Lily and Dunkin

Donna Gephart

67 pages 2-hour read

Donna Gephart

Lily and Dunkin

Fiction | Novel | Middle Grade | Published in 2016

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Character List

Meet the key characters, with insights into their roles, motivations, and relationships—spoiler-free.

Major Characters

An eighth-grader who was born in a boy's body but identifies as a girl. She faces daily anxiety about how to present herself to the world and longs to start hormone blockers. Despite deep insecurities about the bullying she endures at school, she shows compassion for others and finds solace in reading beneath a large banyan tree.

Key Relationships

Daughter of Mrs. McGrother

Daughter of Mr. McGrother

Sister of Sarah

Granddaughter of Grandpop Bob

Best Friend of Dare

Target of Vasquez

A tall, uncoordinated teenager who recently moved from New Jersey to live with his grandmother. He has bipolar disorder and hates the sluggish feeling his medication causes. Desperate for a fresh start and eager to fit in with the popular crowd, he decides to adopt a new nickname and lie about his basketball skills.

Key Relationships

Son of Dunkin's Mom

Son of Dunkin's Dad

Grandson of Bubbie

Friend of Lily (Tim) McGrother

Friend of Phineas

Teammate of Vasquez

Lily's mother, a former lawyer who now works as a yoga instructor. She is fully supportive of Lily's gender identity and advocates fiercely on her behalf. She actively researches medical options and uses Lily's preferred name to bring her comfort.

Key Relationships

Mother of Lily (Tim) McGrother

Mother of Sarah

Lily's father, who struggles deeply with her gender identity. Driven by a fear that people will physically harm Lily, he pushes her to adopt more masculine behaviors and wear boys' clothing. He actively avoids conversations about hormone blockers and medical appointments.

Key Relationships

Father of Lily (Tim) McGrother

Husband of Mrs. McGrother

Father of Sarah

Lily’s best friend since preschool, easily identifiable by her bold personality and athletic schedule. She refuses to coddle Lily, pushing her to stop hiding and present her true self to the world. She provides a safe space for Lily by sharing clothes and offering tough love.

Key Relationships

Best Friend of Lily (Tim) McGrother

Close Companion of Amy

A popular athlete and the primary bully at the middle school. He surrounds himself with a group of likeminded boys, using aggressive language and physical intimidation to maintain social power. He acts as the gatekeeper for the basketball team's social circle.

Key Relationships

Bully of Lily (Tim) McGrother

Son of Vasquez's Dad

Supporting Characters

Lily's older sister, who spends her free time in a knitting club making projects to decorate the neighborhood. She worries about the harassment Lily might face and suggests waiting until high school to transition publicly.

Key Relationships

Sister of Lily (Tim) McGrother

Daughter of Mrs. McGrother

Daughter of Mr. McGrother

Dunkin's energetic grandmother. She runs regularly and cooks healthy meals while opening her home to Dunkin and his mother. She actively helps Dunkin practice basketball drills in her driveway.

Key Relationships

Mother of Dunkin's Mom

Dunkin's mother, who appears exhausted and frequently sad following their relocation to Florida. She constantly monitors Dunkin's medication intake and pushes him to attend psychiatric appointments.

Key Relationships

Wife of Dunkin's Dad

Daughter of Bubbie

Dunkin's father, who stayed behind in New Jersey. He suffers from bipolar disorder, alternating between depressive episodes in bed and manic periods filled with grandiose business plans.

Key Relationships

Husband of Dunkin's Mom

Lily's late grandfather, remembered for his unconditional love and complete acceptance of her identity. Lily named her favorite banyan tree after him to honor the safe space he provided.

Key Relationships

Grandfather of Lily (Tim) McGrother

Dunkin's relentlessly positive friend from New Jersey. Dunkin frequently relies on his encouraging voice and advice to push away negative thoughts.

Key Relationships

Dare's new friend who spends increasing amounts of time with her. She initially struggles to understand Lily's situation but tries to smooth over awkward moments with jokes.

Key Relationships

Companion of Dare

Acquaintance of Lily (Tim) McGrother

The aggressive and demanding father of the school bully. He publicly berates his son during games, offering a glimpse into the source of Vasquez's own hostility.

Key Relationships

Father of Vasquez