All My Puny Sorrows

Miriam Toews

All My Puny Sorrows

Miriam Toews
51 pages1-hour read
Fiction
Novel
Adult
Published in 2014

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Character List

Meet the key characters, with insights into their roles, motivations, and relationships—spoiler-free.

Major Characters

Yoli is a writer in her forties living in Toronto with her teenage daughter, Nora. She is going through a divorce and struggles to write a literary novel after achieving commercial success with a young adult series. She loves her sister deeply and sets aside her daily life to sit by Elf's hospital bed, desperately trying to keep her alive by sharing stories and childhood memories.

Key Relationships

Younger Sister of Elf Von Riesen

Daughter of Lottie Von Riesen

Daughter of Jack Von Riesen

Mother of Nora

Mother of Will

Sister-in-law of Nic

Best Friend of Julie

Estranged Wife of Dan

Romantic Partner of Radek

Romantic Partner of Finbar

Elf is a brilliant, internationally renowned concert pianist who grew up resisting her restrictive Mennonite upbringing. In her forties and married to Nic, she lives with severe depression and repeatedly asks her sister to help her secure an assisted death in Switzerland. Her artistic practice brings her both exhilaration and profound anxiety.

Key Relationships

Older Sister of Yoli Von Riesen

Wife of Nic

Daughter of Lottie Von Riesen

Daughter of Jack Von Riesen

Client of Claudio

Patient of Janice

Lottie is Yoli and Elf's mother, a widow in her seventies living in a Winnipeg apartment. Despite facing immense family hardship, she maintains a remarkably resilient and positive outlook. She actively participates in her community, plays online Scrabble, and relies on her remaining family for emotional support.

Key Relationships

Mother of Yoli Von Riesen

Mother of Elf Von Riesen

Widow of Jack Von Riesen

Sister of Tina

Supporting Characters

Nic is Elf's husband, a scientifically minded man who shares his wife's passion for travel, literature, and music. He is deeply devoted to caring for Elf and hopes her scheduled piano tour will re-energize her and help combat her severe depression.

Key Relationships

Husband of Elf Von Riesen

Brother-in-law of Yoli Von Riesen

Son-in-law of Lottie Von Riesen

Julie is Yoli's best friend, who also grew up in the East Village Mennonite community. She lives in Winnipeg with her husband and children. She acts as a nonjudgmental sounding board for Yoli, offering a safe space to smoke, drink, and discuss difficult ethical questions without shame.

Key Relationships

Best Friend of Yoli Von Riesen

Tina is Lottie's sister and the aunt of Yoli and Elf. She travels from Vancouver to support her sister during Elf's hospitalization. Like the Von Riesen family, she carries the grief of losing an immediate family member to suicide.

Key Relationships

Wife of Frank

Mother of Sheila

Mother of Leni

Nora is Yoli's teenage daughter, who lives with her in Toronto to attend a specialized dance school. She remains in Toronto while her mother travels, offering emotional support via phone and text during the family's ongoing crises.

Key Relationships

Daughter of Yoli Von Riesen

Daughter of Dan

Half-Sister of Will

Jack is Yoli and Elf's father and Lottie's late husband. He struggled with depression and clashed with the Mennonite community elders, particularly when he supported Elf's musical talents by sneaking a piano into their home.

Key Relationships

Late Husband of Lottie Von Riesen

Late Father of Yoli Von Riesen

Late Father of Elf Von Riesen

Will is Yoli's son and Nora's half-brother. He lives in New York City but travels to Toronto to look after his younger sister when their mother rushes to Winnipeg for a family emergency.

Key Relationships

Son of Barry

Half-Brother of Nora

Dan is Yoli's estranged husband and Nora's father. He is currently working in Borneo while going through divorce proceedings with Yoli.

Key Relationships

Estranged Husband of Yoli Von Riesen

Father of Nora

Barry is Yoli's former partner and the father of her adult son, Will.

Key Relationships

Ex-Partner of Yoli Von Riesen

Father of Will

Radek is one of Yoli's romantic partners in Winnipeg. He is a gentle man who provides Yoli with a place to talk, though he reveals a long-standing infatuation with Elf's piano performances.

Key Relationships

Romantic Partner of Yoli Von Riesen

Finbar is a lawyer and one of Yoli's romantic partners. Yoli occasionally reaches out to him for legal advice regarding the medical options for her sister.

Key Relationships

Romantic Partner of Yoli Von Riesen

Claudio is Elf's dedicated musical agent. He worries about her well-being and her ability to participate in her scheduled performances across Europe.

Key Relationships

Professional Contact of Yoli Von Riesen

Janice is a nurse in the psychiatric ward where Elf is receiving care. She tries to offer Elf compassionate medical support while fielding Yoli's anxious questions about treatment plans.

Key Relationships

Medical Contact of Yoli Von Riesen

Jason is a mechanic who knew Yoli during college. Now also going through a divorce, he reconnects with Yoli when she brings in Lottie's broken-down car for repairs.

Key Relationships

College Acquaintance of Yoli Von Riesen

Frank is Tina's husband and Lottie's brother-in-law. He travels to Winnipeg with his daughter to be with his wife during a family medical emergency.

Key Relationships

Husband of Tina

Father of Sheila

Sheila is Tina and Frank's daughter. She travels to Winnipeg to be with her family while her mother requires immediate medical attention.

Key Relationships

Daughter of Tina

Daughter of Frank

Sister of Leni

Leni is Tina's late daughter and Yoli's cousin, whose early death deeply impacted the extended family and parallels their current struggles.

Key Relationships

Late Daughter of Tina

Late Sister of Sheila

Late Cousin of Yoli Von Riesen

Nelson is a painter hired by Yoli to help repair and renovate her new home in Toronto.

Key Relationships

Employee of Yoli Von Riesen