Friend of My Youth

Alice Munro

24 pages 48-minute read

Alice Munro

Friend of My Youth

Fiction | Short Story | Adult | Published in 1990

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Character List

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Major Characters

The Narrator is an unnamed, unmarried fiction writer who has moved away from her small-town upbringing. She frequently experiences a conflicting mix of relief and resentment regarding her mother's illness and death. Through her writing, she attempts to process her grief and examine the differences between her own modern independence and the traditional values of the previous generations.

Key Relationships

Daughter of Mother

Fascinated by the story of Flora Grieves

The Mother is a former schoolteacher who boarded with the Grieves family during her youth. She is sociable and conventional, eventually becoming confined by a long, difficult illness and her duties as a homemaker. She views her early friendships with women as a time of romantic possibility and freedom, distinct from the rigid domestic life she later leads.

Key Relationships

Mother of Narrator

Friend and Admirer of Flora Grieves

Former Housemate of Ellie Grieves

Repelled by Audrey Atkinson

Flora is the older of the Grieves sisters and a devout member of the strict Cameronian religion. She lives in a divided farmhouse without modern conveniences and performs her demanding domestic duties with a surprising cheerfulness. She serves as a caretaker for her bedridden younger sister, approaching her responsibilities with stoicism and unpredictable bursts of joy.

Key Relationships

Older Sister and Caretaker of Ellie Grieves

Former Fiancé of Robert Deal

Friend of Mother

Housemate of Audrey Atkinson

Supporting Characters

Ellie is Flora's younger sister, remembered by townspeople as a lively and mischievous girl. She is now confined to her bed with a mysterious illness seemingly linked to repeated early pregnancies. Her physical decline confines her entirely to the quiet, sickroom half of the divided farmhouse, stripping away her former free spirit.

Key Relationships

Younger Sister of Flora Grieves

Wife of Robert Deal

Patient of Audrey Atkinson

Robert is an upstanding young man and a practicing Cameronian who lives in the divided farmhouse. He is largely passive in his interactions, allowing his circumstances to be dictated by the women in his life. He struggles to handle the strict social and religious expectations of his community alongside his personal mistakes.

Key Relationships

Former Fiancé of Flora Grieves

Husband of Ellie Grieves

Audrey is a brash, bossy nurse who brings a forceful modern energy to the conservative Grieves household. She values social status and material conveniences, standing in direct contrast to the austere Cameronian lifestyle. She openly displays her ambition and looks down on the family's old-fashioned ways, seeking alliances with anyone she perceives as similarly modern.

Key Relationships

Nurse to Ellie Grieves

Housemate of Flora Grieves

Disliked by Mother