Before I Let Go

Kennedy Ryan

68 pages 2-hour read

Kennedy Ryan

Before I Let Go

Fiction | Novel | Adult | Published in 2022

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Character List

Meet the key characters, with insights into their roles, motivations, and relationships—spoiler-free.

Major Characters

Yasmen is a thirty-something entrepreneur who co-owns the restaurant Grits in Atlanta's Skyland neighborhood. She is recovering from severe depression following the tragic stillbirth of her son, Henry, and the sudden death of her husband's aunt. She relies on regular therapy to heal and works to re-enter the local business community. She strives to co-parent amicably despite harboring lingering jealousy regarding her ex-husband's new dating life.

Key Relationships

Ex-husband of Josiah Wade

Mother of Kassim Wade

Mother of Deja Wade

Best friend of Soledad Barnes

Best friend of Hendrix Barry

Daughter of Carole

Romantic interest of Mark Lancaster

Patient of Dr. Abrams

Josiah is a devoted father and hardworking businessman who focuses intensely on keeping Grits afloat following dual family tragedies. Orphaned at a young age and raised by his late Aunt Byrd, he controls his emotions tightly and initially views mental health treatment with deep skepticism. He currently lives in Byrd's former home with the family's Great Dane and attempts to move forward by dating his new head chef.

Key Relationships

Ex-wife of Yasmen Wade

Father of Kassim Wade

Father of Deja Wade

Boyfriend of Vashti Burns

Nephew of Aunt Byrd

Best friend of Charles "Preach" Hollister

Patient of Dr. Musa

Supporting Characters

Kassim is the ten-year-old son of Yasmen and Josiah. Highly intelligent and interested in robotics, he outperforms his peers academically and may need to skip a grade. His school journals reveal an intense preoccupation with mortality, prompting discussions about his need for counseling to process his family's recent losses.

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Brother of Deja Wade

Deja is the thirteen-year-old daughter of Yasmen and Josiah. A moody adolescent heavily invested in her hair-influencer social media presence, she actively rebels against authority. She resents her mother and clearly favors her father, creating tension in the family's co-parenting dynamic.

Key Relationships

Daughter of Yasmen Wade

Daughter of Josiah Wade

Sister of Kassim Wade

Soledad is one of Yasmen's best friends, whom she met in a yoga class post-divorce. A multiracial stay-at-home mother to three daughters, she possesses distinct talents in cooking and interior design. She balances managing a large household with emerging professional aspirations and private marital stress.

Key Relationships

Friend of Yasmen Wade

Friend of Hendrix Barry

Wife of Edward

Hendrix is Yasmen's close friend and a driven public relations professional. Single and fiercely loyal, she actively encourages her friends to pursue their personal and professional goals. She provides emotional support for Yasmen while managing the painful reality of her own mother's advancing dementia.

Key Relationships

Friend of Yasmen Wade

Friend of Soledad Barnes

Vashti is the new head chef at Grits who helped stabilize the restaurant after Aunt Byrd's death. She dates Josiah following his divorce. Her presence in Josiah's life and her natural rapport with his children generate significant internal conflict for Yasmen.

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Girlfriend of Josiah Wade

Employee of Yasmen Wade

Mark is a prominent, wealthy real estate developer in Atlanta. He plans a run for political office and takes a strong romantic interest in Yasmen after meeting her at a community event. He offers her a chance to re-enter the dating world with low pressure.

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Romantic interest of Yasmen Wade

Byrd is Josiah's beloved late aunt who raised him after he was orphaned. She formerly served as the chef at Grits and created the foundational soul food recipes for the restaurant. Her sudden death heavily impacted the Wade family and precipitated their broader crises.

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Aunt of Josiah Wade

Late partner of Milwaukee "Milky" Johnson

Carole is Yasmen's outspoken mother. She remains highly involved in her daughter's life and clearly holds out hope that Yasmen and Josiah will find a way to repair their broken marriage. She actively meddles to create opportunities for the two to interact.

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Mother of Yasmen Wade

Former mother-in-law of Josiah Wade

Preach is Josiah's best friend who owns and operates a local barbershop in a neighborhood of Black-owned businesses. He frequently provides a sounding board for Josiah's personal issues and encourages him to engage with therapy.

Key Relationships

Best friend of Josiah Wade

Milky is a cook at Grits who worked closely with Aunt Byrd. As Byrd's longtime romantic partner, he shares in the profound grief following her passing but remains a steadfast presence in the restaurant kitchen.

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Former partner of Aunt Byrd

Dr. Abrams is Yasmen's therapist. She guides Yasmen through her depression recovery, encouraging self-compassion and helping her set healthy boundaries regarding her children and her ex-husband.

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Therapist of Yasmen Wade

Dr. Musa is the therapist Josiah begins seeing. He challenges Josiah's defensive use of humor and pushes him to confront his unexpressed grief and deep-seated fears of abandonment stemming from childhood trauma.

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Therapist of Josiah Wade

Harvey is the dedicated manager at Grits. He oversees daily operations and brings the owners a lucrative opportunity to expand their business by purchasing a second location near Charlotte, North Carolina.

Key Relationships

Employee of Yasmen Wade

Employee of Josiah Wade

Edward is Soledad's husband. He frequently fails to support his wife with child-care duties and actively dismisses her emerging professional ambitions, prompting suspicion and frustration from her friend group.

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Husband of Soledad Barnes

Merry is the co-owner of a historic restaurant near Charlotte. She and her long-term partner look to sell their business to Yasmen and Josiah, sharing their culinary passion and relationship philosophy during the scouting trip.

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Partner of Ken Harris

Business contact of Yasmen Wade

Ken is Merry Herman's partner in life and business. He helps host Yasmen and Josiah during their scouting trip, bonding with Josiah over premium whiskey and the challenges of restaurant expansion.

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Partner of Merry Herman

Otis is the family's Great Dane. Originally Aunt Byrd's pet, he insists on living full-time with Josiah following the divorce, providing silent companionship and occasional comic relief through his destructive chewing habits.

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Deidre is the owner of a local bookstore in Skyland. She connects with Yasmen by sharing her own history of pregnancy loss, providing Yasmen with a brief but profound moment of communal understanding.

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Acquaintance of Yasmen Wade

Clint is one of Josiah's neighbors. He and his partner inadvertently trigger Josiah's hidden grief by asking him to hold their newborn daughter.

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Partner of Brock

Neighbor of Josiah Wade

Brock is Clint's partner and Josiah's neighbor. He shares in the excitement of new parenthood, standing by when Yasmen steps in to offer babysitting services to ease an awkward interaction.

Key Relationships

Partner of Clint