How to Age Disgracefully

Clare Pooley

51 pages 1-hour read

Clare Pooley

How to Age Disgracefully

Fiction | Novel | Adult | Published in 2024

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Character List

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Major Characters

Daphne is a 70-year-old resident of Hammersmith who has spent the last fifteen years confined to her luxurious apartment. Realizing she wants more from her future, she buys a whiteboard and a new mobile phone to execute a specific plan for making friends. She possesses a sharp, outspoken personality and a taste for fine things. She harbors a colorful past that she keeps strictly hidden from her new acquaintances.

Key Relationships

Wary new acquaintance Art Andrews

Fellow club member Lydia

Young father she assists Ziggy

Late husband Jack

Infant she occasionally watches Kylie

Shared dog Maggie Thatcher

Dating prospect Sidney

Art is a 75-year-old actor struggling with a dwindling career and financial anxieties. He frequently feels ignored by society due to his age, prompting a rebellious compulsion to shoplift small items. He joins the community center's senior club to save on his heating bill but soon finds himself deeply invested in the group. He carries heavy guilt regarding his estranged family.

Key Relationships

Lifelong best friend William

Estranged daughter Kerry

Late wife Jill

Late daughter Katie

Fellow club member Daphne

Fellow club member Lydia

Dog he trains Maggie Thatcher

Young boy he mentors Lucky

Lydia is a 53-year-old former food stylist who gave up her career to raise her two daughters. With her children away at college, she faces an empty nest and a profound loss of identity. She takes a job running the local senior citizens' social club hoping for a quiet, gentle group. Instead, she finds herself managing a chaotic assembly of strong personalities while quietly suspecting her husband is losing interest in her.

Key Relationships

Distant husband Jeremy

Children away at college Lydia's Daughters

Assertive club member Daphne

Fellow club member Art Andrews

Difficult club attendee Pauline

Foster dog Maggie Thatcher

Ziggy is an 18-year-old high school student facing the daunting responsibilities of single fatherhood. Living in a rough government-funded housing estate, he tries to avoid local gangs while rushing to drop his baby off at the community center nursery. He dreams of attending university to study computer science but constantly struggles to balance his education with his immediate childcare needs.

Key Relationships

Infant daughter Kylie

Demanding mother Ziggy's Mother

Former prom date Jenna

School crush Alicia

Intimidating local gang leader Floyd

Unlikely older ally Daphne

Supportive teacher Mr. Wingate

William is a retired paparazzo and Art's lifelong best friend. As a Black senior citizen, he occasionally faces prejudice, which Art fiercely resents on his behalf. William provides Art with emotional support, practical help, and a willing partner for their dark-humored games.

Key Relationships

Best friend Art Andrews

Daughter-in-law Amy

Club organizer Lydia

Supporting Characters

Jeremy is Lydia's husband, a man who has grown increasingly distant and dismissive of his wife. He frequently belittles Lydia, attributing her concerns to hormones or delusion. His late hours and secretive texting cause deep insecurity in his marriage.

Key Relationships

Wife Lydia

Young blonde acquaintance Kitty

Kylie is Ziggy's infant daughter. She attends the nursery at the Mandel Community Center while her father finishes his final year of school. She becomes an unexpected bonding point for the older members of the community center.

Key Relationships

Father Ziggy

Mother Jenna

Unlikely babysitter Daphne

Maggie Thatcher is a scruffy, nervy dog initially owned by Pauline. Following a sudden accident at the community center, the dog is left without an owner. The senior group decides to share custody of her, turning her into a communal pet and a project for a television talent competition.

Key Relationships

Former owner Pauline

Initial foster caretaker Lydia

Trainer and co-carer Art Andrews

Co-carer Daphne

Pauline is a rigid, humorless retired headmistress who attends the first gathering of the senior club. She brings her dog to the meeting and harshly lectures the group leader right before an unfortunate structural failure at the center ends her life.

Key Relationships

Her dog Maggie Thatcher

Club leader Lydia

Anna is an older woman and former long-distance truck driver who aggressively drives her mobility cart. She stands out with her brightly dyed hair, viewing her gray roots as a blank canvas, and casually mentions outliving her five husbands.

Key Relationships

Club leader Lydia

Fellow club member Daphne

Ruby is an older woman originally from Bangladesh who attends the senior social club. She is a dedicated knitter who continually creates oversized, confusing garments and deeply misses her late husband of fifty years.

Key Relationships

Club leader Lydia

Alicia is a red-haired high school student who plays the oboe. She catches Ziggy's eye at school and shows interest in him, though she is wary of the complicated elements of his life.

Key Relationships

Classmate and romantic interest Ziggy

Floyd is a gang leader operating within the council estate where Ziggy lives. He uses intimidation and pressure to rope vulnerable young people into running illegal errands for him.

Key Relationships

Target for intimidation Ziggy

Lucky is a young foster child attending the community center nursery. He is completely nonverbal, making him a quiet presence until he begins participating in the nativity play alongside Art.

Key Relationships

Adult mentor Art Andrews

Jenna is Ziggy's former junior prom date. After an unplanned pregnancy, she relinquished daily responsibility for their baby to live a standard teenage life, occasionally dropping by for brief visits.

Key Relationships

Former date Ziggy

Biological daughter Kylie

Mr. Wingate is Ziggy's computer science teacher. He recognizes Ziggy's academic potential and offers him extra tutoring for university admissions, giving the teenager a glimpse of hope for his future.

Key Relationships

Student Ziggy

Jack is Daphne's late husband. Although he is no longer present, Daphne still talks to him aloud to simulate conversation, holding onto memories of the luxurious life they once shared.

Key Relationships

Wife Daphne

Janine is the woman who runs the nursery at the Mandel Community Center. She manages the childcare for local parents, including Ziggy, but is strict about her operational hours.

Key Relationships

Client Ziggy

Sidney is a man Daphne meets as part of her plan to find a partner. He presents himself as a safe, dependable companion with a son who works as an aid worker.

Key Relationships

Dating prospect Daphne

Penny Rogers is a police constable who halts a minibus full of community center members. She boards the vehicle searching for a specific suspect wanted by the Metropolitan Police.

Key Relationships

Investigative target Daphne

Kerry is Art's estranged daughter. She and her mother left Art decades ago following a family tragedy, leaving an enduring rift that Art longs to repair.

Key Relationships

Late twin sister Katie

Late mother Jill