Is She Really Going Out with Him?

Sophie Cousens

Is She Really Going Out with Him?

Sophie Cousens
59 pages1-hour read
Fiction
Novel
Adult
Published in 2024

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Character List

Meet the key characters, with insights into their roles, motivations, and relationships—spoiler-free.

Major Characters

Anna is a 38-year-old mother of two working as a lifestyle columnist for Bath Living magazine. Reeling from her divorce, she feels insecure about re-entering the modern dating pool. To save her job during a corporate transition, she pitches an article series where her children pick her dates without using apps. She is fiercely protective of her kids and struggles with self-doubt regarding her age and career relevance.

Key Relationships

Ex-Wife of Dan

Mother of Jess

Mother of Ethan

Coworker of Will Havers

Older Sister of Lottie

Neighbor of Noah

Acquaintance of Sylvie

Will is an ambitious journalist at Bath Living, eight years younger than Anna. He confidently pitches ideas to management and embraces digital media trends, presenting a threat to Anna's traditional column. Beneath his cocky exterior, he values family loyalty and puts his career on hold to help care for his disabled brother.

Key Relationships

Coworker of Anna Appleby

Older Brother of Simon

Son of Rory

Client of Deedee

Employee of Jonathan

Dan is Anna's ex-husband who quickly reinvents himself after their marriage ends. He takes up cycling, improves his physical fitness, and moves in with a woman in her twenties. He often clashes with Anna over parenting duties and household expectations, preferring a structured, minimalist lifestyle over her chaotic one.

Key Relationships

Ex-Husband of Anna Appleby

Father of Jess

Father of Ethan

Romantic Partner of Sylvie

Supporting Characters

Jess is Anna and Dan's teenage daughter. She is highly observant of her parents' shifting dynamics and faces typical adolescent challenges, including online bullying from a classmate. She often acts as a sounding board for her mother and actively participates in selecting dates for the magazine column.

Key Relationships

Daughter of Anna Appleby

Daughter of Dan

Older Sister of Ethan

Classmate of Penny

Ethan is Anna and Dan's six-year-old son. He is sensitive to the changes in his family structure, occasionally experiencing regression like bed-wetting following the divorce. He approaches life with innocent enthusiasm and eagerly pitches in to help choose dates for his mother's column.

Key Relationships

Son of Anna Appleby

Son of Dan

Younger Brother of Jess

Student of Andre

Lottie is Anna's pregnant younger sister who lives in the country with her husband. She frequently visits Bath to check on Anna, bringing flowers and steadfast optimism. She acts as Anna's primary confidante, pushing her to re-enter the dating world and stop wallowing in post-divorce isolation.

Key Relationships

Younger Sister of Anna Appleby

Wife of Seb

Sylvie is Dan's girlfriend, a woman in her twenties who favors a beige, minimalist aesthetic. She maintains an impeccably clean home and willingly adopts traditional gender roles while Dan works. Her put-together lifestyle and youthful appearance frequently trigger Anna's insecurities.

Key Relationships

Romantic Partner of Dan

Acquaintance of Anna Appleby

Noah is Anna's widower neighbor. He is fiercely protective of the overgrown hedge dividing their properties, leading to frequent disputes with Anna. Socially awkward but dependable, he keeps to himself while quietly mourning the loss of his wife, Gemma, who died eight years prior.

Key Relationships

Neighbor of Anna Appleby

Michael is the local mail carrier and a passionate Jane Austen enthusiast who works part-time at the Jane Austen Centre. He enjoys Regency-era cosplay and deeply values intellectual conversation, making him a polite and respectful companion who values friendship over forced romance.

Key Relationships

Friend of Anna Appleby

Romantic Interest of Jane

Loretta is a cancer survivor who mistakenly believes Anna also has the illness due to a head lice treatment bonnet. She is vibrant, outgoing, and actively participates in charity work and speed dating events. She quickly becomes a warm, supportive friend to Anna.

Key Relationships

Friend of Anna Appleby

Committee Member with Will Havers

Jonathan is the owner and manager of Bath Living magazine. Facing lagging revenue, he brings in new management and demands more relatable, vulnerable content from his writers. He values Will's modern ideas but gives Anna a chance to prove herself with the dating column.

Key Relationships

Boss of Anna Appleby

Boss of Will Havers

Business Associate of Crispin

Crispin is a manager from Apex Media, the company investing in Bath Living. He is blunt, demanding, and solely focused on capturing a younger demographic. He pushes his writers to share raw, emotional details of their lives to generate reader engagement.

Key Relationships

Manager of Anna Appleby

Colleague of Jonathan

Neil is a recently divorced father of a child at Ethan's school. He uses fishing to cope with his divorce but harbors deep resentment toward his ex-wife and aggressive hostility toward cyclists.

Key Relationships

Date of Anna Appleby

Caleb is a 27-year-old waiter who invites Anna to a college house party. He is carefree, adventurous, and lives entirely in the moment, representing the spontaneous youthfulness Anna feels she has lost.

Key Relationships

Date of Anna Appleby

Ryan is a local theater performer and minor television star. While physically attractive, he is highly self-absorbed, arrogant, and behaves inappropriately toward women when in private settings.

Key Relationships

Date of Anna Appleby

Penny is a student at Jess's school who engages in relentless online and passive-aggressive bullying. Her actions cause severe emotional distress for Jess and require school intervention.

Key Relationships

Classmate of Jess

Andre is Ethan's handsome swim coach. He is physically fit, attentive, and enjoys active pursuits like rock climbing, serving as an ostensibly perfect candidate on paper.

Key Relationships

Date of Anna Appleby

Coach of Ethan

Simon is Will's younger brother who sustained debilitating injuries in a car accident. He sings in a community choir for people with disabilities and relies on his family for daily care.

Key Relationships

Younger Brother of Will Havers

Son of Rory

Deedee is a tall, blonde headhunter. She assists Will by searching for career advancement opportunities in larger markets.

Key Relationships

Recruiter for Will Havers

Rory is Will and Simon's father. Following the death of his wife, he relies on his sons to help provide constant care for Simon.

Key Relationships

Father of Will Havers

Father of Simon

Seb is Lottie's husband and Anna's brother-in-law. He lives a quiet life in the country with Lottie and is notably squeamish around blood.

Key Relationships

Husband of Lottie

Jane is a woman Michael meets online who shares his deep appreciation for Jane Austen's literature. She attends the Regency ball with him and helps Anna style her hair for the event.

Key Relationships

Romantic Interest of Michael

Steph is Anna's coworker at Bath Living. She enjoys the social aspects of the office and frequently encourages Anna to go out with the group, though she often expresses frustration when Anna declines.

Key Relationships

Coworker of Anna Appleby

Coworker of Kelly

Kelly is a coworker of Anna's at Bath Living. She offers highly filtered, superficial advice about modern dating apps, suggesting Anna use bikini photos to attract more attention.

Key Relationships

Coworker of Anna Appleby

Coworker of Steph

Maeve is Will's former girlfriend. They met in a bookshop, but she eventually declined his marriage proposal, leaving him heartbroken and cautious about serious commitments.

Key Relationships

Ex-Girlfriend of Will Havers

Roger is an older gentleman who attends a speed dating event in Bath. He possesses a warm, grandfatherly demeanor and quickly strikes up a connection with Loretta.

Key Relationships

Romantic Interest of Loretta