Big Girl Blitz follows Jazmyn "Jazz" Payne, a 30-year-old English teacher living in Richland, Maryland, as she navigates grief, self-discovery, and an unexpected romance during a transformative summer in her hometown.
Jazz dreads her annual visit to Chance, Virginia, the small town where she endured relentless bullying throughout middle and high school. On the drive, she talks with her best friends, Aaliyah James and Nina Ford, about her reluctance to date more than two years after divorcing her cheating ex-husband. She arrives expecting a quiet week with her aunt Addison "Addy" Payne, her closest confidant and lifelong role model, only to learn from Aunt Addy's longtime nurse, Monica, that her aunt has had a stroke and been transferred to a rehabilitation center. Jazz is devastated to find her once-vibrant aunt looking frail, though Aunt Addy maintains her sharp wit.
Overwhelmed and needing a distraction, Jazz visits a local sports bar, where Lamar Anderson, a man who says he works with professional football players, sits down beside her. They spend hours discussing football, and Jazz impresses him with her deep knowledge of defensive strategy. Their connection is interrupted when two women from Jazz's high school, including her former bully Olivia Chapman, approach and call Jazz by the cruel nickname "Jummy," a play on "Jumbo Jazmyn." In the parking lot afterward, townspeople make fatphobic remarks about Jazz, and Lamar confronts a man who makes vulgar comments. Jazz is deeply moved; no one has ever defended her in Chance before.
As Jazz visits Aunt Addy daily, her aunt pushes her toward "intentional happiness," the practice of creating joy wherever she is. The two women create personal lists of goals: Aunt Addy's includes dyeing her hair, getting a tattoo, and throwing a party, while Jazz's includes writing a novel, learning to swim, getting a belly piercing, attending a Monarchs football game, and paying off her student loans. Aunt Addy insists Jazz go out with Lamar.
On their first date, Lamar takes Jazz to his neighboring hometown of Spring Hill, where they visit a bookstore, explore shops, and have brunch. Jazz reads Lamar's business plan for a program to educate incoming professional athletes on financial literacy and career management, and she offers detailed suggestions. They discover they both live in Maryland, about an hour apart. On their second date, Lamar brings Jazz to his private spot by the river, where emotional vulnerability leads to their first kiss and a passionate encounter. Afterward, Lamar warns that his demanding schedule will limit his availability, and Jazz interprets this as a signal that he is too busy for a relationship.
Aunt Addy returns home on hospice, and Jazz extends her stay through the summer. Together they work through Aunt Addy's list: dyeing her locs vibrant blue, having a spa day and photoshoot, enjoying a picnic at the botanical gardens, and more. Jazz retreats from her friendships, feeling guilty about finding happiness while her aunt is dying, and communicates with Lamar primarily through a shared document where they collaborate on his business plan. Aunt Addy confronts her about isolating herself, insisting Jazz deserves happiness and should not let grief prevent her from living: "You have such a bright future ahead of you. There's so much you've yet to do, and you can't let me dying be the reason you don't live your life."
Jazz reconnects with Lamar after he returns from a trip to Dubai, where he lost his phone in the ocean. He sends her the leather journal she had admired at the bookstore, with a card reading, "A place for all the stuff you don't say." They resume regular phone calls, and Jazz invites Lamar as her date to Aaliyah's 30th birthday party back in Richland. They reunite physically and emotionally, and Lamar reveals that he is not merely someone who works with athletes but a defensive tackle on the practice squad for the Maryland Monarchs, the professional football team Jazz has followed her whole life. He explains that he downplays his role because being on the practice squad falls short of what his late father envisioned for him.
When the Monarchs' starting defensive tackle sustains a severe knee injury, Lamar is elevated to the active roster as the first-string starter. He plays brilliantly, earning the nickname "Hollywood" and national attention. Jazz sends him inspirational pregame messages before every game, a ritual he credits with helping him prepare mentally.
A group photo from Aaliyah's party goes viral, and commenters attack Jazz's body, questioning whether she deserves to be with an attractive, successful athlete. The scrutiny mirrors the bullying Jazz endured in Chance and triggers intense anxiety. An anonymous account impersonates Jazz online, and Lamar's ex-girlfriend Milan posts a video claiming she and Lamar might reconnect. Jazz asks Lamar to publicly deny their relationship to shield them both.
After an intimate evening at Lamar's townhouse, Jazz tells him she wants to be in a relationship. A pause follows before her phone rings with news that Aunt Addy has declined sharply, and Jazz rushes to Chance without getting a response. Later, Lamar explains that he was thinking, not hesitating out of disinterest, afraid his demanding schedule would cause him to fail her. Despite their unresolved status, he consistently demonstrates his love through actions: sending flowers, secretly paying for the reconstruction of Jazz's beloved gazebo at the Chance library, and covering her rent through the end of the year.
Aunt Addy dies peacefully at home on an early Monday morning in October, with Jazz, her parents, and Monica present. She leaves Jazz three sealed letters with timed instructions. The first reveals that Aunt Addy planned her own memorial as a "farewell party," a celebration of life. The service draws a massive crowd. The second letter reveals that Aunt Addy spoke privately with Lamar and confirmed he loves Jazz, urging Jazz to stop being afraid: "It doesn't have to be perfect to be right. Perfectionism is a flawed way to move through an imperfect world."
Jazz learns that Lamar lost the September Defensive Player of the Month award, and a $50,000 contract bonus, because an online campaign urged voters to reject him over his perceived relationship with her. She attempts to end things to protect his career. Lamar refuses, telling her he has no plan for losing her. Jazz tells him she loves him, and he finally says it back, revealing that the gazebo, the rent, and the journal were all expressions of love he made before he could say the words.
Inspired by her aunt's voice in a dream and encouraged by Nina's football metaphor to "blitz," meaning to execute organized disruption, Jazz attends a Monarchs home game. She discreetly scatters a vial of Aunt Addy's ashes on the field, fulfilling her aunt's wish. After the game, Jazz tells Lamar she is done hiding, and he kisses her publicly in the stadium. Jazz posts a statement addressing the fatphobic harassment, declaring she will not let others' projections about her body control her life. Lamar posts a photo of them captioned "Mine."
By New Year's Eve, Jazz has completed nearly every item on her list. She opens Aunt Addy's final letter, which includes $30,000 to pay off her student loans and a charge to publish her novel and leave teaching. Jazz reflects on her aunt's closing words: "Never stop fighting for what you want. Never stop fighting to be free. Never stop fighting for love. Never stop fighting for Jazmyn." Lamar tells Jazz he wants "the whole thing" with her: marriage, children, and a life together. Jazz prepares to ring in the new year carrying her aunt's legacy of intentional happiness forward.