Plot Summary

Yinka, Where Is Your Huzband?

Lizzie Damilola Blackburn

Yinka, Where Is Your Huzband?

Fiction | Novel | Adult | Published in 2022

Plot Summary

Yinka Oladeji is a 31-year-old British-Nigerian operations manager at the investment bank Godfrey & Jackson. At her younger sister Kemi's baby shower, Aunty Debbie, her mother Tolu's younger sister, hijacks the family prayer to deliver a prolonged plea for God to bring Yinka a husband, humiliating her publicly. The pressure mounts when cousin Rachel announces her engagement to her long-term boyfriend, Gavesh, and Ola, Aunty Debbie's daughter, calls Yinka closed-minded for refusing a setup with a tenant named Alex.

Unable to sleep, Yinka reflects on her breakup with Femi, her only boyfriend, who left her nearly three years earlier after moving to New York. She creates "Operation Wedding Date," a structured plan modeled on her work projects, with the goal of finding a date for Rachel's July wedding.

Days later, Yinka learns she is being made redundant, the very week she expected a promotion. Because she had already told her mother she received the promotion, she must maintain the lie. She confides in Aunty Blessing, her mother's eldest sister and a barrister who has served as a surrogate mother since Yinka's father died of cancer when Yinka was 10. Aunty Blessing suggests Yinka consider the charity sector, recalling a gap year Yinka spent in Peru with the charity Action 28, where she worked with people experiencing homelessness and felt she had found her calling. Yinka dismisses the idea, insisting she will stay in banking.

At Rachel's engagement party, Yinka encounters Femi, who has arrived with his new fiancée, Latoya, a light-skinned woman from New York. They have been together only months and are already engaged. Panicked when Femi asks if she is seeing anyone, Yinka lies and claims she has a boyfriend named Alex, borrowing the name of Aunty Debbie's tenant. She leaves the party in tears.

At her mother's church, All Welcome, Yinka meets Alex and finds him attractive, charming, and deeply connected to his Nigerian heritage. They bond over shared grief: Alex lost his twin sister in a car accident, and Yinka lost her father. They exchange numbers, and Yinka becomes fixated on winning him over. She creates an elaborate self-transformation plan, buying a hair weave, wearing stylish clothes, learning Nigerian cooking, and doing daily squats. Her best friend Nana, a Ghanaian-British aspiring fashion designer who has moved into Yinka's spare room, is alarmed by the transformation.

Meanwhile, Yinka reconnects with Donovan, a former gap-year companion from Peru, at a homeless outreach organized by Derek, a family friend. Donovan now recruits for charities and challenges Yinka about abandoning her dream of working in the sector. Despite their differences, they develop a rapport, and Donovan advocates for therapy.

On Valentine's Day, Yinka cooks an elaborate Nigerian meal for Alex. The lunch seems promising until Nana briefly passes through the kitchen and Alex confesses that Nana is the one who has caught his eye. Devastated, Yinka reveals that Nana is aromantic, meaning she does not experience romantic attraction, shutting down his interest. Yinka tears down her Post-it note plans in a fury but lies to Rachel and Ola, claiming Alex called her "wifey material."

Yinka's professional life also unravels. The rival investment bank Oscar Larsson rejects her after a second interview, and other applications stall. When Kemi gives birth to her son, Chinedu, Mum prays publicly at the hospital, thanking God for Yinka's "promotion" and "boyfriend," forcing Yinka to confess both lies. Mum immediately tries to set her up with Emmanuel, the son of a church friend.

Rachel's bridal shower becomes the site of an explosive confrontation. When Ola laughs upon learning the truth about Alex, Yinka retaliates by revealing that Ola's husband Jon once confessed to having feelings for Yinka before Ola became pregnant at university, information Rachel had shared in confidence. Ola storms out, Rachel is furious, and Yinka is left alone. That night, Nana tells Yinka she has changed for the worse and gives her a business card for a counselor, threatening to move out if Yinka does not seek help.

Instead, Yinka lies about attending counseling, signs up for Tinder, and begins dating Marcus. On their second date, when Yinka tells him she is saving herself for marriage, he ghosts her and later calls to say they will not work, calling her old-fashioned. Her work friends Joanna, a PR colleague, and Brian, a graduate analyst on her team, are supportive when Yinka confides in them about her virginity for the first time. Nana, Joanna, and Brian then stage an intervention, confronting Yinka about her lying and self-destructive behavior.

Yinka hits rock bottom when she video-calls Emmanuel, who tells her he was expecting a light-skinned woman and says she is "pretty for a dark-skinned girl." Crushed, Yinka drives to a hair shop and fills her arms with skin-lightening creams. In the checkout line, she sees a dark-skinned girl who reminds her of herself and hears her late father's voice telling her the midnight sky is just as beautiful as the sunrise. She puts the products back and flees to a park bench, where Donovan finds her and holds her as she sobs. This time, when he gives her his counselor's number, Yinka takes it seriously.

In her first session with the counselor, Jacqui, Yinka identifies her core fear: not that she will be alone, but that she is not good enough. Jacqui helps Yinka confront the colorism and childhood bullying that shaped her self-image, and the way she has sought male validation to replace her father's affirmation. Yinka writes a letter to her younger self affirming her beauty and worth and, through a therapeutic exercise, has an imagined conversation with her mother, articulating the pain caused by years of pressure to marry.

Healing ripples outward. Yinka reconciles with Kemi, who reveals she envied Yinka's academic achievements and spent time with Mum to earn approval she never felt she had. Nana arranges a meeting between Yinka and Ola, who have an honest conversation about their mutual insecurities and the damage caused by their mothers' constant comparisons. Yinka suggests Ola consider counseling. She also makes peace with Rachel.

At Chinedu's christening, Yinka takes the microphone and delivers a prayer in front of 300 guests, thanking God for her "season of singleness" and declaring it a blessing. The older generation murmurs in disapproval, but the younger guests stand and cheer. Afterward, Yinka confronts Mum privately, asking why she never speaks about Yinka's father and whether her fear of Yinka being alone mirrors her own pain as a widow. Mum breaks down crying, and they share their first real embrace.

Yinka decides to pursue a career in the charity sector. Although she misses the application deadline for an outreach manager position at Sanctuary, a homeless charity, Donovan reveals he submitted her CV on her behalf and she has been shortlisted. At Nana's fashion show in June, Yinka steps in as a last-minute model, walking the catwalk in a monokini with confidence and pride.

At Rachel and Gavesh's wedding in July, Yinka arrives without a date but with her dream job at Sanctuary. Aunty Blessing introduces her romantic partner, Terry, revealing her own journey toward love. Femi approaches and admits leaving Yinka may have been a mistake, but Yinka feels nothing for him, confirming she has moved on. Donovan arrives at the wedding, invited by Nana on Yinka's behalf. He reveals he has been exploring faith after their conversations and asks Yinka on a date. She accepts, and they join the dance floor together, surrounded by everyone she loves.

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