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The Things We Do For Love

Fiction | Novel | Adult | Published in 2004

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Chapters 7-13Chapter Summaries & Analyses

Content Warning: This section of the guide includes discussion of pregnancy loss, child death, child abuse, emotional abuse, substance use, and sexual content.

Chapter 7 Summary

Angie drives to Help-Your-Neighbor House, an organization serving people in need. A woman there recognizes Angie and comments that working with the group has helped her through her own divorce. Then, Lauren walks in and requests a coat for her mother. She leaves her name and number. Recognizing her from the night before, Angie follows the girl, discovering where she lives and vowing to help. 


On Monday, Angie purchases coats for Lauren and her mother and drives to the apartment building, where she gives the clothing to Mrs. Mauk. When Angie leaves, she sees children outside without jackets and decides to run a coat drive at the restaurant.


At school, when David asks what color tuxedo he should get for homecoming, Lauren remembers that she has neither a dress nor the money to get one. All day, this thought haunts her. When she gets off the bus and is soaked by rain, she pauses to think of her dream home. Shaking off this wishful thinking, Lauren goes inside, only to find that the apartment is empty and that her mother has stolen her money.

Chapter 8 Summary

Lauren sits on the floor, devoid of hope. Then, her gaunt, once-beautiful mother bursts in. When Lauren confronts her about the money and how she needs a dress, her mother scoffs at her. Shocked that her mother can still hurt her, Lauren declares that her own life will be different. Moments later, Mrs. Mauk drops off the coats from Angie. Lauren marvels at the beautiful green jacket while her mother complains.


Lauren heads to DeSaria’s to thank Angie in person. When she enters the restaurant, the aroma and her hunger hit her before Angie says hello. After Lauren thanks her, she realizes that Angie is also the woman who gave her money, and she asks for a job. Angie needs a new waitress but asks Lauren to eat first. In the kitchen, she tells Mira that they must find another server and that there is a girl in the dining room who can do the job. Mira is convinced that their mother will never allow it and marvels at how much love her sister has to give. Then, Angie approaches her mother, who is resistant but eventually relents.


Angie hires Lauren to start the next day and welcomes her to the family. When Angie goes home to the empty cottage, she talks to her father. Suddenly, her mother appears and comments about how easy it is to talk to Angie’s father. She says that she knew Angie would have a hard night after hiring the girl, and she reminds her daughter that life will go on.

Chapter 9 Summary

Lauren arrives early to work and meets Maria, Angie’s mother, who disapproves of her. By the end of the night, Lauren realizes that she will not earn much money here. When Angie offers her dessert, Lauren notes that they hardly need another waitress. Angie disagrees because she plans to revive the restaurant. When she asks about Lauren’s family, Lauren shifts the conversation to Angie. Then, David arrives to pick Lauren up.


Another night, Lauren watches David excel as the Fircrest Academy quarterback. After the game, they learn that his father didn’t come—he is at a business meeting—and David pretends not to care. Later, while at the beach with friends, Lauren tries to comfort David, but he brushes it off and tells her that he loves her. She returns the words.


For days, Angie meticulously reviews menus and paperwork, considers promotions, and learns routines. When she accompanies Maria to the market, she observes that her mother always purchases the same things. Once alone, Angie interrogates the workers, learning more about food and how to build a menu. On Saturday, she is exhausted yet exhilarated. She and Lauren have dessert and talk about homecoming. When Angie offers to loan her a dress, Lauren declines. Talk shifts to David, which ignites Angie’s longing for Conlan.


David parks in front of Lauren’s building, and they spend some time kissing in his car. Before leaving, he gives her an application for Stanford, but Lauren insists that she will not get a scholarship there. When he expresses doubt about his acceptance, Lauren reminds him that a building on campus is named after his family. Later, Lauren wonders what it is like to have one’s dreams come true so easily.


The next morning, Angie has coffee at Mira’s house and shares her plans for the restaurant, including the coat drive, happy hours, date nights, and more. She also proposes an altered menu and increased prices. Mira knows that their father would have loved these ideas but that their mother will resist them. Mira suggests that Angie ask their mother’s advice as a way of getting her on board.

Chapter 10 Summary

Lauren remains worried about a homecoming dress. She can either borrow one from Angie or ask for an advance, but both options seem desperate. Meanwhile, Angie talks with her mother about a movie theater promotion. As she asks for advice, Angie slides a menu from another restaurant into view. When her mother sees it, she recalls her favorite Italian fish dishes, which Angie suggests making as specials. Lauren interrupts to say that she can work tomorrow.


Once Lauren leaves, Maria accuses Angie of changing the menu. When Angie notes that her father would approve, Maria admits that business has been good and that Lauren is a strong worker. This reminds Angie about homecoming, and she rushes to find Lauren. When she learns that Lauren still needs a dress, Angie insists that they get ready at her house tomorrow. Inwardly, however, she worries that she has overstepped and acted too much like a mother.


The next day, Angie picks up Lauren. When they get to the cottage, Lauren realizes it is just like her dream home and hugs Angie. After Lauren selects a pink dress, Angie does her hair and makeup, and Lauren gasps at the princess she sees in the mirror.

Chapter 11 Summary

Angie unearths an old camera, overcome with emotion as she photographs Lauren. When prompted, she shares her struggles to have children. David arrives, and after Angie snaps more photos, the couple leaves for the dance. Immediately, Angie feels alone. Her mother calls to check in, but as soon as she hangs up, Angie crawls into bed. She wakes hours later to her mother calling her name from downstairs. Maria shares that she lost a son and that it has always been too hard for her to talk about. Then, she warns Angie to be careful with Lauren.


The next morning, Lauren lies in David’s arms remembering their night. She imagines their future until David mentions Stanford. After he leaves, Lauren longs to tell her mother everything, but when she tries, her mother just goes back to sleep. Lauren goes to the cottage instead and, not finding Angie, decides to return the dress to her closet; when she turns on the bedroom light, she wakes Angie. Lauren apologizes, but Angie begs her to stay. When Lauren notices her puffy eyes, Angie admits that life can disappoint. After hearing about the dance, though, Angie feels better.

Chapter 12 Summary

Angie’s restaurant promotions work; the place is booked solid, and many diners share memories of Angie’s father. In the kitchen, Maria is flustered, having ruined some of the fish, but she also claims that change is good. The night is a huge success, and the DeSarias begin to dance. When Lauren tries to sneak out, Angie pulls her into their conga line.


Once home, Lauren sees cigarettes and beer bottles everywhere and hears a man in her mother’s bedroom. Safe in her room, Lauren remembers the night and reminds herself that Angie is just her boss. Despite this, Lauren admits that she finally feels like she belongs somewhere.

Chapter 13 Summary

Over the next month, Lauren keeps busy. One day, she and David talk with friends about a college presentation in Portland that weekend. Unfortunately, David cannot go, and no one can give Lauren a ride. David suggests that she ask Angie. All week, Lauren considers it and finally musters the courage to ask on Friday. Without hesitation, Angie agrees.


In Portland, Lauren takes copious notes, declaring at the end that USC is her top choice. Angie leads her to the USC representative and offers to help Lauren secure a recommendation from one of the deans. The representative also encourages Lauren to apply. Lauren, who is used to navigating everything on her own, is overcome with gratitude.

Chapters 7-13 Analysis

As Angie and Lauren’s relationship develops, the theme The Transformative Power of Love, particularly for Lauren, takes shape. Angie shows care in many ways: from cash to coats to a job. When Angie hires Lauren as a waitress and welcomes her to the family, she notices “tears in the girl’s brown eyes” but also that she “bolt[s] at the word family” (88). Both Lauren’s tears and her need to run reveal the visceral impact that being cared for has on her. The development of their relationship indicates the power of found family, suggesting that love can come from unexpected places when it is most needed. Parallels between Lauren’s response to David and her interactions with Angie underscore the depth of the women’s bond. When Lauren speaks of David, “Angie [sees] the transformation, [knows] what it mean[s]. Love” (97). Lauren looks like a different person when speaking about her boyfriend, and this physical change happens again while she is prepping for homecoming at Angie’s house: “Lauren launched herself sideways, threw her arms around Angie. Her smile was so big it swallowed her face, made her look about eleven years old” (108). Lauren’s burdens are temporarily lifted when Angie shows kindness to her, allowing her to exhibit sheer joy like a child would. This description contrasts with the mature and reserved persona that Lauren’s circumstances typically require. The power of love allows her to experience the happiness of being a child for the first time in her life.


Angie’s instincts to care for and protect Lauren also highlight the theme of The Quest for Maternal Fulfillment. Angie withholds advice about being careful with David because she realizes that “it [isn’t] her place. Such advice [is] for a mother to give” (98). Because she is not Lauren’s mother, Angie forces herself to keep quiet, but her urge to speak up demonstrates both how desperately Angie longs to care for a child and the maternal feelings she is developing for Lauren. Later, when she offers to loan Lauren a dress and help her get ready for homecoming, Angie thinks, “Getting a girl ready for a dance was a mother’s job” (107), wondering if it was a mistake to step in but unable to stop herself from making the offer. The juxtaposition of Lauren’s interactions with her mother and those with Angie reinforces this theme, as when Lauren wants to discuss the details of homecoming with her mother, who barely acknowledges her and goes back to sleep. Only hours later, the scene is recreated when Lauren wakes Angie up. However, instead of shooing the girl away, Angie tells her to “start talking” because she wants “to know everything” (123). The contrast between these interactions underscores that while Angie is not related to Lauren, she feels connected to her and is better equipped to care for her than Lauren’s biological mother. Lauren picks up on this when Angie comments on the dangers of drinking; Lauren notes “the gentleness of Angie’s advice. She [can’t] help thinking about her own mother and how she would have launched right now into her own regrets, chief among them being motherhood” (123). Such scenes establish Angie as a foil to Lauren’s mother, who had no difficulties becoming a mother but also no wish to be one.


Despite her burgeoning relationship with Lauren, Angie still avoids confronting the grief of her frustrated desires at all costs, and her struggle to move past her pain demonstrates the necessity of Embracing Grief To Heal. When Lauren comes over after homecoming, she notices that Angie has been crying, but Angie refuses to discuss the matter, however gently: “[S]ome things aren’t helped by talking. So tell me about the dance” (122). The “things” Angie does not want to discuss are her lost babies and her divorce, but by diverting the attention to Lauren, Angie allows her grief to fester. As a result, every time she is alone, she feels “herself slipping down a slope she [knows] too well; at the bottom it [is] lonely and cold” (115). This slippery slope represents her descent into despair and heartache. Instead of working through that pain, though, Angie tries to avoid it by keeping busy, listening to music, and being with people. Ultimately, to begin the healing process, Angie needs to face her grief head-on.

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