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Peter first met Don Covay while with the J. Geils Band, and he called him for a meeting years later to cowrite a song during his solo career. Don was enthusiastic about the idea, as he always was about music. Peter recalls how whenever they were together, Don talked about music, sounds, and everything he appreciated about it all. Peter and Don wrote the song “Lights Out,” originally titled “Dancing in the Dark” but changed because Bruce Springsteen released a song with that name around the same time. Don told Peter a story about how, if he followed a top act at a show, he would have to “pink ‘em” (the audience) in order to capture their attention. This meant dressing from head to toe in pink, because as Don put it, “women just love pink!” (296). In 1992, Don had a serious stroke and required a wheelchair for the rest of his life. He could not speak as well as he did before, but he and Peter remained close friends.
Peter never really wanted to be an actor and usually passed up the few chances he had. At one point, he was urged to audition for the role of Pontius Pilate in Martin Scorsese’s film The Last Temptation of Christ. Peter read for the role in a stiff and commanding voice and was told to come back later and to practice being more casual and like himself. Peter left and went to the washroom, where he ran into a “notable screenwriter and director” (302) who was masturbating and calling out the name of actor Bibi Andersson. Peter decided that acting definitely wasn’t for him, and left. David Bowie ended up playing the part of Pontius Pilate.
Peter received an offer to do a duet with Aretha Franklin, and while he was honored, he refused at first because he couldn’t see how it would work. Others convinced him to do it, and he flew to Detroit for the recording session. Meeting Aretha was initially anxiety-inducing, and she spoke in a British accent, which Peter learned was her Joan Collins imitation. After the initial recording session, Aretha warmed up to Peter quickly, and they began joking together. They also talked about King Curtis and Sam Cooke, whom Aretha called her first love. In 2005, at a tribute concert for Cooke, both Peter and Aretha performed. Everyone thought Aretha would perform “A Change Is Gonna Come,” but for some reason she refused. For this song, all the performers joined in, including Aretha.
Peter notes how challenging the creative process can be and how much more fulfilling it often was for him to collaborate with other artists. He collaborated with Tim Mayer on several songs and always found that Tim improved on what he (Peter) started. Peter also collaborated with and befriended Will Jennings, who on their first meeting invited Peter to drink through the night with him. They discussed music and poetry. Will and Peter wrote several songs together.
During a lunch, Peter spotted actor Rod Steiger and approached him to compliment his work. Rod went into a tangent about the lack of credit he receives for all his historic roles and lamented the depression that kept him from pursuing many of his goals throughout his life, saying, “It’s too late for me” (316). This became the title of one of Peter and Will’s songs. Will was always humble, and when he was inducted into the Songwriters Hall of Fame in 2006, Peter found him sitting by himself outside, reflecting and already thinking about what song to write next.
One of Peter’s most significant collaborations was with Merle Haggard, a “reclusive, moody, unpredictable, and legendary singer-songwriter” (318) who was initially difficult for Peter to reach. He fought to get in touch with Merle and eventually was introduced through a tour coordinator named Frank Mull. Peter met Merle on his tour bus, and they immediately began discussing the various versions of Merle’s recent recording. Merle and Peter generally agreed on what sounded good and what didn’t, and Peter wanted to do a duet for “It’s Too Late for Me” with him but didn’t have the chance to ask.
When he saw Merle again, he pitched a song, but Merle made no mention of wanting to record it together. Peter was left wondering if Merle was just going to use his song and leave him in the dust, but he stayed optimistic and set up a makeshift studio for a tour in Boston, hoping Merle would come to record the track. Eventually, Merle showed up, and the recording was exactly what Peter hoped. Afterward, Peter hung around as Willie Nelson, Ray Price, and Merle smoked cannabis. When Peter hears “It’s Too Late for Me” now, it reminds him of the long and winding connections that make up music history and compel creativity within people.
Collaboration takes center stage in this section, and music remains a central motif, symbolizing both passion and identity. The memoir portrays Don Covay’s unrelenting enthusiasm for music as an unstoppable force: He could talk about it endlessly, regardless of what was happening around him. More than a career, music was the very fabric of his being. This constant return to music, in the midst of different life events, underscores how deeply it shapes lives and relationships in Peter Wolf’s world.
One of the surprises in Peter’s journey, thematically underscoring The Joys and Pitfalls of Fame, was how humble many of the industry’s most successful figures could be. For example, he describes Will Jennings as approachable and hesitant to discuss his accomplishments despite his impressive repertoire. He never liked to flaunt his awards or boast about his success. Instead, Jennings represented a kind of quiet mastery, showing that true fame doesn’t require arrogance or performance; it can exist quietly through the work itself.
Thematically highlighting The Creative Drive Within Humans, the memoir describes how Peter and his collaborators created relentlessly. Don Covay’s boundless inspiration is evident in how he spotted song ideas everywhere and his enthusiastically coining phrases like “Pink em” to describe wearing pink to energize the women in the audience. In addition, however, Peter recognizes that the creative spirit has boundaries. His decision not to pursue acting reflects a clear understanding that his passion is music. He writes, “The creative process is a challenge that can at times be overwhelming. When you can’t find the words to express something, a collaborator is that rare individual who sparks ideas and helps lead you to what you’re trying to accomplish” (310). Collaboration, especially with figures like Tim Mayer, helped Wolf unlock ideas and improve his craft, showing him the value of songs made by two minds. Will Jennings’s comment, “It’s been a long day, and there are still many more songs to write” (317) demonstrates the never-ending nature of creativity.
The memoir emphasizes how music is the glue binding people together across time and space and how these connections reach across musical genres. For Peter, such connections extended to Merle Haggard, whose creative roots traced back to Johnny Cash’s influence. The collaborative effort behind “It’s Too Late for Me”—which Peter and Will wrote based on a quote by Rod Steiger and which Merle sang—illustrates how music links artists in a kind of emotional and creative scaffolding process. Peter reflects on this connectivity: “His voice connects me to a ‘long line’ that winds its way through music history, like a river running through time” (329). When he hears that song now, it not only reminds him of a piece of his past but symbolizes how creativity moves through people, places, and memory.
Throughout the memoir are descriptions of Peter’s experiences with major musical figures like Don Covay (one of the founders of R&B), Aretha Franklin (the “Queen of Soul”), and Sam Cooke (a soul artist whose songs often had political undertones). Peter’s comments emphasize how these giants of the past continue to shape the present. Collaborators like Will Jennings (a lyricist and recording artist) and Tim Mayer (a playwright and lyricist), along with artists like Merle Haggard (a major country artist) are part of a long line of people who inspired and influenced Peter’s creative life. Their stories intertwine with his, showing how one person’s drive can ripple outward and feed into a wider musical legacy.



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