Stay With Me

Ayobami Adebayo

45 pages 1-hour read

Ayobami Adebayo

Stay With Me

Fiction | Novel | Adult | Published in 2017

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Character List

Meet the key characters, with insights into their roles, motivations, and relationships—spoiler-free.

Major Characters

Yejide is an educated, hardworking woman running a successful hair salon near Ilesa. Having grown up motherless in an ostracizing polygamous household, she vehemently opposes the idea of her husband taking other wives. She feels immense social pressure to conceive a child after four years of marriage, a struggle that begins to deeply affect her mental health, leading to phantom physical symptoms and frantic visits to religious healers.

Key Relationships

Daughter-in-law of Moomi

Sister-in-law of Dotun

Mother of Olamide

Mother of Sesan

Mother of Rotimi

Friend of Iya Bolu

Follower of Prophet Josiah

Akinyele is a successful bank manager and the eldest son in his family. He carries the heavy expectations of his traditional mother to produce an heir and maintain the family's social standing. To protect his pride and hide medical issues regarding his own fertility, he resorts to increasingly desperate deceptions that fracture his marriage and endanger his household.

Key Relationships

Husband of Yejide

Son of Moomi

Husband of Funmilayo/Funmi

Brother of Dotun

Father of Olamide

Father of Sesan

Father of Rotimi

Brother-in-law of Henry

Client of Dr. Bello

Moomi is Akinyele's mother and the first wife of her husband's household. She places intense, unrelenting demands on her eldest son to provide grandchildren, viewing a man's worth entirely through his lineage. Her conditional love and constant meddling in her son's marital affairs create significant hardship for everyone involved.

Key Relationships

Mother of Akinyele/Akin

Mother-in-law of Yejide

Mother-in-law of Funmilayo/Funmi

Mother of Dotun

Funmilayo is a younger woman chosen by Akinyele's family to serve as his second wife in order to produce an heir. She initially agrees to live separately from the main household. Her unexpected arrival at Yejide's salon abruptly shatters the couple's monogamous arrangement and sparks a fierce domestic rivalry.

Key Relationships

Second wife of Akinyele/Akin

Rival of Yejide

Daughter-in-law of Moomi

Dotun is Akinyele's younger brother. He experiences severe professional and marital difficulties of his own, contrasting sharply with his older brother's outward financial success. He shares a complicated, resentful dynamic with Akinyele, rooted in their mother's high expectations and constant comparisons.

Key Relationships

Brother of Akinyele/Akin

Brother-in-law of Yejide

Son of Moomi

Supporting Characters

Olamide is the firstborn daughter of the family. Her arrival brings immense relief and temporary joy to the household, seemingly fulfilling the intense societal expectations placed upon her parents after years of struggle.

Key Relationships

Daughter of Yejide

Daughter of Akinyele/Akin

Sesan is the family's second child, whose arrival coincides with a period of financial prosperity and business expansion. He is a quiet boy who requires constant monitoring due to serious health issues.

Key Relationships

Son of Yejide

Patient of Dr. Bello

Rotimi is the youngest child in the household. Her birth forces a major shift in the family dynamics, leading her father to adopt unexpected, hands-on caregiving responsibilities as her mother struggles to cope with the family's past traumas.

Key Relationships

Daughter of Yejide

Daughter of Akinyele/Akin

Iya Bolu is a neighboring business owner and friend to Yejide. She is highly pragmatic and observant, taking local security threats seriously while others dismiss them. She provides blunt, unsolicited advice to Yejide regarding family matters and child-rearing.

Key Relationships

Friend of Yejide

Prophet Josiah is a traditional faith healer who operates a religious retreat in the mountains. He claims the ability to cure infertility through elaborate spiritual rituals, promising miracles to desperate women seeking children.

Key Relationships

Spiritual guide to Yejide

Henry is Akinyele's brother-in-law. He assists the family with heavy labor during times of mourning and strictly prefers to follow traditional Yorùbá burial customs over modern conveniences.

Key Relationships

Brother-in-law of Akinyele/Akin

Dr. Bello is a medical professional who oversees the health of the family's children. He interacts primarily with Akinyele regarding sensitive, private medical information, adhering to patriarchal communication norms.

Key Relationships

Doctor to Akinyele/Akin

Doctor to Sesan