The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry: How to stay emotionally healthy and spiritually alive in the chaos of the modern world

John Mark Comer

The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry: How to stay emotionally healthy and spiritually alive in the chaos of the modern world

John Mark Comer
48 pages1-hour read
Nonfiction
Book
Adult
Published in 2019

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Prologue-Part 1Chapter Summaries & Analyses

Prologue Summary & Analysis: “Autobiography of an Epidemic”

In the Prologue, John Mark Comer opens his analysis of the pace of modern life through sharing personal recollections. He describes his experience as a multi-site megachurch pastor in the Portland, Oregon metropolitan area, in which he was preaching at multiple services and attending meetings throughout the week. The relentless pace of this schedule, even though it matched the conventional picture of career success in American life, left him feeling empty and exhausted. He began to reconsider the path of his life: “I don’t actually want to be the CEO/executive director of a nonprofit/HR expert/strategy guru/leader of leaders, etc. Is this the way of Jesus?” (3). 


After several months of reflection, Comer decided to resign his position and to take a much smaller role as a single-church pastor in downtown Portland. He describes the effect this change has on his soul: “A life of speed isn’t easy to walk away from. But in time, I detox. Feel my soul open up […] Change is slow, gradual, and intermittent” (8). Eventually, he is able to come to a place where he can more readily feel the presence of God in his life. 


Convinced that his experience of exhaustion at the hectic pace of life is not atypical, Comer then moves from his own recollections to a brief reflection on life in 21st-century America. He invites his readers to consider whether their pace of life is too hectic, whether they are able to find restfulness and peace in the course of their daily schedules, with the assumption that most people in contemporary society will have to say “no.” The answer, Comer suggests, is to consider again the invitation of Jesus, who asks his hearers to come to him to find rest for their souls and to take up the “easy yoke” of following him. This invitation—a quotation from a Bible passage, Matthew 11:28-30—forms the core biblical exposition of Comer’s book. The solution to the exhaustion of our overwork, he suggests, is to heed the call of Jesus and take up his “easy yoke” by becoming an apprentice of his lifestyle. 


The importance of learning to Avoid the Trap of a Hurried Lifestyle is evident in Comer’s self-evaluation of his own life as a multi-site megachurch pastor. He shares stories of stress, burnout, and fatigue, along with the sense of missing one’s purpose that so often accompanies these symptoms. Most troubling for him, however, was his loss of a sense of God’s presence—his ability to “feel God.” Comer expects that most readers will have their own experiences that match much of what he is describing, and he invites readers to consider their current lives regarding the effects of hurry. Although contemporary American culture favors a hurried pace as a way to get more done, Comer contends that people end up losing those parts of life that are the most important. While frenetic multitasking might get more done, people also become less able to find the soulful peace they seek in life, and become shallower in their characters and emptier of contentment as a result. 


Comer also urges readers to Follow a Daily Apprenticeship to Jesus, accepting his offer of the “easy yoke.” While Comer does not yet stress his distinctive terminology of “apprenticeship,” the groundwork is being laid for his vision of the Christian life as one that believes the teachings of Jesus and emulates his lifestyle.


Chapter Lessons:

  • A relentless schedule, no matter how outwardly meaningful, can leave people feeling empty and exhausted.
  • Slowing down can allow a person to detox from stress and regain a sense of purpose.
  • Daily life in the 21st century is fixated on hurry and detrimental to a peaceful outlook.
  • Excessive multitasking can lead to a shallow, meaningless existence despite the illusion of productivity.


Reflection Questions:

  • What aspects of your own life force you to hurry and keep you from appreciating the things that are most important?
  • What detail(s) of your schedule can you eliminate in order to create enough space to slow down?

Part 1, Chapter 1 Summary & Analysis: “Hurry: The Great Enemy of Spiritual Life”

Comer opens Chapter 1 by recounting a conversation between two mentor figures in his life, John Ortberg and Dallas Willard. Ortberg asks Willard, “What do I need to do to become the me I want to be?” to which Willard replies, “You must ruthlessly eliminate hurry from your life” (18-19). This quote, which is the inspiration for the book’s title, leads Comer to an examination of the social and spiritual issues that the problem of hurry causes in contemporary society. He notes that most people, when asked how they are doing, will reply that they are doing well, but are busy. 


“Busyness” has become such an inextricable part of modern life that many people don’t even notice how much of a hold it has on their lives. This is true across most subsets of Western populations, including Christians (and especially, Comer notes, among pastors). However, there is a troubling problem there, because most of the highest values which Christians hold to—love, joy, peace, and so on—are all virtues that require deep attention to the present moment; they cannot be rushed. So if busyness and haste are among the defining attributes of modern culture, then it is a culture that will likely fail to produce the love, joy, and peace that are meant to be hallmarks of the Christian way of living. As Comer contends:


The message is clear [in our culture]: slow is bad, fast is good. But in the upside-down kingdom, our value system is turned on its head: hurry is of the devil, slow is of Jesus, because Jesus is what love looks like in flesh and blood. The same is true for joy and peace. (24) 


While some busyness is unavoidable in modern life, Comer insists that the way that the spirit of busyness has pervaded everything in our lives is a sign of its toxic effects. If busyness gives way to the disease of hurry, in which we are perpetually pulled to give our attention to the next task, the next new thing ahead of us, then we will find ourselves unable to live out the deepest principles of the kingdom of God.


Chapter 1 enjoins readers to Avoid the Trap of a Hurried Lifestyle. The first danger Comer points out is that hurry will make us unable to live in accordance with our own deepest values. Most of the things we say we prioritize in life—relationships, family, faith, and so on—are things that take significant time and deep attention, but a mindset of perpetual hurry leaves no room for such things. As such, life becomes an endless and exhausting parade of trivial things: the passing tasks that seem important in the moment but soon fade to insignificance in retrospect. This chapter also urges people to Live in the Present Moment. Comer lists the virtues of love, joy, and peace as necessary aspects of a life with God, but ones which only grow and bear fruit if we can slow down, stop living in the future, and give them the attention they deserve: “If there’s a secret to happiness, it’s simple—presence to the moment. The more present we are to the now, the more joy we tap into” (24).


Chapter Lessons:

  • “Ruthlessly eliminate hurry from your life” in order to become a better version of yourself.
  • “Busyness” is an intrinsic part of modern life, particularly in Western cultures.
  • Endlessly hurrying through life prevents people from focusing on deeper spiritual goals.
  • Only by consciously living in the present moment can people find true happiness.


Reflection Questions:

  • When you imagine becoming the best version of yourself, what attributes would you have? 
  • In your own past experience, how has the modern preoccupation with “busyness” created a “toxic” environment or an unpleasant moment for you or others?

Part 1, Chapter 2 Summary & Analysis: “A Brief History of Speed”

Comer offers a historical retrospective on the events that led to our culture’s current preoccupation with a hurried pace of life, going all the way back to the invention of the sundial in the ancient world. The ability to measure time led to continued progress in mechanizing that measurement and making use of those measurements, from the development of accurate clock technology in the Middle Ages to the creation of rigorous daily schedules in the Christian monastic tradition. Even by the time the early modern era came about, however, humans largely continued to keep a natural and moderate pace of life, to the point of regularly sleeping up to 11 hours a night. This began to change with the industrialization of society, and the changes accelerated through the 20th century. Whereas the expectation of most people in the mid-20th century was that increasing technological advancements would lead to more leisure time, the truth is that leisure time has consistently gone down across recent decades. 


With the advent of the 21st century and the nearly simultaneous emergence of social media and smartphones, all of these changes moved into an even higher gear: “All of this reached a climax in 2007. When the history books are written, they will point to ’07 as an inflection point on par with [the invention of the printing press in] 1440” (35). After 2007, people not only found their schedules jammed with more tasks, but began to discover that whatever leisure time they might have was almost entirely consumed by the new media technologies in their pockets. “To summarize,” Comer writes, “after millennia of slow, gradual acceleration, in recent decades the sheer velocity of our culture has reached an exponential fever pitch” (43). 


While Comer does not provide an in-depth exposition of how to Avoid the Trap of a Hurried Lifestyle here, he assumes hurry to be dangerous for the reasons he laid out in Chapter 1, and he provides his analysis as an explanation for how modern society created such a spiritually perilous situation. Similarly, his focus on how best to Live in the Present Moment is understated in this chapter, but its contours are already clearly visible in his treatment of the attention-corroding aspects of smartphone technology and social media. Comer notes that the average human attention span has dropped to eight seconds since the year 2000, less than the estimated attention span of a goldfish. Such a situation, he implies, is simply not conducive to being aware of our surroundings and invested in our most important relationships. 


Chapter Lessons:

  • The steadily accelerating pace of human life can be traced to society’s progressively more accurate methods of measuring time. 
  • Industrialization dramatically accelerated this trend, leading to less and less leisure time.
  • With the advent of the smartphone in 2007, society’s focus on “busyness” and marking time reached a new level of intensity as even people’s leisure time became governed by technology.
  • Human attention has suffered greatly in the wake of people’s wholesale embrace of smartphone technology and social media.


Reflection Questions:

  • If you were to eliminate all clocks, smartphones, and other time-measuring devices from your environment for a single day, how would these changes affect your outlook?
  • How much “screen time” do you log each day, and how does the omnipresence of technology affect your overall mood and mental health?

Part 1, Chapter 3 Summary & Analysis: “Something Is Deeply Wrong”

Comer continues his analysis of contemporary society’s fixation on speed, noting many of the deleterious effects of that preoccupation. From the 1950s onward, cultural analysts began to speak of the modern trend of hurry as a disease, one that could manifest in very real symptoms, such as an elevated risk of heart disease. Comer refers to it as “a form of violence on the soul” (47). 


Comer notes how widespread and ordinary this disease of hurry is, manifested in common behaviors like the proclivity to search for the shortest line when waiting for a stoplight or a grocery store checkout, or the habitual attempt to multitask rather than to devote one’s attention to one task at a time. Even if these common behaviors might not be true of every reader, Comer notes that the disease of hurry can show up in an array of possible symptoms, of which he lists 10: irritability, hypersensitivity, restlessness, workaholism, emotional numbness, disordered priorities, lack of care for one’s body, escapism, failure to maintain spiritual disciplines, and isolation. 


Due to the pervasive and overall toxic effects of these symptoms, Comer warns that the disease of hurry can ultimately kill all we hold dear: our relationships, our ability to feel joy and gratitude, and our pursuit of wisdom. The reason why hurry has such toxic effects on our spiritual and emotional lives is that it draws our attention away from the deep things that really matter, instead shifting our focus to an endless array of surface-level circumstances. The things we give our attention to shape our interior lives in a powerful way, and so if our attention is never oriented toward God, for example, we will likely never develop the awareness of God’s presence that is so crucial for a vibrant spiritual life.


In this chapter, Comer offers his clearest admonition to Avoid the Trap of a Hurried Lifestyle. He identifies the dangers of hurry as being present in almost every area of one’s life: physical health, relationships, emotional well-being, and spirituality. Hurry’s effects are so pervasive and so potentially toxic that they can lead to what Comer describes (quoting William Irvine) as “misliving” (56)—essentially, missing out on what life is really all about because we are focused on unimportant ephemera instead. As throughout the book, Comer stresses the outsized role that media technologies have played in producing this culture of hurry and divided awareness—an observation that sets the stage for some of his advice in subsequent chapters. The thematic emphasis on the dangers of hurry also leads Comer to reflect briefly on his desire that all people should Live in the Present Moment, noting that the problem of hurry ultimately leads us to a deficit of awareness of the most important things; this will be a foundational insight in his exploration of solutions in Part 2.


Chapter Lessons:

  • As modern society accelerated, cultural analysts began to consider this trend a “disease.”
  • Excessive hurry has grown to affect even the most inconsequential of moments, such as which checkout line to choose at the grocery store.
  • The “disease” of hurry can cause irritability, hypersensitivity, restlessness, workaholism, emotional numbness, disordered priorities, lack of care for one’s body, escapism, failure to maintain spiritual disciplines, and isolation.
  • Those who maintain a hurried lifestyle will never gain the awareness necessary to develop a deep relationship with God.


Reflection Questions:

  • Do you ever find yourself hurrying for no good reason? What tactics do you use to slow down a bit?
  • How has your busy schedule prevented you from focusing on matters of spirituality or other life priorities?
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