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After Brian, Isadora dated Charlie Fielding, a man who always looked like he was in mourning, though he was not. He was unselfconscious and oblivious to people around him. He was always horny but afraid of being “vulgar.” He lived on the income from his trust fund and what he earned conducting a choral group and giving piano lessons. His uncle, a famous ballroom dancer, had changed his last name from Feldstein to Fielding and gotten a nose job, and he had offered money to his entire family to do the same. Charlie had agreed to change his name but refused to alter his nose. He wrote a few unfinished symphonies and carried a conductor’s baton in his pocket. Others saw him as a failure, but he felt himself to be a misunderstood genius.
Charlie declared children to be “boring,” a grave insult in his view, though he also favored “banal” and “vulgar” when scorning others (299). Isadora was “madly” in love with him, though his personal hygiene was lax, including his failure to clean himself adequately after bowel movements. He played the piano, like Isadora’s father, and this aroused her. They met when they were both featured on a television show for young artists. The first time they went to bed together, Charlie couldn’t maintain an erection and began sobbing. This brought out Isadora’s “maternal instincts,” and she rocked him to sleep with reassurances. In the morning, they had sex. He said he loved her, but she felt he was hiding something. One day, she found some letters from another woman, Salome Weinfeld, in which Salome professed that her love for Charlie was unaltered despite her living with another man. Isadora became determined to win him.
In the summer, Charlie headed to Holland for a conducting competition, so Isadora planned to meet Pia in Florence, then travel to Lebanon to visit Randy. Charlie’s fear of flying kept him from boarding a plane, so they crossed the ocean on a ship. He lost the competition in the first round, as he possessed no charisma: the opposite of Brian. Isadora wondered if she was doomed to spend the rest of her life running back and forth between the two men who, when put together, would make one great man. Charlie and Isadora said their goodbyes, and she felt certain he was going to Paris to see Salome. She was right, which she learned from a letter that Charlie wrote to her, in which he plagiarized a letter Salome had written to him. Isadora met Pia in Italy, and they got revenge on their faithless lovers by sleeping with “every man” in Florence.
En route to Beirut, Isadora feared she’d be outed as Jewish but resented having to lie about it. She also became convinced that she’d contracted gonorrhea in Italy. The flight was awful, and Randy was critical from the moment Isadora arrived. The whole family came. The heat was stifling, so they rarely left the apartment, adding to the chaos and bubbling tensions. It took a minor crisis—Randy’s son calling the maid, Louise, a rude name—to move them. They piled into the van to return Louise to her village, from which Pierre’s family hailed. He became unbearably pedantic. One night, he crept into Isadora’s room, saying he hated to see her upset. She knew it would be “easy to oblige” him and perform fellatio, but she could not bring herself to do it (335).
Isadora went to Lalah and Chloe’s room to tell them what had just happened, but they guessed it. Pierre had already tried with both of them. Isadora headed back to Italy, where she had an “exuberant” six-day tryst with a man in Rome: It was the only time in her life, she says, when she had satisfying sex with a man and didn’t convince herself she was in love with him. It was like a truce between her id and superego. She didn’t want to leave, but she felt obligated to return to her teaching job and PhD program. That autumn, she met Bennett.
Isadora tells Adrian everything and asks his professional opinion. He says she needs to do some serious introspection and “salvage” her life. She professes her keen wish to feel “whole” again and her belief that being in love will accomplish this. He lists everything she has outside of love, but this makes no difference to her. Finally, Adrian says he can never remember her name when he wakes up, and this hurts her. Soon, Isadora becomes convinced that she’s pregnant, despite there being no signs, and she begins to long for a baby. She thinks maybe she’s trying to mother herself in the way she needs, and she repeats her name to remember who she is. Her own mother wanted her to “fly,” she thinks, but also prevented her from doing so. Isadora suddenly longs for Bennett and to be “ordinary”: a “good little housewife, that glorified American mother” (349). This would be safe, she thinks. However, it doesn’t take long for the fantasy to explode. Marriage was often lonely.
The next day, she and Adrian get drunk again, she feels better for a bit, and then she relapses into depression. She misses writing and realizes it is her typewriter that she loves. That night, Adrian invites another couple into their sex life. He wants to swap partners, but Isadora declines, prepared to outdo his stubbornness. She and the husband leave Adrian and the wife alone, and Isadora reveals that Adrian is trying to get her to “stop agonizing.” She says she tried to live out her fantasies, but one cannot live “in ecstasy” all the time; this doesn’t get one closer to finding real freedom.
Later, after admitting that having sex with the wife wasn’t really any good, Isadora asks Adrian why he bothered. He asks back, “Why not?” She accuses him of achieving a level of indifference that renders everything meaningless. The next day, he confesses that he didn’t really sleep with the woman, but Isadora doesn’t care either way. He accuses her of wanting to control him, and she tells him that his quest for freedom is nothing more than desperation. That afternoon, Isadora spots a daddy longlegs on Adrian’s chest, and she asks him to remove but not kill it. Instead, he plucks its legs off, one by one, torturing it. Isadora runs away from him. He accuses her of ruining the trip, and she says he can drop her off at the airport in Paris. She wishes he were the man she believed he was, but she is disappointed in him. Simultaneously, she knows she can never possess him, and that makes him sort of beautiful to her.
Many of Isadora’s allusions emphasize her feeling of powerlessness. She refers to psychodynamic therapy as “some sort of Catch-22” (27), an allusion to Joseph Heller’s 1961 novel of the same name, whose title became synonymous with lose-lose situations. Isadora goes to therapy for years, and when the analyst cannot help her, he tells her she needs to see another analyst for more treatment. Either way, she pays; either way, she suffers. It is never the analyst’s fault but always blamed on the analysand (the patient). She can’t win. In fact, the entire state of womanhood can be summed up as another catch-22: If Isadora chooses wife- and motherhood, she loses her independence; if she chooses to be an artist, she loses the stability marriage can provide and the social power that accompanies the conventional choice. She is powerless to make a satisfying choice because there isn’t one.
In another allusion, she compares herself to “Gulliver among the Yahoos” (102), referencing the titular hero of Jonathan Swift’s 1726 satirical novel Gulliver’s Travels, surrounded and horrified by grotesque humanoid hedonists. Like Gulliver, she feels alien and powerless. At another point, she wonders “whether [Bennett] enjoyed playing Henry Higgins to [her] Eliza Dolittle” (160). Here, Isadora references the 1964 film My Fair Lady adapted from the 1913 play Pygmalion by George Bernard Shaw, itself based on the Greek myth of Pygmalion and Galatea, in which a misogynistic sculptor creates a perfect woman with whom he falls in love. The allusion suggests that Bennett loves the idea of molding Isadora into his ideal woman rather than accepting her as she is. After she has sex with Bennett in front of Adrian, she compares herself to Pandora, “the woman who had brought about [men’s] fall” in Greek myth (199). Powerless Pandora was curious about the contents of the box Zeus gave to her, knowing she would open it, and she is henceforth blamed for releasing all evils into the world. Never mind that Bennett and Adrian have sought to manipulate Isadora, just as Zeus weaponized Pandora to punish Prometheus; she’s been their pawn, and yet she’s blamed, evidence of The Prevalence of Sexist Double Standards.
Likewise, when Adrian asks her for stories and she obliges to prevent his leaving her, she feels “like Scheherazade, amusing [her] king” (242), alluding to the One Thousand and One Nights, a collection of Arabic folktales united by a framing device in which a cruel king marries a succession of virgins, beheading each one on their wedding night. One of these brides, Scheherazade, forestalls her death by telling stories to entertain the king, beginning a new story each night and always leaving it unfinished until the next night, thus forcing the king to postpone her execution to hear each story’s conclusion. Unlike this king, Adrian won’t kill Isadora for failing to keep his interest, but the risk of his abandonment feels like death to Isadora (which utterly negates the allure of the freedom a life with him seemed to promise). She even compares herself to the Judeo-Christian Eve when she references Eden in her description of Brian’s “seduction” and her subsequent guilt. Finally, she alludes to Freud’s Oedipus complex, itself an allusion to the Greek myth of Oedipus, a king who unknowingly killed his father and married his mother. Of Brian and Charlie, she laments, “if only I could have combined them! Why do I always wind up with two men who would make one great man? Is that somehow the secret of my Oedipal problem?” (310). Her “Oedipal problem” implies an unconscious desire to sleep with her father. Her question suggests that this socially unacceptable desire has given rise to another: the desire for two men at once because only when combined can they satisfy her. This desire, for two men at once, is socially unacceptable because women are expected to be faithful, as Isadora repeatedly points out. Isadora is powerless to resist her Oedipal urges, and yet they are unacceptable to her society.
Isadora’s dynamism becomes obvious in this section, as she struggles to define Female Desire and the Pursuit of Autonomy. At one point, she tells Adrian, “It’s just that I want to really feel close to someone, united with someone, whole for once. I want to really love someone” (344). At this point in the novel, she equates wholeness with romantic union, implying that she does not yet feel whole in herself. When Adrian asks why she believes love fixes everything, she says, “Maybe it doesn’t […], but I want it. I want to feel whole” (344). She longs for an end to the fragmentation she has felt for so long, both within herself and in her relationships with men, and her new willingness to confront Adrian on his nonsensical ideas suggests that she does feel more complete in herself than she did in the early chapters. When Adrian accuses her of getting angry because she cannot control him, she retorts, “I just happen to have somewhat higher standards of what I want than you do. I see through your game […]. You said it about me […] and now I’ll say it back to you. It’s all desperation and depression masquerading as freedom […]. Even this trip is pathetic” (359). Isadora now sees that the freedom Adrian promised her is illusory. Adrian seems not to experience guilt, which suggests that he doesn’t care enough about anyone else to feel guilty for hurting them. This isn’t freedom, at least not the kind Isadora wants.
She now recognizes that Adrian is not the avatar of unbridled desire she imagined him to be: “The man under the bed can never be the man over the bed […]. They’re mutually exclusive. Once the man comes up from under he’s no longer the man you desired” (361). The “man under the bed” is an imaginary man, an object of fantasy who can exist only at a distance. Once he enters Isadora’s real, daily life, he reveals himself to be something other than the fantasy. Again, the discomfort this thought causes prompts her to switch from first-person to second, verbally distancing herself from the harsh, disappointing reality. She realizes that reality can never live up to fantasy. In another catch-22, she recognizes that she cannot sexually desire men and yet remain free of their sexist expectations. To lessen The Pervasiveness of Internalized Misogyny, she must engage in deep introspection alongside social criticism, understanding that the roots of her dissatisfaction with herself lie not in her own faults but in a patriarchal and sexist culture.



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