So Long a Letter

Mariama Ba

53 pages 1-hour read

Mariama Ba

So Long a Letter

Fiction | Novel | Adult | Published in 1979

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Character List

Meet the key characters, with insights into their roles, motivations, and relationships—spoiler-free.

Major Characters

Ramatoulaye is a devout Senegalese Muslim woman and a teacher who has recently been widowed. She is the mother of twelve children and spends her isolation processing the emotional fallout of her husband's earlier decision to take a second wife. Though generous and thoughtful, she possesses a rebellious streak and firmly believes in education and female empowerment within her changing society.

Key Relationships

Best Friend of Aissatou

Wife of Modou

Mother of Daba

Mother of Young Aissatou

Co-wife of Binetou

Pursued by Daouda Dieng

Sister-in-law of Tamsir

Aissatou is Ramatoulaye's outspoken, direct best friend. The daughter of a humble goldsmith, she defies caste traditions by marrying into an aristocratic family. She works as a teacher before eventually taking a position at the Senegalese Embassy in the US. She serves as an emotional anchor and source of constant encouragement for Ramatoulaye.

Key Relationships

Best Friend of Ramatoulaye

Former Wife of Mawdo

Former Daughter-in-law of Aunty Nabou

Modou is Ramatoulaye's husband, a tall, athletically built man who studied law in France before becoming a prominent figure in the local trade union. Initially a romantic and tender partner, his choices later in life fracture his family and severely test Ramatoulaye's devotion.

Key Relationships

Husband of Ramatoulaye

Husband of Binetou

Father of Daba

Father of Young Aissatou

Brother of Tamsir

Best Friend of Mawdo

Supporting Characters

Mawdo is a successful local doctor descended from a prominent, royal Senegalese family. He deeply loves Aissatou and defends their marriage against his family's class prejudices. However, he remains heavily influenced by his traditional mother, creating severe tension in his personal life.

Key Relationships

Former Husband of Aissatou

Husband of Young Nabou

Best Friend of Modou

Aunty Nabou is Mawdo's mother and a proud descendant of Senegalese royalty. Snobbish and highly traditional, she believes women do not need extensive education and firmly objects to her son's marriage to a goldsmith's daughter. She actively schemes to preserve her family's royal lineage and exert control over her son's household.

Key Relationships

Mother of Mawdo

Former Mother-in-law of Aissatou

Adoptive Mother of Young Nabou

Sister of Farba Diouf

Young Nabou is Aunty Nabou's niece and namesake. She is raised under strict, traditional control to become a midwife. Polished and obedient, she fulfills the expectations placed upon her by her adoptive mother and steps into the role she was explicitly molded for.

Key Relationships

Adopted Daughter of Aunty Nabou

Second Wife of Mawdo

Daughter of Farba Diouf

Binetou is a shy, beautiful young woman who goes to school with Ramatoulaye's eldest daughter, Daba. Pressured by her impoverished mother, she enters a polygamous marriage with an older man to secure her family's financial future. She is presented as a victim of a system that treats young women as commodities.

Key Relationships

Second Wife of Modou

Co-wife of Ramatoulaye

Former Friend of Daba

Daughter of Lady Mother-in-Law

Daouda Dieng is a charming, well-kept man and an early suitor of Ramatoulaye. He serves as a deputy in Senegal's National Assembly. He presents himself as progressive and frequently engages Ramatoulaye in political debates about feminism, though his personal reactions sometimes contradict his public ideals.

Key Relationships

Former Suitor of Ramatoulaye

Favored Suitor of Rama's Mother

Young Aissatou is a responsible, caring daughter named in honor of her mother's best friend. She takes over running Ramatoulaye's household tasks. She represents the modern generation of Senegalese women, experiencing new freedoms while still seeking her mother's guidance.

Key Relationships

Daughter of Ramatoulaye

Daughter of Modou

Courted by Ibrahima Sall

Daba is Ramatoulaye and Modou's eldest daughter. Fiercely protective of her mother, she reacts with intense anger to her father's betrayals. She belongs to a newer, more egalitarian generation and boldly challenges the traditional patriarchal structures that harm her family.

Key Relationships

Daughter of Ramatoulaye

Daughter of Modou

Former Friend of Binetou

Tamsir is Modou's older brother. He already has three wives whom he struggles to support financially. Entrenched in patriarchal traditions, he presumes authority over Ramatoulaye's future following his brother's passing.

Key Relationships

Brother of Modou

Brother-in-law of Ramatoulaye

Associate of The Imam

Lady Mother-in-Law is Binetou's grasping, impoverished mother. She views marriage purely as a means to elevate her family's social and financial status, actively pushing her daughter into an arrangement that secures her own comfort.

Key Relationships

Mother of Binetou

Mother-in-law of Modou

The Imam is the local Islamic religious authority. He represents the traditional, patriarchal religious structure of the community, frequently accompanying Tamsir and Mawdo to deliver news and enforce cultural expectations upon women.

Key Relationships

Religious Leader to Ramatoulaye

Companion of Tamsir

Ibrahima Sall, also known as Iba, is a patient and kind law student. He belongs to the modern generation of Senegalese men, demonstrating a willingness to support and respect the women in his life.

Key Relationships

Romantic Interest of Young Aissatou

Acquaintance of Ramatoulaye

Jacqueline is a Protestant woman from the Ivory Coast who defies her parents to marry a Senegalese Muslim. Her husband's chronic infidelity causes her immense distress, serving as a cautionary tale for Ramatoulaye about the psychological toll of marital betrayal.

Key Relationships

Friend of Ramatoulaye

Wife of Samba Diack

Samba Diack is a Senegalese Muslim man married to Jacqueline. His chronic unfaithfulness severely impacts his wife's mental health.

Key Relationships

Husband of Jacqueline

Farba Diouf is Aunty Nabou's brother, residing in their ancestral village. He adheres to traditional family obligations, willingly giving his daughter to his sister to be raised.

Key Relationships

Brother of Aunty Nabou

Father of Young Nabou

Ramatoulaye's mother is a perceptive woman who mistrusts Modou's slick demeanor. She prefers the stability and standing of Daouda Dieng, though her daughter rejects her advice.

Key Relationships

Mother of Ramatoulaye

Mother-in-law of Modou

Supporter of Daouda Dieng