52 pages 1-hour read

Colleen Hoover

This Girl

Fiction | Novel | Adult | Published in 2013

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Symbols & Motifs

Content Warning: This section of the guide references illness or death, sexual content, and a romantic relationship between a high-school teacher and his 18-year-old student.

Slam Poetry

Slam poetry, which the title of Hoover’s series references, acts as a central motif that provides the primary vehicle for the characters’ emotional expression, confession, and catharsis. Particularly for Will and Lake, whose relationship faces ethical obstacles that prevent them from being together and expressing their feelings more directly, the stage becomes a sanctioned space for radical honesty, allowing them to transform private turmoil into public art. Even before Will discovers that Lake is his student, he uses poetry to articulate the pain of his past and the complexity of his circumstances as Caulder’s guardian. The context of the slam helps him give her the necessary context for his life in a way that feels more comfortable to him. Hoover positions Will’s performance of “Death” on his first date with Lake as an act of vulnerability crucial for building their future. 


By confessing the weight of his responsibilities, Will introduces the novel’s thematic focus on The Conflict Between Personal Desire and Moral Responsibility. Later, Lake reciprocates this vulnerability with her own poem, “Schooled,” using the same medium to confess her love and break through the obstacles inherent to their circumstances. From the stage, she says, “A boy that I’m seriously, deeply, madly, incredibly, and undeniably in love with” (232), articulating feelings she and Will have agreed not to pursue. Her public declaration is a turning point in their romantic arc. By declaring her feelings so publicly, she forces them to confront their romantic attraction rather than attempting to ignore it.

Suck and Sweet

The daily ritual of sharing the best and worst moments of the day (referred to as “suck and sweet”) is a recurring motif that represents the family’s commitment to honest communication and shared vulnerability as tools for navigating hardship. This ritual, established by Will to help Caulder process his grief over their parents’ death, becomes a key tenet of their new family’s emotional resilience—an acknowledgment that life contains both pain and joy. The motif underscores the novel’s thematic exploration of The Duality of Love as Both a Healing and Destabilizing Force, as Will actively creates a ritual in which both joy and pain are acknowledged and honored. The ritual’s significance expands when Julia, Lake, and Kel are integrated into it, cementing the creation of their chosen family. The motif illustrates the characters’ commitment to daily participation in each other’s emotional lives. By insisting that both the “suck” and the “sweet” are given voice, the ritual embodies the novel’s argument that a meaningful future can only be built by acknowledging, rather than ignoring, the painful realities of the past and present. Julia’s embrace of the ritual illustrates her own attempt to confront her terminal illness with the same blend of honesty and hope. As the family gathers to carve pumpkins for Halloween, Julia notes: “‘My suck is the same as my sweet,’ Julia says quietly. ‘We’re still carving pumpkins’” (197), acknowledging the ways pain and joy co-exist in a single moment.

Carving Pumpkins

The act of carving pumpkins serves as a motif symbolizing the deliberate creation of new family bonds and traditions in the face of impending loss. This single scene brings the members of both Will and Lake’s families together, not just as neighbors or friends, but as a cohesive family unit, engaging in a ritual of normalcy even as their lives are being destabilized by Julia’s illness. The activity itself, crafting joyful faces on something temporary, mirrors their effort to build happy memories despite knowing their time with Julia is limited. Julia’s acknowledgement that the moment carries both the joy of being together and the pain of their impending loss, as this will be her last Halloween. The pumpkin carving motif illustrates that love acts as a healing force, not by erasing grief, but by providing the strength to create moments of light and togetherness within it. It shows the family actively Reconciling with the Past to Build a Future.

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