The List of Things That Will Not Change

Rebecca Stead

48 pages 1-hour read

Rebecca Stead

The List of Things That Will Not Change

Fiction | Novel | Middle Grade | Published in 2020

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Character List

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Major Characters

Bea is a twelve-year-old girl reflecting on the years following her parents' divorce, which occurred when she was eight. She struggles with anxiety and a tendency to lash out physically when overwhelmed, though she possesses a deep capacity for empathy. Her life is split between her mother's apartment and her father's new home, requiring her to adjust to two different sets of rules and expectations. She relies on a therapist to manage her eczema flare-ups, her emotional reactions, and her adjustment to her father's upcoming wedding, while harboring intense, secret guilt over a past incident.

Key Relationships

Daughter of Mom

Daughter of Dad/Daniel

Prospective Stepdaughter of Jesse

Prospective Stepsister of Sonia

Patient of Miriam

Best Friend of Angus

Best Friend of Lizette

Cousin of Angelica

Friend of Sheila

Daniel is Bea's devoted father who owns and operates a restaurant named Beatrice. Following a near-death choking incident, he makes the choice to come out as gay, leading to his divorce from Bea's mother. He strives to maintain a stable, loving environment for Bea while building a life with his new partner. He often leaves food boxes from his restaurant in the fridge for Bea and her mother.

Key Relationships

Father of Bea

Ex-Husband of Mom

Partner of Jesse

Brother of Uncle Frank

Prospective Stepfather of Sonia

Uncle of Angelica

Jesse is Daniel's partner who moves into the new apartment, helping it feel more like a home for Bea. He works at Daniel's restaurant and genuinely cares for both Daniel and Bea, bonding with Bea over shared meals, including double-sided toast, and wedding planning. Jesse faces prejudice from his own family regarding his sexuality but remains a steady, comforting presence in his new household.

Key Relationships

Partner of Dad/Daniel

Prospective Stepfather of Bea

Father of Sonia

Brother of Sheila

Brother of Mission

Acquaintance of Mom

Sonia is Jesse's daughter from his previous marriage, living primarily in California with her mother. She is exactly Bea's age but proves difficult for Bea to read, often communicating through brief postcards rather than long letters. She experiences the stress of the geographical distance from her father and the anxiety of adjusting to a newly blended family structure.

Key Relationships

Daughter of Jesse

Prospective Stepsister of Bea

Prospective Stepdaughter of Dad/Daniel

Niece of Sheila

Niece of Mission

Acquaintance of Mom

Mom is a math teacher who shares custody of Bea following her divorce from Daniel. She encourages Bea to believe in herself and attempts to maintain a facade of strength, preferring to hide her sadness. She adjusts to living independently in the city, establishing her own routines while attempting to manage her persistent anxiety over unpredictable dangers, like a bat flying into the apartment.

Key Relationships

Mother of Bea

Ex-Wife of Dad/Daniel

Acquaintance of Jesse

Client of Miriam

Host to Lizette

Host to Angus

Supporting Characters

Miriam is a child therapist who helps Bea process her emotions following the divorce. She provides a safe, judgment-free space for Bea to discuss her anxieties and behavioral struggles, initially using gummy bears to encourage Bea's attendance. She teaches Bea strategies to manage her worrying and encourages her to consider the complex feelings of others.

Key Relationships

Therapist to Bea

Professional Contact of Mom

Professional Contact of Dad/Daniel

Sheila is Jesse's sister who initially works as Bea's babysitter before transitioning into a frequent family visitor. She is honest and emotionally expressive, offering Bea candid advice about life and family dynamics. She remains fiercely supportive of Jesse, planning the sunshine-themed details of his upcoming wedding with enthusiasm.

Key Relationships

Sister of Jesse

Twin Sister of Mission

Former Babysitter of Bea

Aunt of Sonia

Mission is Jesse and Sheila's brother who harbors deep prejudice against Jesse's sexuality. He estranged himself from his brother following Jesse's decision to come out for the second time. His absence from the wedding preparations casts a shadow over the family, prompting Bea to wonder about how family members can choose to abandon one another.

Key Relationships

Brother of Jesse

Twin Brother of Sheila

Uncle of Sonia

Uncle Frank is Daniel's brother and shares an exceptionally close bond with him dating back to their youth. He and his family spend their summers at a lake cabin, a tradition that continues after Daniel's divorce. He represents a model of unconditional sibling love that Bea deeply admires.

Key Relationships

Brother of Dad/Daniel

Husband of Aunt Ess

Father of Angelica

Father of James

Father of Jojo

Aunt Ess is Uncle Frank's wife. She attends the annual family summer gatherings at the lake cabin alongside her children and extended family, establishing a sense of continuity for the children.

Key Relationships

Wife of Uncle Frank

Mother of Angelica

James is one of Bea's cousins who frequently mocks her during their summer visits to the lake cabin. He targets Bea's changing family dynamic, specifically making fun of her father's sexuality and calling her "Ping Pong."

Key Relationships

Son of Uncle Frank

Cousin and Bully of Bea

Jojo is one of Bea's cousins. Along with his siblings, he stays at the sleeping loft in the family's lake cabin during their annual summer vacations, following his older siblings' social cues.

Key Relationships

Son of Uncle Frank

Cousin of Bea

Angelica is Bea's cousin who spends summers at the family's lake cabin. She frequently excludes Bea from activities with other girls, leading to tension between them. She later develops symptoms of a neurological condition causing her face to droop, prompting Bea to carry immense, secret guilt regarding a past altercation.

Key Relationships

Daughter of Uncle Frank

Cousin of Bea

Angus is one of Bea's best friends who accepts her despite her past mistakes and occasional outbursts. He serves as a reliable source of support, stepping up to defend Bea's family by bravely trying the oysters Jesse brings to their class breakfast.

Key Relationships

Best Friend of Bea

Friend of Lizette

Lizette is one of Bea's best friends who helps her maintain perspective on her parents' divorce. She frequently comes over for dinner and provides Bea with a grounded, optimistic view of her dual-household living situation. She helps Bea make heavy cream butter for a school project.

Key Relationships

Best Friend of Bea

Friend of Angus