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Content Warning: This section of the guide includes discussion of sexual content, emotional abuse, cursing, and mental illness.
Kate’s narration flashes back to her university days in the 1980s. While at a bar in a more prestigious college, she overheard a charismatic and athletic-looking student, pitching to his friends a provocative idea for an airline named “Anal Sex” to rival the shock value of Virgin Airlines. Kate was immediately struck by Jack’s confidence and looks, but also by a brief moment where he became shy and private, which clinched her attraction. She felt an overwhelming possessiveness over Jack, determined to have him for herself.
Kate’s observation was interrupted by the arrival of a stylish young woman named Sarah Hadling, who gave Jack a kiss, revealing herself to be his girlfriend. After learning Sarah’s name, Kate engineered a meeting through a mutual acquaintance, Vera Wilson, under the pretext of organizing a campus feminist campaign. It took Kate a month for them to become best friends. When Sarah mentioned wanting to buy an expensive architecture book for Jack’s birthday, Kate suggested they shoplift it from Blackwell’s. During the heist, Kate created a diversion by faking a dramatic faint while Sarah removed the book from the store. Weeks later, Kate and Jack officially met at a party, where Jack thanked Kate for helping Sarah acquire his birthday gift. They felt an undeniable attraction to one another.
Their affair began when Sarah, who was sulking after she failed to land a theatre role she really wanted, slammed her door and left Jack and Kate together on the street. This gave Kate an opportunity to invite Jack into her apartment.
The following day, Jack and Kate agonized over how to break the news to Sarah. They resolved to do so directly. Later that night, all three of them went to a formal dinner together, which ended with Jack and Kate leaving together in front of Sarah. Sarah retaliated over the next two weeks by stalking them and making public scenes, most notably by confronting Kate during a Romantic poetry seminar and publicly denouncing her as someone who “fuck other people’s boyfriends and steal them and shoplift and lie and are whores” (150). Suddenly, Kate and Jack stopped hearing from Sarah. They later learned that Sarah had dropped out of her studies and disappeared.
This chapter is formatted as a screenplay. Guests Jerry and Charlotte arrive for a dinner party at the home of their friends, Tom and Tara. While the hosts are upstairs putting their young twins to bed, Jerry and Charlotte are left alone in the kitchen, where a baby monitor is on. They overhear a vicious argument between Tom and Tara, who express deep resentments about their shared domestic life, exhaustion, and the dinner party itself. Tom complains that he knows their guests feel “contempt” (159) for him. Embarrassed, Jerry and Charlotte quietly let themselves out of the house. When Tom and Tara come downstairs to find their guests gone, they are initially aghast but then begin to laugh.
Kate continues her therapy sessions with Carlos, unpacking the success of Cheating against the revelation of Jack’s affair with the show’s creator. She notes that Jack must have relayed to his mistress a very private story about a disastrous dinner party involving a baby monitor, which Jack had never shared with anyone else.
While venting her frustration to Carlos, Kate has a sudden realization: although the show’s dialogue is perfectly accurate, its visual details are inaccurate. The actors, clothes, and depiction of their house bear no resemblance to their real-life counterparts. She speculates that the writer of the show could hear what was going on between Kate and Jack, but she just couldn’t see them. This leads Kate to realize what was done to her. She abruptly ends her therapy after reaching this conclusion.
The backstory of Kate and Jack’s university days immediately recontextualizes their characters, revealing that their relationship was founded on a shared transgression against Jack’s ex-girlfriend. While Jack’s death and the subsequent revelation of his betrayal made Kate’s character sympathetic, the revelation of her possessiveness and her manipulative nature reverses any sympathy the narrative intends to elicit from the reader. Kate’s flashback to her university days opens with the immediate, possessive certainty she feels upon first seeing Jack, calling him “mine” (121) before acknowledging he is already committed to someone else. This declaration establishes her narrative voice as one of absolute self-conviction, framing a calculated campaign of seduction and betrayal as a matter of destiny. By presenting her desire as a pre-existing claim, Kate’s retrospective account is a form of self-justification. She positions her actions, from insinuating herself into Sarah’s life to ultimately initiating an affair, as the necessary fulfillment of an inevitable bond. This reveals Kate’s true narrative function as an unreliable narrator and as an antihero. Kate’s story of their origins is less a confession than a carefully curated defense, designed to present her ruthlessness as romantic determination and her choices as the only ones possible for her to achieve happiness. This complicates the idea of her as a clear protagonist seeking justice for a fault performed against her.
The elaborate shoplifting scheme to secure an architecture book for Jack reveals the depths of Kate’s capacity for theatrical manipulation. In her telling, faking a dramatic faint is a performance she coolly judges as “an absolute classic, one of my very best” (134). Her pride in her own deception emphasizes a calculated and amoral approach to achieving her goals. This incident directly precipitates a cycle of retaliation, fulfilling Sarah’s later, public denunciation of Kate as someone who will “shoplift and lie” (150). Sarah’s two-week campaign of stalking and harassment, culminating in the seminar confrontation, becomes a desperate, public response to Kate’s private machinations. This pattern of transgression and disproportionate response drives the theme of The Escalating Cost of Revenge. Kate’s initial acts of deception and betrayal provoke a proportionate reaction from Sarah, establishing a destructive cycle that will resurface decades later with far greater consequences.
Though the novel has yet to explicitly tie Kate’s transgressive character to Phoebe, the recontextualization of Kate’s character also unlocks a new perspective on the show Cheating. As Kate confirms within this section, the scene that takes place in Chapter 3 is directly taken from life, echoing an experience that she and Jack once shared. However, this moment is also a formal commentary on the novel’s central concerns. The scene, in which guests at a dinner party overhear their hosts’ vicious argument via a baby monitor, dramatizes the accidental intrusion into a fiercely private space. By rendering this intimate conflict in the impersonal, dialogue-driven format of a script, the chapter strips the moment of interiority and presents it as a performance. At the same time, the show’s exposition of Kate’s secrets unlocks aspects of her unreliable narration that wouldn’t have been revealed to the reader otherwise. The show thus becomes an exposé into Kate and Jack’s moral bankruptcy, showing how little they care for each other as an extension of their narcissism and possessiveness. The screenplay that dramatizes scenes from the show acts as a meta-narrative device, exploring The Ethics of Publicizing Private Lives in Art by demonstrating how easily authentic domestic conflict can be reframed as spectacle.
Kate’s therapy sessions give her a space to expand her narration without fear of judgment. Essentially, Carlos must react towards Kate in a way that the reader cannot: openly and uncritically. These qualities give Kate the mental space to realize the minute differences between the show’s depiction of her and her reality. Kate’s realization transforms the show from an all-knowing chronicle of her betrayal into a flawed document containing clues to Phoebe’s true motivations. It empowers Kate, turning her into a detective with a lead to follow. This motivation is rooted in character traits that the flashback chapters establish. In the 1980s, she undertook what she benignly calls “a form of detective work” (122) to learn about Sarah and Jack, a process that involved stalking and systematic infiltration of Sarah’s life. Now, decades later, Kate finds herself the subject of a far more invasive and public form of surveillance. The tactics are inverted: where Kate once gathered information to possess Jack, an unknown antagonist has gathered information to dispossess her of their shared history. This recurring pattern of invasive observation and retaliatory exposure complicates Kate’s status as the subject of public humiliation. It suggests that the conflict driving the narrative is the long-delayed return of a destructive cycle she herself initiated years before.



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