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Samantha sits with her sister Jeneva in the driveway of Grandma’s house, where her parents are living, having just arrived in California with her cat Pooter. She is exhausted and unprepared for what comes next. Jeneva instructs her to enter quietly and allow time for their mother to adjust to her presence. The concept of being “introduced” to her own mother troubles Samantha deeply.
When Jeneva asks about the escape room incident with Xavier, Samantha admits she liked him but resolves to focus on her mother, her new life, and her marketing job instead. She imagines that her mother will remember her, but when Samantha enters the living room, her mother continues watching TV with Grandma, showing no recognition whatsoever. Despite Jeneva’s introduction and Samantha’s gentle approach, her mother stares blankly at her daughter. When Samantha sits before her mother and reintroduces herself, her mother responds, “Who are you?” (73).
At the gym, Mike, Chris, and Jesse question Xavier about Samantha’s departure two weeks ago. He admits to avoiding them because he wasn’t ready to discuss her. When asked if he’s talked to Samantha, Xavier reveals he only texted to inquire about her safe arrival and her cat’s bowel movements, prompting criticism from his friends for this clinical approach.
Mike and the others encourage Xavier to pursue a long-distance relationship with Samantha, suggesting he take time off or reduce his volunteer time to visit her. Xavier dismisses these suggestions, citing his veterinary clinic responsibilities, lack of free time, and financial constraints, which include student loans and clinic payments.
While checking to see if Samantha has viewed his Instagram stories, Xavier discovers his estranged father has been monitoring his posts. This triggers memories of his parents’ attempt to reconnect through a family friend, who tried to guilt him into caring for them despite their past abuse. Xavier resolves to maintain emotional distance without actively blocking his father online.
Samantha stands with her grandmother outside the garage, surprised to find that the car she is expected to use is a teal 1966 Dodge Dart convertible, rather than something practical. Despite concerns about gas mileage and lack of air conditioning, Samantha accepts the vehicle after learning her mother loved and drove it throughout high school and college.
She decides to take her mother for a drive, hoping to spark her memory, but it proves disastrous. Her mother insists on driving, locks herself in, and begins backing toward the street before Samantha stops her.
The next morning, Samantha’s brother Tristan returns home, causing tension over living space. The family discusses household responsibilities and potential renovations to Grandma’s deteriorating house, agreeing to split costs. They also discuss looking for the family jewelry, which Lisa hid somewhere. During this conversation, Samantha receives a call from Xavier, who wants to visit her in California. She is surprised but happily agrees despite recognizing the impracticality of the situation.
Xavier arrives at the Los Angeles airport where Samantha waits for him in her blue convertible. Spotting her before she sees him, he immediately realizes that visiting her will be financially draining but emotionally worthwhile. When they embrace, he feels an overwhelming sense of contentment.
Xavier presents Samantha with cupcakes from Nadia Cakes, a place she loved in Minnesota. She appreciates the gesture and promises to take him to eat “the best burger you’ve ever had” (99). As they stand embracing in the airport pickup area, both are visibly delighted by their reunion despite the geographical challenges facing their relationship.
Samantha and Xavier sit at a tiny table at In-N-Out burger in Los Angeles. When asked about his burger, Xavier notes that it needed mustard, prompting Samantha to laugh. They discuss her social media work for Murkle’s Mustard, and Samantha explains that she’s waiting for the perfect brand collaboration opportunities now that the company has grown.
Xavier reveals that he canceled his weekend volunteer work to visit her, and they both acknowledge they don’t know what they’re doing by seeing each other despite living in separate parts of the country. They decide to visit Santa Monica, where Xavier experiences the ocean for the first time.
As they walk down the pier, Xavier holds Samantha’s hand and positions himself protectively between her and potential threats. Samantha reflects on how safe Xavier makes her feel. At the pier’s edge, they look out over the water together, and Samantha contemplates her mother’s condition, contemplating how memories fade backward and thinking that a peaceful final memory like this moment “wouldn’t be so bad” (104).
Xavier and Samantha ride the Ferris wheel at the Santa Monica Pier, with Samantha clinging to him in terror despite claiming she’s only afraid of falling, not heights. Xavier finds her fear amusing but enjoys comforting her. He reflects on how natural their connection feels, as though they’ve known each other for much longer than they actually have.
To distract Samantha from her fear, Xavier asks about her family. She describes her sister Jeneva, recently divorced after discovering her husband’s sex addiction, her wandering brother Tristan (talented but uncommitted), her hippie grandmother from Mexico, and her parents’ first meeting—her father gave her mother a ride after she broke her heel.
When they stop at the wheel’s peak, Samantha points out a riptide, explaining that fighting it leads to exhaustion and drowning—the only survival strategy is to let it carry you out. Xavier contemplates California’s differences from Minnesota and how sharply these new experiences with Samantha are embedding in his memory.
Samantha and Xavier sit on the Santa Monica beach after sunset, having spent the day exploring Venice Beach, getting ice cream, visiting the pier, and sharing seafood. Samantha reflects on Xavier’s attentiveness throughout their outing—finding shells for her, trading ice cream when she preferred his, and wrapping her in his towel when it got windy.
When Xavier asks about her mother’s condition, Samantha explains her history of concussions from cheerleading and car accidents. Xavier then shares the painful story of his childhood dog Winnie: Each time she had a litter of puppies, his father would drown them. Desperate for help, 12-year-old Xavier walked miles in the snow to a veterinarian who spayed her for free, a pivotal experience that inspired his career. Their conversation culminates in a passionate kiss.
They continue the kiss back at Samantha’s apartment over her grandmother’s garage until her air mattress deflates. Before they can rekindle the romance, Samantha hears cries from outside. They find Samantha’s mother tangled in an old piñata, hysterical and confused. After Xavier calms her mother, they discover that Samantha’s father is missing. The unsettling incident ends with them retreating to Xavier’s seedy hotel room, where despite the uncomfortable accommodations, they fall asleep holding each other.
Xavier wakes early, leaves sleeping Samantha, and returns with coffee and roses. They discuss plans to buy a mattress and visit the LA Zoo. At breakfast, they discuss her father’s mysterious absence and her mother’s dementia, reflecting on the profound loss of shared memories.
After breakfast, when Xavier opens an air vent in Samantha’s sweltering car, a torrent of dried avocado leaves suddenly erupts, followed by a petrified mouse that sends Samantha into hysterics. As Xavier tosses the mouse out the window, they alternate between laughter and disgust.
A passing motorist offers jumper cables, assuming they’ve broken down. As “Come On Eileen” coincidentally plays on the radio, they sit covered in leaves, laughing uncontrollably at the memory of their escape room experience. Xavier realizes that this bizarre moment is creating a meaningful shared memory that binds them, despite the impracticality of their relationship.
Samantha reflects on her day with Xavier, which included taking her nephews, Jeneva’s sons, to the zoo. They were thrilled by Xavier’s veterinary knowledge, and she observes his natural caretaking abilities, comparing him to a dad who anticipates everyone’s needs. After an eventful day and a lengthy dinner conversation, they return to the hotel near midnight, exhausted.
As they lie in bed talking, Samantha confronts the impossibility of their situation. Despite strong feelings, she explains that their relationship has no practical future—she cannot leave California while her mother needs her, and Xavier cannot abandon his veterinary practice and financial commitments in Minnesota. She points out that long-distance relationships typically have an endpoint when couples can reunite permanently, but for them, there is no endpoint in sight. She tells Xavier not to contact her again, believing a clean break will spare them greater pain later. With resignation, she drives him to the airport and kisses him goodbye.
Six weeks after returning from California, Xavier continues to adhere to Samantha’s request not to contact her but remains deeply affected by their separation. He isolates himself during lunch breaks at his clinic rather than socializing. Despite efforts not to, he checks Murkle’s Mustard’s Instagram for any connection to Samantha.
Xavier dismisses suggestions to date others, but his staff’s concern is evident when Maggie brings food and checks on his well-being. He contemplates the financial reality preventing relocation; he has $950,000 in business loans on a clinic worth no more than $700,000, meaning he would face crippling debt or bankruptcy if he tried to leave. Using Samantha’s riptide metaphor, he feels emotionally pulled out to sea, fighting the current and growing exhausted. Despite recognizing he should move forward, Xavier finds himself searching for veterinary conferences in Southern California, still seeking reasons to see her again.
These chapters develop The Interplay of Memory, Identity, and Connection through Lisa’s dementia and its effects on the family. When Samantha first reunites with her mother, Lisa’s inability to recognize her own daughter reveals the role memory plays in the foundation of relationships. This loss of memory doesn’t merely erase facts but unravels identity itself, both for Lisa and for those who love her. Samantha articulates this connection between memory and selfhood when she tells Xavier, “There is nothing more beautiful than being a witness to someone’s life […] Memories are everything” (135). The novel positions shared memory as the essence of intimate connection, where relationships grow “like a snowball rolling downhill, getting bigger as it goes” (136). Through Lisa’s condition, the text explores how the gradual erasure of memory constitutes a profound form of isolation that challenges fundamental human connections.
Physical distance and practical responsibilities create tangible barriers to connection between Xavier and Samantha despite their powerful attraction, further developing the theme of Reconciling Idealism With the Complexities of Reality as they face practical obstacles to their relationship’s development. Geography, professional obligations, and family duties constrain their relationship. Samantha recognizes that long-distance relationships only function “when there’s an end in sight” (145), which their situation lacks. This realistic portrayal of relationship constraints challenges romantic idealism, suggesting that sometimes timing and circumstances, rather than compatibility or desire, determine relationship outcomes.
The text also explores Navigating the Burdens and Sacrifices of Caregiving through both professional and familial relationships. Xavier’s veterinary practice parallels Samantha’s care for her mother, creating a thematic connection between different forms of vulnerability. When Xavier calms Lisa during her sundowning episode using a “bear hug” technique, his professional skills seamlessly transfer to human care. Similarly, Samantha observes Xavier’s natural caregiving abilities during their zoo trip, dubbing him “Airport Dad. The guy who plans everything and […] makes sure everyone gets to where they’re going and they have what they need” (142). This caregiving instinct stems from his own childhood deprivation, as he “didn’t have anyone on [his] side or anyone to protect [him]” (115). This reveals how past wounds can transform into strengths. The narrative suggests that caregiving requires both technical competence and emotional intelligence, qualities that define both protagonists.
Animals function as powerful symbolic devices throughout these chapters, simultaneously revealing character and catalyzing plot developments. Xavier’s childhood story about Winnie, whose puppies were drowned by his father until Xavier walked “two, three miles, in the snow” to have her spayed by a compassionate veterinarian (116), illuminates both his career motivation and his protective nature. The characters’ continued commitment to their animal relationships reveal character traits that might otherwise remain hidden—Xavier’s dedication, Samantha’s nurturing nature, and their shared desire to protect the vulnerable. Through these human-animal bonds, the narrative explores how compassion transcends species barriers and reveals essential aspects of human character.
Humor and shared experiences also act as mechanisms for connection between characters. Samantha and Xavier’s unexpected adventures—from the escape room disaster to the dried leaves and dead mouse erupting from the car’s dash vent—forge powerful shared memories. When “Come On Eileen” plays on the radio during this chaotic moment, referencing their escape room experience, it symbolizes how inside jokes and references become relationship currency. Samantha expresses this desire for shared context when she says she wants “someone who knows all my petty vendettas and they honor them no matter how out of pocket they are” (136). These humorous shared experiences create what Xavier recognizes as “a memory sticking to a very new and very small snowball” (141). The narrative suggests that these seemingly minor shared moments ultimately constitute the foundation of lasting bonds, creating the “witness to someone’s life” that Samantha so deeply desires (135).



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