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The Book of Joy: Lasting Happiness in a Changing World

Nonfiction | Book | Adult | Published in 2016

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Book Club Questions

General Impressions

Gather initial thoughts and broad opinions about the book.


1. Which aspects of the friendship between the Dalai Lama and Archbishop Tutu most influenced your experience of reading The Book of Joy?


2. The book distinguishes between fleeting happiness and enduring joy. Has this distinction changed your understanding of what it means to live joyfully?


3. How does The Book of Joy compare to other spiritual works, like the Dalai Lama’s The Art of Happiness or Thich Nhat Hanh’s Peace Is Every Step? What unique insights does this interfaith dialogue offer?

Personal Reflection and Connection

Encourage readers to connect the book’s themes and characters with their personal experiences.


1. Which of the eight pillars of joy resonated most strongly with you, and why?


2. Recall a time when what seemed like a setback in your life eventually led to unexpected growth or joy, similar to how the Dalai Lama viewed his exile from Tibet as opening up new opportunities.


3. Archbishop Tutu shares several stories of forgiveness from his work with the Truth and Reconciliation Commission. What lessons might you apply to situations requiring forgiveness in your own life?


4. In what specific ways could you develop the “mental immunity” discussed by both spiritual leaders?


5. Did the work’s claim that focusing on others’ well-being can reduce one’s own suffering resonate with your own experiences?


6. The concept of Ubuntu emphasizes interconnectedness with others. Does your sense of connection to community contribute significantly to your experience of joy? Why or why not?

Societal and Cultural Context

Examine the book’s relevance to societal issues, historical events, or cultural themes.


1. What insights do you gain from the book’s interfaith dialogue on suffering and joy? What does the work posit (explicitly or implicitly) about the role of interfaith dialogue in contemporary societies?


2. The book suggests that modern society’s focus on material values cannot bring peace of mind. Where does it suggest this focus comes from, and what other factors might be at play?


3. How do the Dalai Lama’s and Archbishop Tutu’s experiences with systemic injustice bolster their credibility when speaking about finding joy amid adversity?

Literary Analysis

Dive into the book’s structure, characters, themes, and symbolism.


1. The book is structured as a “three-layer birthday cake” that combines teachings on joy (5), scientific research, and personal stories. What effect does this structure have on the reader’s experience? What role does each kind of evidence or argumentation serve?


2. What purpose does the frequent humor and banter between the two spiritual leaders serve in illustrating the book’s core teachings?


3. Consider how the division of the eight pillars between mind qualities and heart qualities enhances the reader’s understanding of joy.


4. What makes the metaphor of “mental immunity” effective in explaining resilience?

Creative Engagement

Encourage imaginative and creative connections to the book.


1. If you were to create a ninth pillar of joy based on your own experience, what would you name it, and why?


2. Design your own daily “joy practice” incorporating elements from the book but tailored to your specific life circumstances.


3. Imagine hosting a small dinner gathering with the Dalai Lama and Archbishop Tutu. What questions would you ask them about finding joy in today’s world?

 

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