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P.S. Be Eleven

Fiction | Novel | Middle Grade | Published in 2013

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The Transition From Childhood to Adolescence

The title of the book, P.S. Be Eleven, is a reference to advice that Cecile offers her daughter Delphine during a summer visit to Oakland, California, and as a postscript in her letters to Delphine. The postscript is a reminder that despite Delphine’s intense emotions and adult responsibilities, she is still a child, albeit one on the cusp of becoming an adolescent. When the book opens, Delphine believes that it is her job to manage her sisters’ behavior, and she finds this role to be a source of power and a burden. On one hand, Delphine gains credit with her older family members because of this role, as is demonstrated by Pa and Big Ma’s willingness to leave her to manage her sisters alone during the trip to and from Oakland. In this role, Delphine can defy adults like the stewardess, who tells them to stay on the plane when they land. Her assertive actions show that she is willing to claim space for herself and her sisters in the public sphere despite Big Ma’s warning to the contrary.


Delphine’s comfort in that defiance changes as soon as she encounters Big Ma, who shames her for her behavior in the airport and even strikes her. In the past, Delphine accepted such abuse as just one of the aspects of being a child, but she now feels that holding in her humiliation over the slap is “the only power [she] ha[s]” (15). Thus, she is both powerful and powerless in relation to her sisters, the other children in the family. Delphine chafes against the restrictions placed on her and develops a growing awareness of the unfairness that comes from the power difference between adults and children.


Although the adults treat Delphine as a child, she does go through several rites of passage that bring her closer to adolescence. She sees the adults in her family as flawed when she recognizes that Darnell is struggling with substance use and questions her father’s less-than-sympathetic response. She also questions whether Cecile is the truth-teller she claims to be after Mr. Mwile reveals the African meaning of “Nzila.” Delphine defends her sisters when Pa refuses to replace the stolen money that they saved in order to buy Jackson Five tickets. By standing up to Pa and attending the sixth-grade dance, Delphine enters adolescence. Despite these milestones, however, Delphine spends much of the novel caught between the world of younger children and the world of adults.


The world of peers also influences Delphine’s identity. She struggles to fit in because she is different from her peers in many ways, from her height to Cecile’s physical absence from her life. Delphine is also slow to pick up on the shifting dynamics between the boys and girls at school. The shift from competition to attraction leaves her feeling that “the whole world had changed in an instant and [she] [i]s on the outside watching it change” (192). It is not until she completes the rite of passage of going to her first dance that she sees herself as part of that dynamic. The new way that she interacts with Ellis Carter shows that she now sees her identity as a girl in part through her connection to peers, a shift that frequently comes with adolescence. Between the shifts in peer relationships and family relationships, Delphine’s identity changes substantially by the end of the novel.

The Importance of Family Relationships

Delphine assumes that leaving Oakland and returning to New York will mark a return from “summer adventures” to the more orderly life that the sisters have known with Pa and Big Ma (2). However, she is disappointed by the big changes in the family’s status quo, and her understanding of her relationships with Pa, Marva, Cecile, Darnell, and even Big Ma changes significantly throughout the novel. Two of the central truths of Delphine’s life are that she has a mostly absent mother who is not always emotionally available and that Pa, by contrast, has always been her rock, the steady parent who built a home with his own hands to create a safe space for his family. In the past, Delphine “knew Pa had his stamp all over [her], and [she] was happy to grow in his shade” (18). However, the version of Pa that Delphine sees now is one who wears cologne, dresses more stylishly, sings songs, and misses dinner because he has a girlfriend whom he marries in short order.


Delphine feels displaced in his affections by Marva Hendrix, and she feels a deep sense of hurt and jealousy that only begins to go away when Marva exercises a softening influence on Pa’s restrictive attitude toward the girls. Not all change in the family is negative, as Marva’s interventions make the girls’ lives easier; she provides a counterweight to Pa and Big Ma’s conservative ideas about women, parenting, and the role of children. Marva also convinces Pa to let the girls buy tickets to the Jackson Five concert and helps Delphine see that Black women in particular can play a role in the politics of the day. Marva gifts Delphine her first real adult piece of clothing—a blue coat with rabbit fur—forcing family and friends alike to accept that Delphine is growing up.


Cecile, despite her physical absence, also plays a role in parenting Delphine indirectly through her letters to Delphine and her sisters. Cecile teaches her daughter to accept freedom from adult responsibilities by encouraging Delphine to “[b]e eleven” (46). Through her own absence, her belief that what happened between her and Pa is none of Delphine’s business, and the revelation that she has liberally interpreted the meaning of “Nzila,” Cecile teaches Delphine that parents and adults are flawed, complicated people who do not have all the answers.


Some of the biggest lessons that Delphine learns about the complications of family interactions come in relation to Darnell. The evolution of his relationship with family shows the powerful impact that uncontrollable external forces can have on family. Like Cecile, Darnell has been absent, but the Vietnam War is the force that has taken him away. He returns a changed man who has nightmares and outbursts that frighten the sisters, and his substance use disorder ultimately causes a break with the family. However, Pa’s unwillingness to extend grace to Darnell teaches Delphine about the complicated nature of family love, as she is forced to realize that the stable Gaither family is far more fragile than she believed it to be. She therefore concludes that “even love wears out” (189). Ultimately, Delphine learns that family can be a paradoxical space of both belonging and alienation.

The Influence of Black Power Politics

In P.S. Be Eleven, Delphine is finally able to see the importance of power in relationships between adults and children, and her insight comes from her previous exposure to Black Power, a movement defined by its assertion that Black people should feel pride in their racial identity and gain greater social power in order to represent the interests of Black people. For Delphine, the source of these ideas about power comes from her experiences with the Black Panthers, a group that was particularly active in 1960s Oakland, where the Gaither sisters spent the summer. While there is little contact with the Black Power movement in the Gaither home and neighborhood, Delphine and her sisters have learned the Panthers’ lessons of Black Power politics well, and many of their responses to others are fueled by their understanding that even children can show a measure of Black pride in public spaces and in their interactions with adults. The Gaither sisters ultimately use their perspective of Black Power in more personal spaces as well, challenging the long-held beliefs of their father and grandmother.


At the start of the novel, the Gaither sisters rely on their experiences with Black Power to resist various adults’ attempts to manage their behavior. For example, when the girls bolt from the airplane and the stewardess call them “Negro girls,” Vonetta replies that they are “black girls” (4), thereby rejecting the disparaging, conservative connotations of the first term and exhibiting the firm pride inherent in claiming the second term. Vonetta also claims that the bathroom stall for “the people” (5), and this is meant to be a reference to the Black Power idea that Black people as a racial community must disrupt the status quo in order to liberate themselves.


However, in a family ruled by the conservative mindsets of Pa and Big Ma, there is little room for the girls’ newfound Black Power beliefs. For example, Big Ma punishes Delphine for bumping into a white man at the airport, and this incident compels Delphine to change her previously respectful view of Big Ma. She reflects that Big Ma so “fear[s] white people and place[s] them up on a pedestal” that if the “Black Panthers […] had seen Big Ma, they would have called her a traitor to her people” (9-10). These harsh, judgmental words from the mind of an 11-year-old demonstrate how influential the Black Power movement has become to Delphine’s understanding of her family, her community, and the world.


Over the course of the novel, Delphine and her sisters expand their understanding of Black pride and power as they use its tenets about the nature of power to guide their interactions in their personal relationships. One of Delphine’s fears is that as the most dominant sibling, she is the oppressor of her sisters, and her suspicion is confirmed when her sisters defy Delphine over the use of the money in their savings jar and sing, “the giant is dead” (156). This is a reference to the children’s tale in which a boy named Jack manages to kill a giant, who is depicted as being much more powerful. This moment becomes a painful lesson for Delphine, as she realizes that every person has the potential to be both the oppressor and the oppressed. This new understanding is more nuanced than the lessons the girls learned in Oakland.


Delphine also applies the lessons of Black Power and pride more broadly to her developing understanding of Black female identity and feminism. This dynamic becomes clear when she wonders if Black politician Shirley Chisholm’s success at winning a Congressional seat in New York is “real power, like the Black Panthers, or […] just a taste of power” (207). Her reflections indicate that she understands the limitations of power within systems like the federal government. Her growing doubt that Black Americans and women can ever achieve real power within the American political system shows the enduring influence of Black Power on her identity but also reveals her increasingly insightful understanding of the true nature of power.

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