50 pages 1-hour read

You Deserve Each Other

Fiction | Novel | Adult | Published in 2020

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Chapters 18-21Chapter Summaries & Analyses

Chapter 18 Summary

Over the next few weeks, Nicholas continues to be supportive, and Naomi commits to supporting him just as much. At first, she’s scared that her gestures will come off as corny and ridiculous, but with every one, Nicholas responds in kind, making them feel genuine. One day, she has myrtle flowers sent to his work because the flowers give vitality boosts in Nightjar. When Nicholas gets home, he’s smiling like Naomi’s never seen, and she thinks, “What a shame, to know I’ve been accepting anything less than this smile he’s giving me right now” (301).


Deborah texts to remind Nicholas he agreed to go to a board meeting for his father months ago. It’s seven hours away, so Nicholas invites Naomi to come with him. She can’t because she has a job interview. The day he leaves, Nicholas tells her to drive by the Junk Yard on her way to her interview. When she arrives, Naomi finds Leon’s car in the parking lot and discovers he plans to convert the store into a restaurant. He offers Naomi a job when it opens.

Chapter 19 Summary

Naomi can do whatever job she wants, but Leon specifically wants her to help with decorating. Leon confesses Nicholas knew about the restaurant and nudged Naomi to come by so Leon could offer her the job. Naomi texts Brandy to come over, and Leon also offers her a job. The three spend the rest of the day making plans for the restaurant, and Naomi is amazed that “for the first time in a long time, [her] future unfolds before [her] bright with promise” (317).


At home, Naomi feels alone and hates it. She texts Nicholas to tell him she misses him and then curls up in his bed to fall asleep, knowing she’ll be gone before he gets back. Later, she wakes to find him lying beside her—he drove home because he got her text and missed her too. They curl around each other and make love, whispering promises and reassurances.

Chapter 20 Summary

The first part of Chapter 20 is a flashback to the day Naomi and Nicholas met. Naomi was at a bowling alley for a retirement party for her dad, which her family was making miserable. Nicholas was there alone, so Naomi asked if she could hang out with him instead. The two have instant chemistry, and Nicholas asks her out, telling her he saw her at the store a few weeks ago and has been trying to find her again ever since. Naomi is speechless. She doesn’t know what to expect that night, but she knows she has to go out with him because “if I don’t, I think I’ll regret it” (331).


Back in the present, Naomi sneaks out of bed the next morning to grab breakfast. When she gets home, she finds the wedding invitations in the trash, which she takes as a sign Nicholas doesn’t want to be with her. She jumps in her car and speeds away, not stopping until she’s far out of town. After driving around all day, wondering why Nicholas threw away the invitations, she goes back into town and grabs dinner. Since she and Nicholas share a checking account, he gets a notification of the purchase, and she perches on the hood of her car to eat and wait for him. He arrives with a box of the wedding invitations. Naomi asks him to go away, but he pins her between himself and her car, looking deeply into her eyes with “need. Deep and burning” (338).

Chapter 21 Summary

Nicholas pulls an invitation from the box and shows it to her. It’s a gaudy affair with ribbons and fake pearls that instructs guests to come to the union of Deborah’s son. Nicholas says he threw them away because they don’t match anything he or Naomi wants, and their wedding shouldn’t be about his mother: “It should be about us” (343). Naomi agrees, and they spend the next several minutes balling up invitations and lobbing them at a nearby dumpster, missing most of the shots. Holding the last one, Naomi says, if she makes the shot, Nicholas has to marry her right now. Before she can throw it, Nicholas takes it, walks to the dumpster, and drops it in.


Six days later, Naomi and Nicholas get their marriage license. Driving home, they debate places to elope, including Alaska. Suddenly, they realize they can just get married in their backyard overlooking the forest and have their honeymoon at the house—all of which will be less expensive and more meaningful than their other ideas. On the day of their wedding, they invite only Leon and Brandy in addition to Naomi’s former boss, who’s officiating. As Naomi walks across the backyard, she thinks that there will be challenges ahead but that she’s ready to overcome all of them because she loves Nicholas and “he’s worth it” (352).

Chapters 18-21 Analysis

The novel’s resolution emphasizes both Nicholas and Naomi’s individual growth and their redemption as a couple, evidencing The Importance of Living Authentically. The board meeting in Chapter 18 highlights the ways that Nicholas has changed without sacrificing the best parts of himself. For example, he’s significantly cut back on his daily involvement with his parents, but he decides to attend the board meeting because he wants to honor a previous commitment. Nicholas’s friendship with Leon represents a reversal of his posture toward Naomi’s job at the beginning of the narrative. Although Nicholas knows about Leon buying the Junk Yard to convert into a restaurant, he’s been keeping it a secret so that Leon can surprise Naomi, demonstrating that he understands how important it is for her to find her own way. For Naomi, the restaurant represents the restoration of the identity she felt she lost when the Junk Yard closed. Taking a job with her friends that lets her be creative fulfills her personal goals. Nicholas’s recognition of its importance in her life signals that he sees, knows, and understands her.


Hogle includes a final twist at the end of her narrative that acts as a red herring—a moment of misdirection—that underscores the novel’s thematic interest in The Destructive Nature of Poor Communication in Romantic Partnerships. After Naomi and Nicholas have sex—a physical representation of their restored relationship—Naomi believes she and Nicholas will finally be okay, but when she finds the wedding invitations in the trash, her conviction wavers and she reverts to feelings of insecurity, believing that Nicholas has thrown away the invitations as a sign he doesn’t want to be with her despite all they’ve experienced. She runs because she feels betrayed and unable to communicate her hurt. However, rather than giving in to her previous tendency to withdraw, she chooses to wait for Nicholas, knowing she can’t outrun her emotions. Nicholas’s explanation about the invitations affirms this impulse and the work they’ve done to rebuild trust, providing the novel with its happy ending. 


The discarded wedding invitations serve as a symbol of Nicholas and Naomi’s desire to embrace their true selves. The old invitations, approved by Deborah, don’t represent who they are, either as individuals or as a couple. Nicholas’s choice to throw them away reflects his desire to start over, making their own decisions about their wedding. Nicholas intentionally dropping the last invitation in the trash symbolizes the culmination of their arc as a couple and reinforces The Power of Choice Versus Obligation. Their decision to get married in their backyard and honeymoon at their house demonstrates their commitment to celebrating in a way that’s personal and authentic to them.


Structurally, Hogle ends the novel in the same way she began it—pairing a flashback from early in Nicholas and Naomi’s relationship with a scene of them in the present. The juxtaposition demonstrates how far Nicholas and Naomi have come in their ability to communicate and care for each other. The flashback shows the day Naomi and Nicholas met and the immediate connection each felt to the other. Hogle emphasizes that the two have the same commitment to each other in the flashback as they do in the present, suggesting their relationship always had the potential to be so full of love, but they both stopped doing the necessary work to maintain it.

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