PS: I Hate You

Lauren Connolly

PS: I Hate You

Lauren Connolly
60 pages2-hour read
Fiction
Novel
Adult
Published in 2024

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Character List

Meet the key characters, with insights into their roles, motivations, and relationships—spoiler-free.

Major Characters

Maddie is a 26-year-old woman struggling with the recent death of her older brother, Josh. She uses sarcasm, morbid humor, and a heavy workload to protect herself from emotional vulnerability and a deep-seated fear of abandonment caused by her neglectful upbringing. Tasked with traveling the country to spread her brother's ashes alongside a man she wants to avoid, she is forced out of her comfort zone.

Key Relationships

Sister of Josh Sanderson

Romantic Interest of Dominic Perry

Daughter of Cecilia

Granddaughter of Florence

Acquaintance of Rosaline

Best Friend of Jeremy

Best Friend of Tula

Employee of Pamela

Dominic is Josh's best friend and the executor of his will. Known for his responsible nature and need for control, he often sacrifices his own desires to do what he feels is right. He is steady, patient, and quietly grieving the loss of his best friend, remaining dedicated to fulfilling Josh's final travel requests despite Maddie's initial hostility.

Key Relationships

Romantic Interest of Maddie Sanderson

Best Friend of Josh Sanderson

Ex-husband of Rosaline

Older Brother of Adam

Older Brother of Carter

Son of Emilia

Son of Nathanial

Josh is Maddie's late brother who recently died from cancer just before his 30th birthday. In life, he was a natural comedian and a protective buffer for Maddie against their toxic family. In death, he orchestrates a cross-country scavenger hunt, leaving specific instructions that force his sister and his best friend to seize the moment and confront their grief.

Key Relationships

Brother of Maddie Sanderson

Best Friend of Dominic Perry

Close Friend of Rosaline

Son of Cecilia

Grandson of Florence

Supporting Characters

Rosaline is Dominic's elegant and poised ex-wife, possessing a natural affinity for people that exacerbates Maddie's insecurities. She is deeply affected by Josh's death and handles her grief with a grace that Maddie finds both awe-inspiring and intimidating.

Key Relationships

Ex-wife of Dominic Perry

Close Friend of Josh Sanderson

Acquaintance of Maddie Sanderson

Jeremy is Maddie's ex-boyfriend turned best friend who trains for marathons as a hobby. He is emotionally available, funny, and deeply loyal, offering a safe space for Maddie when she feels overwhelmed, even as she tries to hide the specifics of her travel arrangements from him.

Key Relationships

Best Friend of Maddie Sanderson

Friend of Tula

Boyfriend of Carlisle

Tula is one of Maddie's closest friends. She is a supportive presence who lovingly calls out Maddie's tendency to avoid her emotions, pushing her to take time off work and properly engage with her grief.

Key Relationships

Best Friend of Maddie Sanderson

Friend of Jeremy

Cecilia is Maddie and Josh's mother. An influencer who monetizes her life, she views her son's funeral primarily as an opportunity for social media engagement, prioritizing her online presence over her daughter's genuine need for comfort.

Key Relationships

Mother of Josh Sanderson

Daughter of Florence

Florence is Maddie and Josh's stern grandmother. She is a punitive, rule-bound guardian who raised the siblings with a lack of compassion, frequently locking them out of the house as punishment during their childhood.

Key Relationships

Grandmother of Maddie Sanderson

Grandmother of Josh Sanderson

Mother of Cecilia

Adam is one of Dominic's younger twin brothers. He is an aspiring Olympic swimmer who looks up to Dominic for advice, though he has always harbored a lingering crush and deep admiration for Maddie since she babysat him during a summer years ago.

Key Relationships

Brother of Dominic Perry

Twin Brother of Carter

Son of Emilia

Son of Nathanial

Carter is Dominic's younger twin brother who swims for the UPenn swim team. With Maddie's help during his childhood, he discovered a love for graphic novels that helped him manage his dyslexia, leading to his aspirations of becoming a writer.

Key Relationships

Brother of Dominic Perry

Twin Brother of Adam

Son of Emilia

Son of Nathanial

Emilia is Dominic's mother. Years ago, after she suffered a car crash that limited her mobility, Maddie spent the summer helping her around the house, forging a bond of genuine warmth that contrasts sharply with Maddie's own mother.

Key Relationships

Mother of Dominic Perry

Mother of Adam

Mother of Carter

Wife of Nathanial

Surrogate Mother to Maddie Sanderson

Nathanial is Dominic's father. A dedicated neurosurgeon, his demanding career sometimes keeps him away from family events, though he maintains a warm household alongside his wife.

Key Relationships

Husband of Emilia

Father of Dominic Perry

Father of Adam

Father of Carter

Pamela is Maddie's boss. She relies heavily on Maddie to keep the company running smoothly, inadvertently feeding into Maddie's need to feel indispensable and causing her to overwork herself rather than properly process her grief.

Key Relationships

Employer of Maddie Sanderson

Reggie is the owner of a tattoo shop in Topeka, Kansas. He and his wife owe Josh a favor after Josh photographed Reggie's proposal for free, a debt they repay by giving Maddie and Dominic their requested tattoos.

Key Relationships

Husband of Carmen

Acquaintance of Josh Sanderson

Carmen is Reggie's wife. She shares the story of how Josh kindly photographed her husband's proposal to her at Multnomah Falls, shedding tears at the news of Josh's passing.

Key Relationships

Wife of Reggie

Acquaintance of Josh Sanderson

Carlisle is Jeremy's boyfriend. He supports Jeremy and integrates into Maddie's close-knit friend group during their gatherings in Seattle.

Key Relationships

Boyfriend of Jeremy