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Content Warning: This section of the guide includes discussion of physical abuse.
The 50th anniversary of Pablo Picasso’s death occurred in 2023, and many art museums marked the occasion with Picasso exhibits and retrospectives. Picasso’s impact on the art world is indelible: his prolific and original work influenced 10 different art movements, though the most important of his influences is Synthetic Cubism, or the quintessential Picasso style. He was also a “misogynist and a womanizer” (193) who physically abused his female partners. This aspect of Picasso’s life was explicitly addressed by the exhibit at the Brooklyn Museum in New York. The exhibit was curated by Hannah Gadsby, an Australian comedian who performed the viral standup set Nanette in 2018.
In Gadsby’s work, they told a couple of jokes about Picasso’s treatment of women, which prompted the museum to offer them the role of curator. The exhibit emphasized Picasso’s legacy as an abuser, which, McKinney argues, was not exactly a revelation. Several books had been published on this topic, some before Picasso died. One of the most influential was Francoise Gilot’s Life with Picasso, a memoir by Picasso’s romantic partner. At the time they met, she was 21 and he was 61. The 40-year age difference, as well as the difference between their levels of success, led to a deep power imbalance. Nevertheless, Gilot chronicled her environment in a way that “created gossip for the general public by codifying the beliefs of a select few” (198). She also refused to depict herself as a one-dimensional victim, instead refuting some of the claims made about Picasso’s treatment of women and highlighting her successful retaliations against him. His power was immense, but she still escaped, so his abuse was not world-ending for her.
Picasso also generated gossip by filing three unsuccessful lawsuits against the book in attempts to suppress it, and he also recruited other artists in calling for a boycott. Many reviewers excoriated Gilot for tarnishing Picasso’s legacy, but by making herself the mouthpiece of this gossip, she claimed power over it. In the publication of her book, Gilot also pointed out an essential hypocrisy, namely that Picasso liked to spread rumors about the women he abused in order to discredit them; ironically, he believed that Gilot had no right to do the same to him.
Gadsby’s exhibit, which included only a few Picasso paintings and many paintings by women (only some of which had any connection to Picasso), also included video clips of Gadsby’s comedy special, in which they spoke about Picasso’s relationship to women. McKinney points out that making a moral judgment on art misses the point of the art itself. Gilot’s memoir helps to show more of the truth about Picasso, as does Picasso’s work. McKinney believes that Gadsby’s show, by moralizing the art, does not accomplish the same task and therefore does not qualify as either gossip or art.
This chapter deals with the author’s medical troubles, specifically a hearing disability that she has had since childhood; this disability shaped her relationship to gossip. McKinney uses this personal anecdote to cover one of the most dramatic forms of gossip: eavesdropping. While in the locker room as a child, McKinney heard other girls gossiping about someone named Kelsey, calling her a tease, a prude, and a baby. Although there were eight other Kelseys in her grade, she immediately assumed that the gossip applied to her and felt “nauseous,” believing herself to be widely hated and mocked.
She expands this eavesdropping experience to public life, pointing out that almost everybody eavesdrops on things they find interesting, often almost unconsciously. The trope of eavesdropping appears in most romantic comedies as well as other genres, in which one person hears something ostensibly cruel about themselves and takes action based on that information, which is almost always only half-heard or missing crucial context. In Pride and Prejudice, for example, the protagonist Elizabeth Bennet overhears Mr. Darcy say something dismissive about her, and this incident ignites the entire plot. Likewise, in Notting Hill, a 1999 romantic comedy, gossip and misunderstanding fuel the conflict between the two main characters.
McKinney reveals that the locker-room eavesdropping could easily have been a misunderstanding, since she was plagued by constant infections in her right ear. A doctor discovered that she had a cholesteatoma, or a type of growth that, if left untreated, could destroy her hearing, reach her brain, and kill her. They removed the growth during a grueling surgery, but in the process, she lost all hearing in her right ear. She states that this disability ought to have made her much more skeptical of overheard gossip, but instead, her disability fueled the fire. However, she points out that scientifically, people’s senses are all imperfect; their brains conjure up most of what they see and hear based on what the brain thinks should be there. This is why humans are easy to fool in specific testing environments, and why eyewitness accounts in legal testimony are notoriously untrustworthy.
However, the emotions felt during information exchange, especially eavesdropping, remains real. McKinney remembers the agony of believing herself disliked, even if the girls weren’t talking about her. This intense emotion is why the eavesdropping-misunderstanding plotline remains a firm staple in entertainment.
In the final chapter, McKinney emphasizes her eternal love of gossip and cites a recent anecdote to illustrate the point. At a restaurant, she realizes that a new acquaintance had never heard a piece of contemporary pop-culture gossip, and she discovers with immense pleasure that she can be the first to tell the story to this person. The story involves a famous male artist married to famous female artist, who is commissioned by a pop star to make cover album art. The male artist believes that he and the pop star are deeply attracted to one another, so he preemptively leaves his wife, the artist. He confronts the pop star, informing her that they can now be together, but the pop star is mystified. She never felt the same attraction and rejects him. Thus, this man, who believed himself to have a famous artist wife and a successful pop star girlfriend, now has neither.
While this gossip is salacious and even voyeuristic, McKinney borrows a phrase from a novel, labeling this form of gossip as emotional speculation, a kind of emotional play in which the participants become engrossed in a social situation in order to make sense of the world, just as children do when they play pretend.
McKinney then draws a line between gossip and lying, stating that gossipers “aren’t actively ignoring the truth and trying to subvert it” (236) but are instead trying to get closer to the truth by freely sharing information and trusting other participants to understand the difference between gossip and concrete fact. Emily Dickinson, in her poem “Tell all the truth but tell it slant,” argues that truth, if revealed all at once in its entirety, would be a destructive force and not a creative one.
However, McKinney maintains that the point of gossip is not necessarily to get closer to truth. Instead, “to gossip is just to live, to be a person, for better or for worse” (238). She states that the greatest purpose of gossip is not to understand the truth, but to understand our own unique perspectives and understanding how they differ from others. In this context, gossip is a way of celebrating messy human existence and acknowledging the fact that reality cannot be neatly contained.
In the final chapters, McKinney deepens her investigation of gossip’s social and psychological functions, bringing her themes into greater focus. Through the figures of Pablo Picasso and Françoise Gilot, personal anecdotes about eavesdropping and hearing loss, and a final celebration of storytelling itself, McKinney synthesizes her nuanced analysis of gossip as a form of indirect justice, a community-builder, and an invader of private spheres, positing that the social phenomenon of gossip is far more than a mere cultural artifact and is instead an essential aspect of many human experiences.
With McKinney’s discussion of Pablo Picasso’s checkered legacy, she reiterates The Dual Nature of Gossip as Constructive and Destructive, immediately introduces the reader to gossip’s destructive potential—but also its redemptive possibilities. Picasso, an artistic icon, was also a known abuser, a reality long buried beneath the grandeur of his cultural contributions. The gossip surrounding him—codified most significantly in Françoise Gilot’s Life With Picasso—becomes a form of historical counter-narrative. Although Gilot’s memoir met with public scorn and legal resistance, it nonetheless functions as what McKinney terms “codified gossip” (198): personal testimony that reclaims narrative power from an institutionalized mythos. The gossip is destructive to Picasso’s legacy, but it also constructively reorients cultural memory to support those whom the artist has sought to silence. The memoir exposes Picasso’s hypocritical suppression of gossip about himself even as he actively spread harmful gossip about his conquests, and Gilot’s work therefore illustrates McKinney’s observation that in certain contexts, gossip can become an indirect substitute for justice, serving as both weapon and defense.
Within the context of the book, McKinney has essentially appointed herself the arbiter of gossip’s different functions and definitions; however, she does not exempt herself from being a victim of gossip and its indirect effects. This dynamic is fully illustrated when she recounts a childhood experience of eavesdropping on fellow classmates and overhearing gossip that may or may not have been aimed at her. Notably, her younger self internalizes this gossip so completely that she experiences nausea and emotional distress. Reflecting upon this experience, McKinney uses her own visceral response to gossip to highlight the idea that even the suspicion of being excluded and derided can be deeply formative. As such, this form of gossip can wreak considerable—if unintentional—harm. The destructive power of gossip in this case lies not in malice but in ambiguity, but even as she reflects on the pain of her experience, McKinney acknowledges that eavesdropping is a fundamentally human act: an imperfect attempt to make sense of others and oneself through overheard fragments. In this sense, she shows that she and her classmates had been Using Gossip to Shape Identities and Communities, however erroneously.
These chapters also emphasize how gossip shapes collective identities, and to this end, McKinney examines the fraught history of the painter Pablo Picasso and his highly publicized affairs. When his onetime lover, Françoise Gilot, refused to play the one-dimensional victim and published an incendiary memoir called Life With Picasso, this strategic move allowed her to join and shape a community of readers who sought the truth about figures that had been enshrined in sanitized, dominant narratives. McKinney notes that Gilot, by making herself the “mouthpiece of the gossip” (198), reclaimed her identity on her own terms. Similarly, Hannah Gadsby’s controversial Picasso exhibit critiques the ways in which institutions protect abusive legacies by suppressing communal knowledge that often only comes out in gossip. Although McKinney critiques Gadsby’s moralizing approach, she acknowledges that the exhibit still reflects gossip’s power to form communal critiques in opposition to hegemonic authority.
In Chapters 9 and 10, McKinney strives to deliver a last, definitive analysis of Gossip’s Role in Publicizing Private Matters, contending that Gilot’s memoir exposed private relationships and inner workings of a man with the public reputation of being a genius. While McKinney initially uses this example to illustrate gossip’s role as an occasional arbiter of justice, this example also touches upon the issue of invaded privacy. Picasso’s reaction to Gilot’s memoir involved using any means at his disposal to silence or discredit her account, and his actions were rooted in his belief that he had a right to control what was public about his life. McKinney argues that gossip fundamentally challenges that belief and that public figures lose the privilege of complete privacy, especially when they have violated the private lives of others.
However, in McKinney’s own locker-room example of gossip, the girls’ locker room itself becomes a liminal space between public and private spheres; it is seemingly private, yet porous enough for overheard conversations to bleed into personal identity. In this context, McKinney’s partial hearing loss takes on a metaphorical significance, for her inability to fully perceive the truth of the girls’ words stands as a reminder that all information is necessarily filtered through the inevitable flaws of human perception. As McKinney states, “All of our senses are imperfect,” and she suggests that what people hear—or think they hear—about others inevitably becomes a projection of their own emotional and social positioning: or a “slant truth,” to paraphrase Emily Dickinson’s poem on the same general topic.
In these final chapters, McKinney affirms that gossip is more than idle chatter or social noise. In her nuanced view, gossip becomes a profoundly human method of meaning-making—an act of witnessing, a tool of resistance, a form of empathy, and sometimes, a cruel weapon. Although she acknowledges that gossip can both hurt and heal, isolate and unite, the author contends that above all else, gossip reflects the complexity of human life, which is messy, contradictory, and always in motion. To gossip, McKinney concludes, “is just to live, to be a person, for better or for worse” (238). In that statement lies her ultimate thesis: the idea that gossip is not a deviation from truth or morality, but a lens through which people attempt to understand both.



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