

Death

Death is the defining motif in “Departed.” Luke, stunned by his father’s sudden death, struggles to process the ordinariness of the day in contrast with the enormity of his loss. The imagery of his snowy journey with his father’s ashes conveys both beauty and desolation:


So different from summer. Then, everything lush green. Now, snow drifting down, slowly, steadily, each flake the ghost of a leaf. The silence frozen. My breath hanging before my face like a thin veil. The light soft, just enough to see that the world was gradually disappearing, everything living—fading, except me, with what remained of Dad on my back (188).


The winter season emphasizes the fragility of life and the ghostly presence of Luke’s grief.


Luke experiences some supernatural occurrences after his father’s death: He sees a glimmering in the hallway before learning of his father’s death, and he later sees what he thinks is his father’s face in the mirror. They suggest that death is not final but an ongoing relationship with absence. Luke carries his father’s ashes to the lake they once camped at together, after asking his father if this is what he would want, showing that Luke believes in connections lasting beyond death. Upon scattering the ashes, he sees something like “a swimmer heading toward the deepest part of the lake” (190), symbolizing release and the completion of the process of Coming of Age Through Change, Loss, and Acceptance.

The Lake

The lake in “Departed” functions as a symbol of memory, transition, and continuity. It was Luke’s father’s favorite place and was a shared refuge where they used to go camping and fishing together. Luke’s decision to take his father’s ashes there transforms the lake into a sacred space. Its stillness and peacefulness contrast with the chaos of grief, providing Luke with space for closure and paving the way for his coming of age through change, loss, and acceptance.


Avi uses the lake’s physical features to deepen its emotional resonance. Snowfall, frozen air, and muffled silence mirror Luke’s numbness. The metaphor of the ashes moving “like a swimmer […] toward the deepest part of the lake” (190) becomes a visual representation of release. The lake is also a symbol of continuity; though Luke’s father has died, the lake remains, and the memory of their time together is embedded in the landscape. After this moment of release, Luke no longer sees his father’s ghost because he has finally let him go.

blurred text
blurred text
blurred text

Unlock the meaning behind every key symbol & motif

See how recurring imagery, objects, and ideas shape the narrative.

  • Explore how the author builds meaning through symbolism
  • Understand what symbols & motifs represent in the text
  • Connect recurring ideas to themes, characters, and events