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In Cross Check, Chelsea Curto critiques the patriarchal double standards endemic to professional sports, where women like Amelia are subjected to a level of scrutiny their male counterparts never face. The novel argues that to be seen as legitimate in a male-dominated field, women are forced to meticulously regulate their emotions, appearance, and personal lives in ways that men are not. This systemic bias punishes women for behaviors that are often ignored or celebrated in men, holding women to an impossible standard. Ultimately, the narrative suggests that true progress requires not only female resilience but also active allyship from men willing to dismantle systemic inequality and interpersonal bias.
From the outset, Amelia navigates a world rife with misogynistic attitudes that question her authority and expertise. During the novel’s first section, she endures a disastrous date in which her companion dismisses women in high-level sports positions as token hires meant to fill a quota, sneering, “It’s a men’s league. Always has been […] The women coming into the league aren’t more qualified than the men. It’s a check in the box. A quota the teams are trying to fill to look inclusive” (9). Curto’s novel suggests that this perspective is institutional. When Amelia becomes a head coach, reporter Simon Buttecker immediately questions her ability to “regulate [her] emotions” and avoid being a “distraction” to her male players (500). Amelia pushes back, demonstrating that male coaches are never subjected to such inquiries. Her awareness of this double standard pushes her to modify her behavior—she avoids wearing jewelry or makeup behind the bench, fearing that any expression of femininity could be used to undermine her professional credibility.
The novel contrasts the hostility and misogyny the female characters face in the NHL with the supportive internal culture fostered by Grant and his teammates, presenting an aspiration portrayal of male allyship. When Grant overhears Amelia’s date’s comments, he’s immediately disgusted by the man’s sexism. Grant consistently pushes back against sexism—both interpersonal and institutional—throughout the novel. The DC Stars’ locker room actively rejects misogyny, with Brody explicitly shutting down the “toxic locker room shit” and rejecting the notion that “boys will be boys” (18). Later, when player Brady Williams makes derogatory and sexually charged comments about Amelia, Grant’s immediate and violent response emphasizes a commitment to protecting her reputation and rejecting the venomous culture Brady represents. This portrayal of male allyship provides a model for the kind of internal reform necessary to combat the league’s wider systemic sexism.
The disparity between Amelia and Grant’s punishments after their relationship is exposed to the league reinforces the entrenched misogyny in the NHL and pushes Grant and his teammates to take action for change. While Grant receives a minor one-game suspension, Amelia is suspended for eight games and threatened with termination. The league views her as the one who abused her power, despite the fact that their relationship is consensual and she has never been Grant’s direct superior. This institutional double standard reinforces the novel’s central argument: For women in sports, the path to success is not only steeper but it is also governed by an entirely different, and unfair, set of rules. Rather than leaving the work of fighting for change to Amelia and other women like her, Grant takes action himself, confronting the NHL commissioner directly, identifying the hypocrisy and stating that the only reason for the discrepancy is because Amelia is a woman. He and his teammates research the league’s bylaws, draft a proposition for an amendment and fight to see it passed, modeling active allyship.
Cross Check demonstrates that a life lived in the public eye, particularly for high-profile figures in sports, comes at a significant personal cost. The narrative reveals how relentless media attention and online gossip can threaten private relationships and careers, forcing individuals to sacrifice authentic connection for the sake of public perception. Through Amelia and Grant’s secret relationship, the novel argues that the pressure to maintain a flawless public image, making it challenging to develop trust when genuine intimacy is a liability.
Amelia’s career is built upon a foundation of carefully constructed boundaries designed to preempt public misinterpretation. Her strict “no-fraternization policy” is a defense mechanism against the scrutiny a relationship with a player would inevitably attract. She understands that as the first female coach in the NHL, her personal life is not her own and that any perceived misstep would be amplified and used to delegitimize her professional standing. As she tells her friends, “[Grant’s] off-limits […] He’s in the league, and I’m trying to be careful about boundaries and making sure our friendship isn’t misconstrued” (178). This awareness dictates her interactions, forcing her to keep Grant at arm’s length for years. Her fear is rooted in professional survival, as she knows the media and the league would twist any romantic involvement into a narrative of unprofessionalism and scandal.
The photos leaked of Amelia and Grant’s relationship illustrate the power of public exposure and scrutiny, highlighting the narrative stakes. The publication of the article, with its salacious headline about the couple’s “steamy tryst,” triggers an immediate professional and personal crisis. Both Amelia and Grant are summoned for meetings with the league commissioner, Amelia’s career is threatened with termination, and their private lives become fodder for public consumption. The fallout forces Amelia to end their relationship, believing she must sacrifice her personal happiness to salvage her career. In the wake of the league’s disproportionate punishments, Amelia views “[t]he dream of a life together” as “a fairytale. Unbelievable, too perfect” (702). This painful decision highlights the central conflict of the novel: the tension of a public-facing career and a private, unguarded love life.
In response to this suffocating scrutiny, the novel posits a secluded, private space as the only true sanctuary for their relationship. From their first secret meetings in Grant’s apartment to their decision to buy a house hidden from the street, their relationship can only flourish away from prying eyes. Grant explicitly seeks a place where they can exist “where no one knew our names” (592), a home that is a fortress against the outside world. This physical separation from public life becomes the literal and metaphorical foundation for their relationship to be rebuilt. Ultimately, the narrative suggests that for public figures like Grant and Amelia, authentic connection is a fragile entity that must be fiercely protected from the destructive glare of the public spotlight.
Cross Check explores the tension between professional ambition and romantic fulfillment, ultimately arguing that a successful partnership does not require one to compromise their dreams but instead demands a partner who champions those dreams as their own. Through Amelia and Grant’s multi-year journey, the novel illustrates that true balance is achieved through mutual support, active communication, and a shared willingness to fight for both individual and collective success. Their story rejects the notion that love and career are mutually exclusive, proposing instead that they can be mutually reinforcing when nurtured by the right person.
Many of the earliest barriers to Amelia and Grant’s romantic relationship are logistical in nature, as the demands of their professional lives provide practical barriers to their romantic connection. Having fought her way to the top of a male-dominated field, Amelia is fiercely protective of her professional standing and believes a romantic relationship, especially with a player, would jeopardize everything she has worked for. For years, she insists that she and Grant can only be friends, putting up walls to guard against the emotional and professional risks she associates with love. Even after their relationship begins, Amelia and Grant live in different cities with vastly different schedules, making it challenging to even spend time together. Their relationship develops through text messages, which Curto includes as transcripts. Once when Grant returns from a lengthy travel period with the Stars, Amelia jokes, “Don’t leave on a six-game road trip again, okay?” (513), and Grant responds, “I’m calling the league tomorrow to ask if they can fix our schedule for the rest of the year […] Might put you on the phone with the commissioner. You can be very convincing” (513). Their banter highlights the challenges posed by their punishing professional schedules.
Throughout their friendship and later their romantic relationship, Grant consistently models a form of love rooted in unwavering professional admiration and support. From the moment he first sees Amelia coaching, he declares himself a “big fan” of her skill and intellect, watching her college highlights and seeking her advice. He publicly declares his respect for her legacy when he wears her old Wisconsin jersey to a DC Stars game. He uses this public professional respect as a foundation for their private intimacy, earning Amelia’s trust and modeling a balance between the personal and the professional grounded in his personal values. His decision to decline his own spot on the men’s Olympic team when Amelia is named head coach of the men’s team, ensuring the media focus remains squarely on her historic achievement, reflects his priorities both personal and professional.
The novel rejects the idea of a forced sacrifice and instead, embraces an ideal of mutual support and collective success. Grant’s successful petition to add a bylaw to the Collective Bargaining Agreement, which protects relationships between individuals on different teams, allows them to be together without Amelia losing her job. Rather than accepting the league’s ultimatum, Grant changes the rules of the game. His advocacy for her rights underscores that their happiness is by both parties working together to create a world where their love and their careers can coexist and flourish.



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