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Love, Mom

Fiction | Novel | Adult | Published in 2024

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Part 2, Chapter 32-Part 3, Chapter 49Chapter Summaries & Analyses

Part 2: “Twenty-One Years Ago” - Part 3: “Now”

Part 2, Chapter 32 Summary: “Ben”

Content Warning: This section of the guide includes discussion of illness, death, child death, child sexual abuse, emotional abuse, physical abuse, suicidal ideation, addiction, and substance use.


Twenty-one years earlier, Ben paces around Tonya’s lake house, worried that Elizabeth Dunn knows about their affair, which has been going on for months. Although Ben had wanted to break up with Elizabeth, Tonya insisted that they stay together, desperate for revenge on Elizabeth. Tonya claims that Elizabeth killed three boys in a barn fire because she was jealous that a boy chose Tonya over her.

Part 2, Chapter 33 Summary: “Ben”

Tonya claims that Elizabeth is capitalizing on her painful memories through her novels and believes that she is owed money as a result. She convinces Ben to marry Elizabeth before her first novel is published so that he has access to her profits. Ben wants to be with Tonya but is anxious about the responsibilities that come with being a father. Tonya promises him that she will take care of everything.

Part 2, Chapter 34 Summary: “Ben”

Elizabeth appears at Tonya’s cabin, having followed them from the airport where she dropped Ben off after he claimed to be visiting his mother. She breaks up with Ben angrily. Elizabeth’s anger causes her to go into labor. Ben tries to take Tonya’s car to drive Elizabeth to the hospital, but Tonya insists that it’s too far and that Elizabeth needs to have the baby at the cabin.

Part 2, Chapter 35 Summary: “Ben”

Tonya explains that if Elizabeth delivers the baby at a hospital, she will prevent Ben from ever seeing it and will refuse to marry him. She insists on delivering the baby at the cabin and then keeping Elizabeth there until she agrees to make a deal with them about her future earnings. The labor is difficult, and although the baby is born healthy, Tonya worries that Elizabeth might die. Ben drinks heavily to numb his feelings.

Part 2, Chapter 36 Summary: “Ben”

Tonya’s familiarity with childbirth and caring for a newborn confuses Ben, but he allows her to take the lead. Tonya acknowledges that something is wrong with Elizabeth, who can barely speak or move, but refuses to take her to the hospital. She insists that Ben learn to care for the baby so that she can go into town to collect the clothes, diapers, and supplies that Elizabeth has purchased. Ben honors Elizabeth’s earlier decision to name the baby Mackenzie.

Part 2, Chapter 37 Summary: “Tonya”

Tonya grows increasingly annoyed with Ben, whom she considers useless beyond his connection with the now seriously ill Elizabeth. She considers telling Elizabeth the truth about the barn fire: that she convinced her boyfriend Brandon’s two best friends to assault her and that she later drugged Brandon and the others when she learned that he joined in the assault. Although she saw Elizabeth start the fire, she has no proof of it, as she claimed.

Part 2, Chapter 38 Summary: “Tonya”

The narrative reveals that Tonya killed the prior owner of the cabin, an older woman she was caring for. Throughout her relationship with Ben, Tonya has been focused solely on exacting revenge on Lizzy. She travels into town, passing a sign with a picture of a giant garfish, an aggressive type of fish living in the lake. While sneaking into Elizabeth’s apartment, the superintendent, Grunger, whom she previously had sex with to access the apartment, stops her.

Part 2, Chapter 39 Summary: “Tonya”

Tonya reluctantly has sex with Grunger to access Elizabeth’s apartment, as she has been doing for months, to move things around and make Elizabeth feel like she is losing her mental stability. She makes a mental note to report his drug dealing to the police to get rid of him. Inside the apartment, she steals the manuscripts for Elizabeth’s two novels-in-progress and fantasizes about what it would be like to be her.

Part 2, Chapter 40 Summary: “Tonya”

Elizabeth’s agent calls the apartment, and Tonya answers. Tonya quickly realizes that the agent has never heard Elizabeth’s voice or seen her in person. The agent explains that Elizabeth has been granted a two-book deal and a hefty advance and asks if she can fly to New York to iron out the details. Tonya decides to steal Elizabeth’s identity and fly to New York herself. She considers how to get rid of Elizabeth.

Part 2, Chapter 41 Summary: “Tonya”

When Tonya returns to the cabin, she sees that the powerful sedatives she has been giving Elizabeth have succeeded in keeping her calm and in bed. Ben insists that they take her to a doctor, but Tonya claims that the most important thing is getting the baby registered. She dyes and cuts her hair to look more like Elizabeth to steal her identity.

Part 2, Chapter 42 Summary: “Ben”

Ben quickly grows miserable with the new arrangement. He cares for the baby while Tonya runs errands and spoon-feeds Elizabeth, who has recovered physically but is still mentally incapacitated. Tonya insists that they need Elizabeth to make money and reveals her plan to step into Elizabeth’s life and act as Mackenzie’s mother. Ben is disturbed by her physical resemblance to Elizabeth after dying her hair.

Part 2, Chapter 43 Summary: “Ben”

Ben and Tonya drive into town and find the police arresting Grunger. Tonya registers Mackenzie at the local hospital, acting as Elizabeth. She calls Ben’s parents and arranges for them to help with the baby while she is in New York securing the book deal. When Ben asks what Tonya plans to do with Elizabeth, Tonya insists that she is Elizabeth. Ben is disturbed when Tonya explains she plans to get rid of the real Elizabeth.

Part 2, Chapter 44 Summary: “Ben”

Tonya flies to New York, leaving Ben in charge of Mackenzie and Elizabeth. Disturbed by Tonya’s threat to get rid of Elizabeth, Ben attempts to take her to the hospital. However, Elizabeth refuses to get out of bed, and Ben eventually gives up. He goes for a swim in the lake, hoping that the legendary garfish will kill him. The sound of Mackenzie cooing at him convinces him to follow Tonya’s plan to secure their happiness.

Part 2, Chapter 45 Summary: “Ben”

When Tonya returns from New York, Ben is disturbed to find that she plans to live as Elizabeth. The two return to the lakeside cabin to find that Elizabeth has left her room and written mostly incoherent sentences on scrap paper. To Ben’s relief, Tonya suddenly decides that they can keep Elizabeth—whom she now calls Tonya—alive, as long as she continues to write stories for them to publish.

Part 3, Chapter 46 Summary: “Mackenzie”

With Dianne’s help, Mackenzie realizes that Tonya replaced her mother at some point after her birth. EJ assures her that since her “mother” (Tonya) is dead, there is no way for her to prove her true identity. Mackenzie realizes that the only way to find out if her biological mother is still alive is to confront her father. EJ warns her not to push him too hard in case he tries to have her committed to a psychiatric hospital.

Part 3, Chapter 47 Summary

When Mackenzie returns home, she finds her grandmother Evelyn, her mother’s literary agent, and the mystery man from the funeral arguing with her father. The mystery man warns Ben that he will soon be caught out and leaves. The literary agent quickly follows him after ordering Ben to settle his affairs. When Mackenzie asks her for an explanation, her grandmother dismisses her concerns, raising Mackenzie’s suspicions.

Part 3, Chapter 48 Summary

Mackenzie’s grandmother leaves her alone with Ben, who insists that the mystery man is a nobody trying to take advantage of Elizabeth’s death by spreading lies. Mackenzie attempts to point out the photo of him on the wall but finds that it is gone. Her grandmother returns with wine and attempts to get Mackenzie to drink. Mackenzie suspects that her grandmother may have been in control of everything.

Part 3, Chapter 49 Summary

Evelyn forces Mackenzie to drink wine, insisting that she needs it to handle this grown-up conversation. She claims that Tonya was Ben’s affair partner who began stalking Elizabeth and acting as her in their college town. She explains that Tonya died in a car crash shortly after the affair ended. Mackenzie knows that this can’t be true, as Dianne identified the woman in the photo as Tonya. Before she can explain, she passes out.

Part 2, Chapter 32-Part 3, Chapter 49 Analysis

In this section of Love, Mom, Xander builds narrative tension as the novel moves back and forth in time and moves between narrators. In Part 1 of the novel, the events of the past are narrated exclusively through Elizabeth’s letters. Because these letters are written to her daughter with the expressed purpose of describing how Tonya and Ben have harmed her, they have a distinct perspective, presenting both characters as malicious and manipulative and solidifying Elizabeth’s experience with The Complex Nature of Grief and Trauma. Part 1 ends on a cliffhanger as Dianne Jacobson, the former housekeeper at Keller Foster Care, reveals that the woman in Mackenzie’s photo is not Elizabeth but Tonya.


In Part 2 of the novel, which takes place 21 years earlier, the author continues to build tension with the introduction of Ben’s and Tonya’s perspectives, which are written in a distinctly different tone. Ben’s narration is less sophisticated than the chapters that Mackenzie narrates or the letters from Elizabeth: In his first chapter, the use of slang such as “shady” and “fire” reflects this immature perspective. Ben also takes Tonya’s explanations at face value, such as when he believes her claim that the lake cabin was given to her by a relative who “died and willed the cabin to her” (175). This unsophisticated, naïve narrative persona offers a stark contrast and juxtaposes Mackenzie’s narration and Elizabeth’s letters. Ben’s chapters also help build tension in the narrative by suggesting that he might not have been as active in the plot as Elizabeth’s letters suggest.


In Chapter 37, the narrative switches from Ben’s perspective to Tonya’s perspective, and the narrative tone changes once again. While Ben believes that Tonya is in love with him, the opening lines of Tonya’s first chapter claim that she wants to “bash his skull in” (196). Later in the same chapter, she pretends to cry to convince him to kidnap Elizabeth and make him “feel manly and supportive” (198). Tonya’s chapters represent another distinct change in narrative tone, as the novel moves from Ben’s slangy, simplistic narration to Tonya’s sharp, aggressive tone. The narrative also reveals in this chapter that Tonya encouraged the boys to assault Elizabeth and that, although Elizabeth started the fire, Tonya was the one who locked the barn door to ensure that the boys died. The depiction of Tonya in these chapters as aggressive and manipulative adds tension to the novel, as it suggests that Elizabeth’s letters do not contain the whole truth.


Part 3 of the novel moves back to the present, and in this section, Xander builds tension through dramatic irony, or the fact that the reader knows more than Mackenzie. Although Mackenzie knows that the woman who raised her is not her mother, she does not know, as the reader does, that Tonya and Ben kidnapped Elizabeth and that Tonya stole her identity—the latter of which will soon further expose The Fickle Reality of Literary Fame for Mackenzie. The rest of the novel is narrated from Mackenzie’s perspective as she attempts to uncover the mystery of her mother’s true identity.


This section also adds depth to the character of Ben, Mackenzie’s largely absent father. In doing so, Xander continues to thematically develop Nature and Nurture in Personal Development by demonstrating how his alcohol addiction began and impacts other characters, including his daughter. The novel’s introduction to Ben explains that he is experiencing “withdrawal” because his mother has started controlling his “too-early-in-the-day intake of booze” (7). Elizabeth claims that her father “has drinking down to a science, the perfect formula being not to pass out” (62). Elizabeth displays no compassion for her father’s experience with addiction and resents what she perceives as his lack of control in his life, which has affected her upbringing, specifically his inability to effectively parent and nurture. Part 2 of the novel, however, complicates Elizabeth’s judgment of her father by suggesting that Ben begins drinking because of the trauma of Elizabeth’s pregnancy and Tonya’s abuse of them both. He begins drinking “in hopes of drowning out” the sounds of Elizabeth giving birth in Tonya’s cabin (190). He longs to “drown in whiskey until [he’s] sick […] from booze and not the horrible sounds coming from the bedroom” and to “pass out and forget about what’s happening in this cabin” (190). Ben’s next experience drinking to excess is when Tonya warns him that she plans to “get rid of” Elizabeth (225). Ben’s drinking inspires “paranoia” and “terror” about what Tonya is willing to do to get revenge on Elizabeth. These episodes demonstrate that Ben’s alcohol use is closely related to the traumatic events of his past, further emphasizing how the complex nature of grief and trauma affects him too.

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